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Are You Allowing Others To Undermine You In Relationships

by Shilpa Mukerji

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This talk came through me for you from the Divine and I know I pray it gives you what you need at this moment. Bless you all. Stay true to yourself, value yourself and others, and look at the bigger picture. Lots of Love and Blessings, Shilpa.

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Transcript

Hello,

My beautiful souls.

Let's see what messages are coming through.

You are good enough.

Yes,

You are.

Your commitment is being tested.

Nothing will come of this situation.

So clearly this is about like your worth,

You know,

Are you selling yourself short for somebody?

Are you allowing behavior that is not appropriate or that is undermining you as a person?

Sometimes we need to know when to walk away and when to claim our worth and when to say,

Am I committed to myself?

I think that's what it's saying.

Are you committed to yourself?

Your commitment is being tested or are you just going to allow people to be,

You know,

Not fair and treat you less than and it's saying nothing will come of the situation.

So walk away,

My darlings.

If this is undermining your self-worth,

Who you are,

You need to let it go because that is not a healthy relationship and that is not for you.

You deserve everything good.

You are worthy and nothing less will do.

Look at the bigger picture.

Yeah,

Look at like maybe you're feeling really sad that somebody rejected you but look at the bigger picture and look at yourself five years from now,

You know,

Whatever it is that it has made you feel less than and ask yourself first of all,

Is it going to matter in the long run?

Is this rejection really going to hurt you in the long run or is it actually better for you in the bigger picture?

Is this actually a blessing in disguise?

Ask yourself these questions.

I think they're very important and sometimes we're like feeling bad that somebody left us because our ego is hurt not because you see the bigger picture.

If you saw the bigger picture,

You'd know that this person actually did you a favor by walking out of your life because there's something better there for you.

You are worthy of something much better.

You in any way you don't want anybody who wants who doesn't want you.

Let them go.

Let them walk.

They don't deserve you.

Anyway,

Let them walk.

Okay,

Or if you're the one who has been unkind or there's a reason they walked away from you.

Look at the bigger picture of your life and ask yourself is this who you want to be and is that going to bring you the life that you want or do you need to change something?

So there's a flip side to everything and we're all all these things right where sometimes the one who's been rejected or sometimes we're the one who has walked away for different reasons.

Sometimes we hurt others.

Sometimes they hurt us.

So that's the bigger picture also like look at it in a balanced way.

Don't be like short-sighted about whatever it is in your life.

Look at the bigger picture about this person balance it out.

Have they been better nicer to you than they have hurt you or have they only hurt you and hardly hardly given you anything,

You know,

So that is what is coming up here.

You need to examine this and you need to understand your own worth and you need to understand the worth and value of others.

So if you're mistreating people don't do it.

Okay,

Or if others are undermining you undervaluing you just hold on to your own worth and if they're walking away,

Let them walk.

All right,

My darlings.

That's a very powerful message.

Love this message.

Look at the bigger picture of your life all my love and blessings my darlings.

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Take care.

Meet your Teacher

Shilpa MukerjiMumbai, Maharashtra, India

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Recent Reviews

Linda

November 15, 2025

I like the overall message of looking at the bigger picture of my life. Thank you.

Mi-Ri

December 13, 2024

I looove the message to see both sides and be honest and balanced in our approach. To see the WHOLE picture, accept it and move forward! See my role to change that, really craft who I want to be and how I’m currently treating and valuing myself and others!

Delphine

September 27, 2024

What a powerful message: looking at the bigger picture! So true. Thank you for that reminder🙏💫✨

Clive

September 16, 2024

Thank you for these timely words of wisdom Shilpa, they have come at exactly the right time. Namaste 🙏🏾☀️

Yvonne

August 31, 2024

Could be the best thing you will ever do is walk away. The Divine works in mysterious ways

Becca

August 4, 2024

Presented with confidence and conviction. Thank you. ❤️

Melinda

April 19, 2024

Just what I needed to hear at just the right moment. I'm so appreciative of you & the work you do ♡

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