
Healing From The Wound Of Rejection: Self-Acceptance
by Kais Sellami
This calming practice supports the gentle healing of rejection by guiding you toward self-acceptance and emotional resilience. Through simple visualization and steady breathwork, you are invited to release old feelings of unworthiness and soften into a kinder inner dialogue. As you reconnect with compassion and restore a sense of belonging, the heart gradually opens to a quieter balance where healing can unfold naturally, offering space for reflection and ease.
Transcript
Have you ever felt set aside,
As if you weren't heard,
Or as if your needs and feelings went unnoticed by others?
Have you ever felt the need to distance yourself from situations where you might be judged,
Rejected or misunderstood,
Preferring solitude to the fear of being hurt by others?
This is what we call the wound of rejection and the mask of the avoider that we sometimes adopt to protect ourselves.
In this nocturnal meditation,
I will guide you through a path of awareness.
You will learn to recognize this mask,
Understand its origins,
And discover how you can remove it to reveal your true self,
A self capable of loving and being loved without fear of rejection.
This guided nocturnal meditation works on your unconscious.
I advise you to practice it for at least 30 days to optimize the results.
Moreover,
It's not a problem if you fall asleep during the meditation.
Your unconscious always takes over.
Now,
Make yourself comfortable.
The meditation will soon begin.
Close your eyes.
Let yourself be carried away by the natural rhythm of your breathing.
Imagine yourself sitting or lying in a serene environment,
Surrounded by a cloud of conscious energy.
This cloud is warm and benevolent.
It is a pure manifestation of well-being and love,
Ready to envelop you with gentleness and tenderness.
Begin by immersing your feet in this soft cloud.
Feel its caressing texture,
Its enveloping warmth that gently encompasses your feet.
This conscious energy begins to dissolve any tension,
Any accumulated stress,
Bringing a sensation of deep well-being.
Let this cloud of energy rise gradually,
Encompassing your ankles,
Weaving around your calves.
With each centimeter it rises,
It carries relaxation and liberation.
It dissolves worries and fatigue,
Leaving behind a sensation of lightness and peace.
Now imagine the cloud continuing its ascent,
Enveloping your knees,
Caressing your thighs.
Feel the warmth that spreads,
A warmth that deeply relaxes the muscles,
Soothes tensions and invites letting go.
As this benevolent energy cloud reaches your pelvis and lower back,
Allow all rigidities to dissolve in its warmth.
It's as if each part of you could finally surrender,
Melt into this enveloping tenderness.
The cloud rises further,
Surrounding your abdomen,
Your chest,
In a gentle and comforting movement.
Each breath allows you to immerse yourself more deeply in this sensation of well-being,
Freeing your heart and mind from everything that weighs on you.
The ascent continues,
Encompassing your shoulders,
Flowing down your arms to your hands,
Filling each finger with comforting warmth.
You feel these areas completely relax,
Your thoughts slow down.
The benevolence of the energy rises to your neck,
Your throat,
Relaxing this area often knotted by unexpressed words.
Then it envelops your face,
Releasing expressions of tension,
Bringing softness and serenity to your face,
Your forehead,
Your cheeks.
The energy cloud covers the top of your head,
Bathing your mind in a warm glow,
Offering deep tranquility to your entire head.
You are completely immersed in this sensation of complete relaxation,
Bathed by the consciousness and warmth of this benevolent cloud.
Your unconscious is wide open now,
And as you find yourself in this space of deep relaxation,
Allow yourself to begin a journey toward healing the wound of rejection.
Can you perceive this wound of rejection,
As well as the mask of the avoider that you may have worn to protect yourself?
Try to perceive these aspects of yourself without judgment,
Just with loving curiosity.
Feel a mix of emotions,
This is perfectly normal.
Allow yourself to simply welcome them with gentleness,
Let all bodily and energetic sensations emerge to the surface.
Simply note what happens.
I invite you to let memories or moments from your past rise to your consciousness.
Perhaps there are experiences with your family,
Your friends,
Or during your childhood that have contributed to this wound of rejection.
Let these images come to you at your own pace,
Always without judging them.
Now,
Invite all the emotions that wish to manifest.
Perhaps it is anger,
Or sadness,
Or even a need for forgiveness,
Or love.
It is possible that some emotions are difficult to welcome.
If that is the case,
Give yourself permission to let them emerge little by little.
Observe without attaching yourself to them,
In order to simply allow them to be,
Then to dissipate.
How do you feel now,
Allowing yourself this space of healing and growth?
Visualize yourself at the top of a hill,
Facing the horizon that stretches before you.
Take this moment to envision your future freed from the wound of rejection.
Know that you are creating this future.
The brain does not distinguish between visualization and reality.
You are the architect of your destiny at this precise moment.
What version of yourself do you see?
What kind of relationship do you find yourself in now that you are freed from the wound of rejection and that you are no longer avoiding?
What activities fill your days now that you feel confident,
Unified,
Solid,
And complete?
With this confidence in yourself that continues to grow inside,
You are creating your reality.
Allow yourself to receive.
It is your right to happiness.
You are a powerful creator in letting go of your visualizations,
Knowing that the universe conspires for their realization.
Each thought,
Each image that you have cultivated is now in the hands of benevolent forces working toward their materialization.
Allow yourself to be grateful toward yourself for having undertaken this inner journey and toward these forces for their constant support.
Now,
I invite you to sink even deeper into your bed.
Imagine a blanket of security and softness enveloping you,
Cradling each part of your being in a state of total relaxation.
Breathe deeply and let each breath bring you closer to a peaceful and restorative sleep.
Let confidence,
Serenity,
And tranquility become the cornerstones of your rest.
You are in perfect safety.
You are loved.
You are at home in this space of calm.
And if you are not yet asleep,
Please repeat the following positive affirmations.
Your unconscious will take over.
I allow myself to recognize my worth.
I receive unconditional love.
I celebrate myself for my strength and resilience,
Embracing myself in my totality.
I receive with gratitude the lessons of my past,
Transforming them into wisdom.
I allow myself to be vulnerable.
I find strength in my sensitivity.
I accept myself with compassion.
I am worthy of love and respect,
Just as I am.
I allow myself to freely express my emotions.
I open myself to new opportunities with confidence and optimism.
I receive abundance in all aspects of my life.
I allow myself to live fully.
I celebrate every moment.
I cultivate enriching relationships based on trust and authenticity.
I recognize my own inner strength.
I allow myself to shine.
I am a powerful creator.
I forgive myself gently.
I allow myself to dream big.
I receive the fulfillment of my desires.
I allow myself to recognize my worth.
I receive unconditional love.
I celebrate myself for my strength and resilience,
Embracing myself in my totality.
I receive with gratitude the lessons of my past,
Transforming them into wisdom.
I allow myself to be vulnerable.
I find strength in my sensitivity.
I accept myself with compassion.
I am worthy of love and respect,
Just as I am.
I allow myself to freely express my emotions.
I open myself to new opportunities with confidence and optimism.
I receive abundance in all aspects of my life.
I allow myself to live fully.
I celebrate every moment.
I cultivate enriching relationships based on trust and authenticity.
I recognize my own inner strength.
I allow myself to shine.
I am a powerful creator.
I forgive myself gently.
I allow myself to dream big.
I receive the fulfillment of my desires.
I allow myself to recognize my worth.
I receive unconditional love.
I celebrate myself for my strength and resilience,
Embracing myself in my totality.
I receive with gratitude the lessons of my past,
Transforming them into wisdom.
I allow myself to be vulnerable.
I find strength in my sensitivity.
I accept myself with compassion.
I am worthy of love and respect,
Just as I am.
I allow myself to freely express my emotions.
I open myself to new opportunities with confidence and optimism.
I receive abundance in all aspects of my life.
I allow myself to live fully.
I celebrate every moment.
I cultivate enriching relationships based on trust and authenticity.
I recognize my own inner strength.
I allow myself to shine.
I am a powerful creator.
I forgive myself gently.
I allow myself to dream big.
I receive the fulfillment of my desires.
I allow myself to recognize my worth.
I receive unconditional love.
I celebrate myself for my strength and resilience,
Embracing myself in my totality.
I receive with gratitude the lessons of my past,
Transforming them into wisdom.
I allow myself to be vulnerable.
I find strength in my sensitivity.
I accept myself with compassion.
I am worthy of love and respect,
Just as I am.
I allow myself to freely express my emotions.
I open myself to new opportunities with confidence and optimism.
I receive abundance in all aspects of my life.
I allow myself to live fully.
I celebrate every moment.
I cultivate enriching relationships based on trust and authenticity.
I recognize my own inner strength.
I allow myself to shine.
I am a powerful creator.
I forgive myself gently.
I allow myself to dream big.
I receive the fulfillment of my desires.
I allow myself to recognize my worth.
I receive unconditional love.
I celebrate myself for my strength and resilience,
Embracing myself in my totality.
I receive with gratitude the lessons of my past,
Transforming them into wisdom.
I allow myself to be vulnerable.
I find strength in my sensitivity.
I accept myself with compassion.
I am worthy of love and respect,
Just as I am.
I allow myself to freely express my emotions.
I open myself to new opportunities with confidence and optimism.
I receive abundance in all aspects of my life.
I allow myself to live fully.
I celebrate every moment.
I cultivate enriching relationships based on trust and authenticity.
I recognize my own inner strength.
I allow myself to shine.
I am a powerful creator.
I forgive myself gently.
I allow myself to dream big.
I receive the fulfillment of my desires.
I allow myself to recognize my worth.
I receive unconditional love.
I celebrate myself for my strength and resilience,
Embracing myself in my totality.
I receive with gratitude the lessons of my past,
Transforming them into wisdom.
I allow myself to be vulnerable.
I find strength in my sensitivity.
I accept myself with compassion.
I am worthy of love and respect,
Just as I am.
I allow myself to freely express my emotions.
I open myself to new opportunities with confidence and optimism.
I receive abundance in all aspects of my life.
I allow myself to live fully.
I celebrate every moment.
I cultivate enriching relationships based on trust and authenticity.
I recognize my own inner strength.
I allow myself to shine.
I am a powerful creator.
I forgive myself gently.
I allow myself to dream big.
I receive the fulfillment of my desires.
I allow myself to recognize my worth.
I receive unconditional love.
I celebrate myself for my strength and resilience,
Embracing myself in my totality.
I receive with gratitude the lessons of my past,
Transforming them into wisdom.
I allow myself to be vulnerable.
I find strength in my sensitivity.
I accept myself with compassion.
I am worthy of love and respect,
Just as I am.
I allow myself to freely express my emotions.
I open myself to new opportunities with confidence and optimism.
I receive abundance in all aspects of my life.
I allow myself to live fully.
I celebrate every moment.
I cultivate enriching relationships based on trust and authenticity.
I recognize my own inner strength.
I allow myself to shine.
I am a powerful creator.
I forgive myself gently.
I allow myself to dream big.
I receive the fulfillment of my desires.
I allow myself to recognize my worth.
I receive unconditional love.
I celebrate myself for my strength and resilience,
Embracing myself in my totality.
I receive with gratitude the lessons of my past,
Transforming them into wisdom.
I allow myself to be vulnerable.
I find strength in my sensitivity.
I accept myself with compassion.
I am worthy of love and respect,
Just as I am.
I allow myself to freely express my emotions.
I open myself to new opportunities with confidence and optimism.
I receive abundance in all aspects of my life.
I allow myself to live fully.
I celebrate every moment.
I cultivate enriching relationships based on trust and authenticity.
I recognize my own inner strength.
I allow myself to shine.
I am a powerful creator.
I forgive myself gently.
I allow myself to dream big.
I receive the fulfillment of my desires.
I allow myself to recognize my worth.
I receive unconditional love.
I celebrate myself for my strength and resilience,
Embracing myself in my totality.
I receive with gratitude the lessons of my past,
Transforming them into wisdom.
I allow myself to be vulnerable.
I find strength in my sensitivity.
I accept myself with compassion.
I am worthy of love and respect,
Just as I am.
I allow myself to freely express my emotions.
I open myself to new opportunities with confidence and optimism.
I receive abundance in all aspects of my life.
I allow myself to live fully.
I celebrate every moment.
