Hello and welcome to this activation on self-honoring.
I invite you to take a few deep breaths.
Listen and allow the energy,
The frequency that this message carries to be invited into yourselves.
Hi divine human.
I see it everywhere and I see it within myself.
The go along with the pack thing.
The I should do this thing.
The I have to do this thing.
Especially around the holidays.
We are a tribe and belonging is a thing so it's natural and of course there are times we do what we don't want to do in life that requires strength but I'm here to call us into something better.
Radical self-honoring.
When we set an intention,
When we make a higher choice like saying aloud,
I choose to honor myself,
Then all the crud that is between us and that choice come to the surface to be purified,
Loved through us.
There is nothing wrong with us in this process.
This process is called expansion.
But as an old therapist said to me once,
We can either have the discomfort of choosing ourselves or the discomfort of disowning and abandoning ourselves to keep the perceived peace which really isn't peace.
What I've seen recently in my own awakening is that peace is this little light feeling that bubbles up when I finally choose myself.
When I am patient with that choice and let my body catch up to the newfound trust it has in me.
When we are dishonoring ourselves innocently for years to keep up with the pack,
Then our body starts to lose trust and it so wisely goes into dysregulation.
It can do wild things to try to keep us safe in the form of symptoms,
Anxiety,
Depression,
Etc.
When we don't listen to our needs it does things to help us in the name of what it deems safe.
It's very uncomfortable but it's loving and innocent.
For example,
My back goes out,
I get sick,
I have wild symptoms when I go too fast and listen to others speed,
Try to power through to be cool like the rest of them,
Say yes to things I don't really want to because I should be more capable,
Able,
Cooler,
Stronger.
My body is wanting me to fully learn to say I am enough,
I am lovable and whatever the light aligned inner whisper is telling me to do I shall listen.
Now when we listen it might not be easy,
The people around us are used to us going along and not choosing what feels light,
Best and aligned in our own body.
We don't have to be an a-hole,
We can be strong in our power in a soft and steady way.
But my God,
When we choose ourselves our body starts to feel safe.
We feel like someone has our back,
We matter and someone cares about us.
This is self-love,
This is where real love and peace and freedom live.
Not out there but in here,
Learning to listen over and over again to what we need,
Our own flow,
Pace,
Rhythm,
Desires,
Yeses,
Nos and the like.
It's in there,
It's just about reconnection to it,
Re-trust in it and patience and the integration.
You are worthy and deserving of being honored.
When you honor you it is a win-win for everyone,
Not the other way around.
You have the strength required to go along this path and you will be a beacon of light for others who are wishing to finally choose themselves and know it's okay.
Love you,
Me.
Take a deep breath,
Allow the energy to integrate,
The energy of self-honoring.
If this topic and activation stirred something in you and resonated with you I highly recommend one of my two courses on self-love.
It's an opportunity for us to practice that inner self-honoring state.
Profound healing through self-love or five days to activate confidence through self-love on this app are the ones I would recommend for now for you.
Be well and I will see you soon in another meditation or activation.
