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How Spirit Guides Are Assigned To You | Primary Vs. Phase

by Athina Król

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In this session, I’ll walk you through how spirit guides are selected based on your soul blueprint, purpose, and karmic lessons. We explore primary guides, phase-based guides, ancestral support, and even “divine plan adjusters” who step in when life takes a detour (or quantum leap!). What We Cover - Understand how spirit guides are assigned pre-birth in collaboration with your Council of Light to support your soul mission and karmic lessons. - Learn the difference between primary guides (who stay with you for life) and phase-based guides who appear during key soul shifts and activations. - Discover why your soul chooses your personality, path, and gifts, before incarnation, and how your guides are matched accordingly. - Explore the roles of ancestral guides, angelic beings, cosmic support, and divine deities like Isis or Lakshmi in your spiritual team. - Find out what happens when you deviate from your soul path

SpiritualitySoul PurposeSpirit GuidesAncestral GuidesDivine PlanSoul BlueprintCouncil Of LightFree WillElemental GuidesDivine BeingsSpirit Guide AssignmentPrimary GuidesSecondary GuidesSoul ContractsDivine Plan AdjustersSpiritual TeamDivine InterferenceSpirit Guide Personalities

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Hello beautiful soul and welcome to this episode.

Today we're diving into how spirit guides are actually assigned to us because there is quite a few different ways that spirit guides come to us.

It's very much not random,

It's very very intentional,

Very clear and it's very dependent on what it is that you're needing,

Your soul blueprint,

Your soul mission,

What you came here to do in this lifetime.

And there are also different kinds of spirit guides to know and understand depending on what you've chosen for this lifetime.

Spirit guides are like the mentors,

The teachers,

Even coaches sometimes.

They're the overseers of your path that you have chosen.

They are not protectors who intervene constantly,

They definitely can on occasion but for the most part they're gonna let you have your free will and do what you need to.

And they're not also our genies,

You know,

Who we can just call for and ask for wishes.

They absolutely do support us in aligned opportunities and support our manifestations but it's always a co-creation,

So it's up to us to do the work.

But I want to dive into today a little bit about what it's like with our spirit guides and how they're chosen.

So the main place where your guides come from,

How they're assigned to you is actually pre-birth,

So this is prior to your incarnation.

And you have what is essentially a meeting with your council of light,

Right?

So these are going to be beings like your soul family,

Beings that you've had many lifetimes with,

Higher spiritual guides as well.

You're going to be having a meeting with them and a lot of this meeting is going to do with your previous incarnation that you experience where you talk about what was learned,

What remains unfinished and what is now possible.

So there's a real focus on what you can now experience,

Go through,

Integrate,

Lessons.

We always choose lessons.

There's always a core lesson underlying each lifetime and a core purpose as well.

Oftentimes the lesson and the purpose overlap.

So we choose here,

This is where we also choose our soul purpose and a lot of this is based on the soul gifts we have from previous lifetimes,

So how we can actually utilize who we are,

The gifts we have,

The skills we have to support earths or wherever it is that we are actually incarnating into.

The soul also then goes on and chooses what themes you want to experience,

What qualities you want to develop,

Capacities you want to expand,

But you also choose your personality.

So we choose our specific personality based on all of which we want to experience and also the path and purpose that we want to walk.

So at this point you really mapped out a life plan essentially.

This is a soul's plan.

I call this the divine plan essentially and it holds all the information for how you're going to utilize your soul gifts,

Your soul lesson,

Your soul purpose,

All of it right.

This is the divine plan that you've written out and I actually have a process in my Atlantean Abundance Codex,

It's free,

That helps you uncover this divine plan.

Once this divine plan is actually mapped out and it's all clear,

Everybody's happy,

You're like yes,

I'm excited,

This is what I want to do,

Let's jump into this lifetime.

At this point you start to have some matching with guides.

Now some of your guides like your soul family,

They're going to continue working with you right because there's a soul level resonance,

There is a monadic connection and so they are going to continue with you regardless.

However,

You are going to need guides and support that is going to be matched based on the level of soul development you need,

The type of guidance that is required and the specific work that you're doing.

So for example,

If you've chosen to be in a lifetime where there's going to be a lot of leadership,

You're probably going to be assigned guides who understand power,

Responsibility,

Right,

Those kinds of themes.

Or if it's you've chosen a lifetime where you're a healer,

You're going to have guides who are going to help you walk that path and most likely journey through your own healing because a lot of healers choose to walk through that first,

That's actually part of their divine plan before stepping into healing work.

Now I always say that we actually have a lot of guides,

You know,

You don't just have four,

You have a lot because once you incarnate you're also incarnated into the ancestral lineage and you begin working with those ancestors as well.

So with these guides that you're given,

The primary ones surrounding your divine plan are really your primary guides.

So these are the ones who are going to be with you long term,

They're the ones most likely you've worked with across many lifetimes,

They've supported you before,

They're very familiar with you and they tend to oversee the entire incarnation,

They hold your soul's blueprint and their job is to keep you aligned with your divine plan and help you do and achieve everything you came here to do,

Right?

So they are your primary guides and people can have different amounts of primary guides,

You'll at least have two but you can have many more depending on what you need and what you're doing in this lifetime.

But they're the ones that you're born with,

That you're going to have for the rest of your life,

That aren't going anywhere because you really need their help and support with the entire life path and they're the type of guides who are amazing to connect to,

To understand your soul purpose,

Your soul path,

What you're here to do,

How it's meant to look,

All of these questions,

Those guides are amazing for.

I often talk about having a soul purpose guide,

Most people do and this soul purpose guide is usually a primary guide who is very clear on your soul purpose,

What you came here to do and is here to support you to actually step into it.

Now at this point you might also be assigned secondary or phase-based guides,

So these are guides who specifically appear at certain points in your life,

So you might not need them the first 10 years,

20 years,

40 years,

60 years,

You might need them at specific times like after you move through an initiation,

An activation into a next level of your identity,

Into a specific assignment,

Like when you actually step into your soul purpose there might be a whole lot more guides coming through.

Your soul might have decided,

Okay I'm going to spend the first 40 years of my life mastering the third dimension,

Mastering healing and then at 40 I'm going to have a huge awakening and I'm going to completely shift the trajectory of my life and start to walk down the spiritual path because that's going to give me a really good balance that my soul needs.

So when you turn 40 or even the years leading up to it,

Because oftentimes when I channel for people and I can see they're about to approach a transition,

They will already have that guide working with them,

So they'll be in their field saying we're preparing them for this new phase,

For this new shift,

For this new identity,

So if that soul wants to have that specific awakening at 40 it might be at say age 38 or even 35 that these guides come in and start to prepare and these guides typically hold quite a strong presence within the spiritual team because their energy is new,

It's clear,

It's purposeful,

Sometimes the primary guides can,

They're always there but energetically they can almost step back unless they're really really needed,

They're more just overseeing,

But these secondary phase-based guides because they're like oh I've come in now because I'm needed,

It's very clear,

During channelings these are often the guides that first stand out because they're like hey I'm here for a reason,

This person is moving through this,

They're activating this,

They're shifting this,

Sometimes we might have guides that are just specifically here for childhood right,

For a child that is super sensitive and needs extra support they might be assigned a specific guide for that and look here when I say guides I really am talking about all the different types of guides that you might have,

We're talking here about even angels right because we can have angelic guides,

Yes we have guardian angels,

Everybody has one of those but we also have guides who come as angels,

So guides span across a whole range of dimensions,

Some of those can be cosmic guides,

Pleiadian guides,

Syrian guides,

Some of those can be angels,

Some of those can be more earth-based elemental guides,

Some of those can be higher goddess energies like Isis or Hecate for example,

So I'm really here talking about all different types of guides including angels,

So you might have guides also step forward when you step into a different form of divine service and you can see that new skills are needed,

These are still all pre-determined right,

So this is created before you are actually born based on the divine plan that you create,

You write out and you say yep this is what I want to do,

This is what we're going to experience and based on that you're given these guides,

Now fortunately and sometimes unfortunately in this realm,

In this reality you have something called free will right,

And the way that we look at free will spiritually is a little bit different than the way from a human lens we think about free will right,

Which is I have the right to live my life however I desire and make the choices that I desire for myself,

That's free will,

And in this realm we are gifted the opportunity to make the unaligned choice,

The unaligned decision,

In higher realms,

Higher dimensional spaces there is only the aligned choice right,

It doesn't exist to make a choice that is not of highest alignment,

For this reason the concept of free will is a little bit different from a spiritual choice because there is a spiritual perspective sorry,

Because there is only divine will and so I should say we have free will but we have human will right,

We can have divine will but we also experience human will,

Which means at any point you can change this divine plan,

Yep you have absolute freedom to change your divine plan,

This is where the conversation of fate and destiny also comes in because there are some along your divine plan you would have set as well the soul contracts that you have with other people,

The relationships,

When you're meant to meet them,

How you're meant to experience that in your lifetime,

But you and those would be fated encounters right,

Fated experiences that are tied in,

You're not going to miss those no matter what you do,

You can't miss them,

The universe,

Your guides,

They're going to make sure those happen,

But when that encounter comes forward let's say you meet your soul partner and you experience that deep divine connection,

Soul recognition,

Full love,

All of it that experience,

Even though it might feel amazing and aligned,

You still have free will to say no thank you,

I don't want this and in that free will you have opportunity to say no to anything,

Even if it is highest aligned,

You might understand what your soul purpose is and say no thank you,

I can at any point say no thank you,

I don't want this path,

I have absolute free will to do that.

Now I don't recommend it because it is choosing the harder way of life because when we are soul aligned everything that is meant for us in this lifetime,

The divine plan unfolds for us right and it's the path that has the most joy,

The most soul connections,

The most growth,

The most abundance and not choosing that can be very difficult but we have freedom to choose the unaligned path,

The difficult path.

So in this free will sometimes we might go a different way,

We might delay,

We might say no to something that we're meant to say yes,

Sometimes there might be a traumatic unexpected experience that occurs,

That does happen because there is free will of other people on this planet as well and something might occur which means you need different guides,

You need new guides to come in and support you through what you're moving through right now and so those will be guides that your higher self will look down and say okay we need some help here,

We need some new guides to come in and support this soul for what they're currently moving through,

What they're needed and again their highest intention will be to get you back on your divine plan.

So these guides will usually,

They're like divine plan adjusters so they will be there putting,

Sometimes it feels like they're putting up roadblocks,

You're like okay i'm here to be a healer but you know what i'm gonna actually start a business as a business coach because that seems like a really good way to make money and spirit is going no no don't do that there's more abundance on your on your soul align path and so these soul divine plan adjusters they'll come in and they'll start putting up blocks and going no don't go that way follow the divine plan and they will help you get whatever healing support assistance that is needed for you to come back into alignment.

So that is one type of guide that we see come in sometimes and i have seen this before not because we don't just want to look at you know misaligning with the divine plan but sometimes you exceed the divine plan you're an A plus soul here and you've set all these goals set all these achievements for what your soul wants to experience learn go through and you've passed with flying colors and your guides are looking down like wow well done and then there is space oftentimes this is when and i've seen this as well they will actually add to your divine plan they will add in and go well she's got all this space and time now because she's moved through this we think that this will be for her highest best and your higher self will make that decision for your highest alignment and you will have guides come in to support you with that so that's also when you guys can show up and those guides will often show up with okay well done you've been doing great now we've got another assignment for you right so that's how they can show up you can also with your beautiful free will that you have choose guides you can open up a book about spirit guides and go you know what i really like this type of guide chances are you're drawn to them because they're already your guide but you can decide you know what Lakshmi works with abundance let me ask Lakshmi to be one of my spirit guides and they you know she may or may not accept most of the time they do you call in for assistance and they might help they might be a temporary guide or they there might be a longer term alignment there as well so guides will always come when you ask for help but how long they stick around really depends on your divine plan how they they're needed or the type of relationship you're wanting to build with them and one other thing i should mention when you are born your ancestors come in to be your guides as well so it ends up making quite a big spiritual team where you've got the ancestors you've got your angels you've got your highest self your soul family and all of these beautiful guides which are mentoring teaching and assisting you on your journey and if we really look at that concept of free will that you have here and that most people are disconnected from their channel which each one of us has and the information of our soul it's very easy to get misaligned from the soul path i'd say majority of humans get misaligned from their soul path it's very rare that someone knows their soul path from childhood walks it with ease and follows that path perfectly and i you know even i haven't done that perfectly i would absolutely say i was someone who from a very young age knew what i was put here to do because this is part of my purpose right and i followed for the most part that path very well but it doesn't mean i didn't take human detours and go oh maybe i should pursue this or maybe i should go that way and each time spirit was like nah get back on a path so it's very very easy to fall into misalignment because we can be disconnected from that divine plan that we receive through channeling and through knowing our soul and guides they do interfere to a degree but they can't interfere to a certain level right because again you have free will if you've decided i'm rejecting my divine plan i don't want it i don't want that they have to respect your wishes right you have free will however if you've said to them i want support being on my divine plan i want support being in alignment with my soul purpose they're going to start to put up blocks and remove what isn't in alignment with that so you have to ask your guides for support they need that free will that consent from you otherwise they're really just holding the structure and putting in opportunities people in front of you that you need but you have free will to say yes to those people and opportunities or bypass them completely and with all these spirit guides you're also going to have a lot of different personalities experiences with how they are and who they connect some guys will absolutely be that typical warm fuzzy comforting soothing presence other guides are very direct to the point they're like they're very just here's the truth this is what you need to do stop messing around get on path i don't say it like that but there is definitely a much stronger energy behind it so in all my years of channeling it's always something that really entertains me it's the different personalities that come through my favorite i love to channel elementals because oftentimes they are very funny and they enjoy to make to make others laugh i remember doing a trans telling once with an elemental being and they just wanted to make everyone laugh in the room and they were having so much fun and i could just feel the joy expanding through the laughter of every single person in the room and the being themselves they were everybody was just laughing and it was so joyous so sometimes they can be quite comedic other times they're stern i was channeling last night and i had a guide show up and i went to connect with my spirit guides for a specific intention there was something that i really wanted to discuss and he came in and he introduced himself it was a new guide one i hadn't met before um and he came in and he's like i've come in to teach you some things sit down you're going to learn now and i went okay i wanted to ask my other guide some questions he's like not now now you listen and went into like this long lecture and i was absorbing it all gratefully obviously and then when i thought he was done i was like okay thank you so much i'm gonna go talk to my other guides and he said we're not done lesson still continues and he just kept going and teaching me and educating me so guides come in all different forms in different ways and they give us what they need and through their own energetic lens based on how they connect with us how they operate and what we need and please don't expect guides to always just be soft fluffy chatty comforting some of them are very direct very to the point they don't fluff around and sometimes even with urgency they're like okay listen up this is what you need to do this is what you need to get done and some of them can be very emotional like i've cried in so many trans channelings because of the love that just pours through as i'm as i'm doing it so it's a beautiful reminder that you are so deeply supported so deeply loved you are surrounded by a spiritual team with who holds that divine plan that you chose before you incarnated that holds that highest timeline highest self-potential your job is to align with it and know that your spirit team is constantly working with you to align you to it if you want to make it easier on yourself make sure you ask for full support say i request divine interference to support me with walking my soul path and fully embodying my divine plan be aware though when you say that if there is a lot that is out of alignment in your life right now it's going to fall apart and the first part of that is not always easy but what comes after is always always worth it and please know that your divine plan it shouldn't be a mystery it should be something that you can access with ease like i said i have a free process to do that and also i would really invite you along with asking your guides to come in and support you is keep saying to yourself i choose my divine plan i choose my divine plan and every moment you're choosing timelines you're choosing potentials that you are stepping into so even just making that choice every single day that's going to rearrange we're going to have the universe to rearrange itself around you for you to embody that so i'm sending you so much love beautiful soul thank you for being here

Meet your Teacher

Athina KrólSydney, NSW, Australia

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Juany

February 14, 2026

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February 12, 2026

✨💖 Wow, this was so great!! ✨ Thank you, Athena!! 💖✨

Mitch

February 12, 2026

Was referred by a friend and what a treat. I didn’t have a clean grasp on Guides before but now I feel confident in where I want to start exploring. Namaste 🙏

Joyce

February 11, 2026

This is fascinating! I'd really like to know what my Devine path is for this next phase of life. Please advise. Blessings to you 🙏🏽✨🙏🏽

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