Welcome everyone,
Welcome those that came a little bit later.
Um.
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I'm so excited to dive today deeper.
Into this energy of attracting our soulmate and what our soulmate,
Our future soulmate would want us to know.
Okay so that we can show up.
To receive that soulmate,
To attract it,
To manifest it in our lives.
This is something that I needed to know because for years.
One of my greatest passions and missions was to be in a healthy relationship.
I believe that Reconstructing the family unit,
What it means to be in divine union,
In sacred union with one another,
Is actually the most important thing that our society,
Our world,
Our community is rewiring,
Is understanding.
This wound of separation is the biggest wound.
That we have.
And it comes in so many layers from this connection from the mother and father tool extreme individualism,
Survival mode,
Separation,
Inverted teachings and concepts that somehow disconnected these two principles from each other,
So that when we are disconnected,
When we are not in union,
Within and without,
We are easily controllable.
So,
Through kingdoms and empires in the past,
They knew that.
And all of those leaders who we call authority,
Who we call kings and emperors.
Not all of them,
But many of them.
Utilized.
This kind of manipulation in a way to keep us controllable.
And It goes deep.
It goes deep.
It's from dishonoring the mother,
Right?
From dishonoring the mother principle.
In creation.
All the way to completely one-sided societies.
As we understand today as patriarchy,
We see that the world is 90% masculine.
The world operates 90% on masculine principles.
And it's unbalanced,
As simple as that.
And we've been doing this for thousands of years.
And we can see it now.
And now there's a rise.
There's a rise.
The feminine starts to rise.
The goddess starts to rise in the world,
In society.
Thank God,
Finally.
And we are learning what is the feminine inside of ourselves and also outside.
And also what is the masculine,
What is the healthy masculine.
What is the masculine that is integrated?
In his power.
And the deeper we go on this journey.
There's layers to it and I always say that,
You know,
People are People are questioning what should they learn in order to connect with this energy of the masculine or the feminine,
The sacred masculine,
Sacred feminine or divine masculine or divine feminine.
What do they need to do to connect to that?
For me,
For my personal journey.
The first thing I need to do is to connect with the Creator.
To understand the energy of the Creator that runs through me.
To understand the pattern of life.
Is embedded within myself,
Within my soul and within my body.
And once that is clear,
Then I'm looking at nature,
I'm looking at all patterns of life,
And I'm seeing that there's duality,
There's masculine and feminine,
There's dark and light,
There's hot and cold,
There's fear and love,
There's always a duality.
Kind of perspective of things.
And soul.
We as in human form,
We also experience that duality.
I'm a man in this body.
And then there's a woman and obviously the highest form of living our lives is to create union.
And to procreate further,
The child.
So the Holy Trinity,
Which by the way wholly from whole from being whole Not from whole.
Hole is a hole.
It's empty.
Whole is full is complete so holy trinity is mother father,
Child.
Now.
If you look at Most religions,
They worship.
.
.
The Father only.
Only almost entirely if not entirely so the mother have been removed.
From the scriptures.
So,
Now that the mother comes back,
We are remembering an ancient knowledge inside of ourselves,
Which is,
Oh wow,
Divine union is the foundation of the highest version of society that we can create.
Of the highest version of a healthy successful life.
Every person that is successful,
Every man that you see out there in the world,
Billionaires,
All of these people,
Do you know that they have so much feminine energy in their life that supports them?
They like.
.
.
Every healthy business,
Creation,
Family,
Community,
Society,
Empire,
Kingdom,
Whatever.
Has to have healthy foundation of feminine and masculine energy,
Has to have balanced foundation where both roles are equally seen as valuable,
Respected,
And then.
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.
Understood deeply,
You know,
Which is what we haven't been able to look at in the last thousands of years.
On the contrary,
We have been suppressing these energies.
We have been Operating from survival mode.
In so many ways.
Now this separation comes from.
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.
Many,
Many,
Is there for many,
Many reasons.
And I'm not going to go into that today.
There's so much to talk about this.
And this is the reason why I'm starting a community.
On this topic and I'm going to share later.
What that is.
But right now.
Um.
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What I want.
To talk about specifically is what would your soulmate from the future,
Let's say if you don't have that soulmate in your life or maybe you have that energy.
In your life.
Maybe you are with your partner,
Maybe you are with your soulmate.
So,
What is.
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.
That energy of the soulmate.
Whether you are with someone or not,
It's an energy,
It's a frequency,
Right?
What would that frequency wanting you to know,
That you can experience it,
You can experience being with your soulmate right now,
Whether you are in partnership with someone,
You are attracting someone,
You're desiring to be in a relationship with someone in your life.
And I have five things that I want to speak.
About with you today that I,
By the way,
Learned from my own journey or from trial and error,
Really.
The first thing that your future soulmate wants you to know is to stop pushing Full doors.
Stop pushing pool doors.
Quit forcing connections that require you to shrink to play small.
Connections that.
You know.
Don't feel elevating,
Don't feel nourishing,
Don't feel exciting,
That you feel like there is no growth.
There's always walking on eggshells,
There's always like you need to be careful what you say,
How you say it.
Stop being in relationship with those kind of people.
Stop entertaining that kind of energy.
Look into your life right now.
It's very easy.
Look into your life and see where you still entertain that energy.
Where you're still,
You know.
Yeah,
Trying to be less than who you are,
To dim yourself,
To dim your light,
To dim your expression,
Because someone cannot understand you,
Someone cannot see you.
Someone cannot choose you.
Your soulmate is choosing you 100%.
Your soulmate wants to be with you 100%.
That's an energy,
Right?
Again,
It could be manifested in a person,
It could be manifested in your current partner,
If you switch the energy,
If you switch the frequency of how you show up right now,
That can manifest in your life instantly.
Even from someone that you're with.
Because once you understand what you deserve,
The universe will express that through everyone and everything in your reality,
Or they will leave it.
Or they will transform and go through growth processes themselves.
So stop.
Forcing,
Stop,
Pushing.
Doors that are supposed to be pulled.
It is that easy and we do that so much.
And those people are not your people.
Those people that you need to convince,
Those people that you need to.
.
.
Prove yourselves towards,
Receive validation,
You know,
All of these,
These are not your people.
These are not your connections.
Okay.
These are.
.
.
Yeah,
This comes many times from my own journey I can share.
This came from insecurity.
When I was insecure,
I was happy with any attention or validation I could receive from someone else,
Especially if they were looking beautiful or if they would be successful or whatever.
Even if they were not right for me,
But their attention,
Their attention on me was feeding me.
And they were not matching.
My desires in a partner.
So don't do that.
If you are that person,
Stop doing it now.
Look into your life and see.
When.
When you are with someone that you really love,
Do you feel elevated?
Do you feel home with them?
Do you feel like that?
Do you feel like that you are more yourself when you are with that person?
But not the self that you don't want to be.
But the self that you wanna be,
The self that you are.
Makes you proud for being who you are,
Makes you feel loved as simple as that.
Because if not,
Just know that the Creator always loves you.
God,
Whoever,
The Universe always loves you.
You don't need validation.
You don't need attention.
Connect back to the Creator inside of you and get that love,
Source it from there.
And see how your attraction point changes as well.
The next team.
Which comes back to what I just shared.
Is to choose yourself first.
Like all the time you need to choose yourself.
Shift from pick me Pick me.
Look at me,
Pick me.
I'm needy.
I'm in luck.
To I choose me,
I know me.
I am.
.
.
Comfortable with me,
I am loving to myself.
And therefore,
You know that whoever you attract from that energy,
You know that that person is there to be in your experience,
Whether it is your soulmate that really is there to live with you,
To elevate you,
To be your partner,
To go create with you.
And if not,
Then you will discern if someone doesn't treat you right,
If someone is not aligning with you.
It's easier to discern from this playzone,
You need to always choose yourself first.
You know choose to You know,
Choose your well-being.
Choose your own relationship with the Creator first.
This is where it operates.
A soulmate connection,
It operates from this place.
It is you,
That person,
And the Creator.
And the Creator flows through both of you.
So if you choose you,
That person already knows that this is,
Like,
That they want you.
Because they also choose themselves.
So when two people like that come into experience,
That's when you know he's right.
It is not about,
It's paradoxical,
Right?
It's funny because it's like choose yourself,
But ultimately you don't choose yourself.
You choose the higher outcome.
Right?
But.
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.
You connect with that frequency of the creator of your higher self.
By not needing,
By not lacking.
By not externalizing.
By not pleasing.
By not over-giving to others.
You know,
But by choosing.
To love yourself properly.
And then from that energy,
You can love everyone.
When you know how to love yourself,
You know how to love other people.
This is something that is paradoxical because people say,
Well,
Am I selfish if I choose myself?
No,
The moment you truly choose yourself and the moment you know how to show up for yourself and value yourself,
That is how you can value other people.
That is when you can,
When you're giving is so much more rewarding for them.
It's a privilege.
For them.
So that's super important.
The third thing that I want to share is to radiate your own authenticity,
No matter what.
We have to understand.
There is no person like you in the entire creation.
There is no person like me in the entire creation.
There is no person like your partner in your entire creation.
And the only way for them to recognize you,
And you to recognize them,
Is when you show up in the most authentic version of yourself,
In your own uniqueness,
In who you truly are.
Not wearing masks.
Not hiding over whatever images and identities,
Not pretending,
Not performing life,
But really be as raw and authentic as possible.
That's how you magnetize exactly the people that are supposed to be in your life.
That's how it simply works.
And your depth.
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.
So another thing that I want to share,
Your depth.
And your intensity.
Is a magnet for your soulmate because I used to think that my depth and intensity I'm a person that's super direct I'm very direct straight to the point And I can be intense in the way I speak.
I know I can be intense even this This meeting,
This session can be intense.
And soul.
I know that by doing this I attract exactly the right people that resonate.
You know,
And so your soulmate loves your intensity.
They don't actually see it as a burden,
They see it as a good thing.
They want that.
They are nourished by it.
So don't hide your depth,
Don't hide the things that society is telling you.
Made us believe there aren't too much.
You know,
We have to really,
Really understand that.
Authenticity is the highest version is the most higher vibrational version of ourselves and when you show up as your authentic self.
Everyone.
But you magnetize in your life.
You know and trust that they are supposed to be there.
Whether you need to learn from these people,
Whether you need to create with them and co-create or love them and be loved by them.
Whatever the dynamic,
Whether you build a life in a family.
With these people.
That's super important.
Radiate your raw authenticity.
The fourth The fourth pointer I want to share with you.
Is to refuse.
To settle for potential.
I did this so many times,
I cannot tell you how many times I did this.
Oh my god,
That person has so much potential.
I can see who they can be,
Who they can become.
And I created this story,
This fantasy,
That that is my person.
That is the mother of my children.
She can do this and that.
She is the most this and that.
I lived in that fantasy.
And when reality,
When we were meeting,
I was like,
Wow,
This person is not actually.
Who I think it is,
Yet I still put them on a pedestal.
I still think that they are someone else.
Why?
Because I know what I deserve.
And chances are you also,
If you do this,
You also know what you deserve.
You know how you want to feel in a relationship.
You know how you want to be loved and how to love.
And so we create that version of how we should be and we project it on someone that cannot hold that.
Don't do that.
Don't choose potential.
Don't choose potential.
Be with what is present.
Be with who that person is in that very moment.
And when you can be with that,
When you can 100% be with that.
And love it.
And want it because of who they are in the very moment,
Then that is your person.
When you cannot be with them because you want them to be somewhere else,
You want them to be something else,
You want them to grow through this and that,
You want to change them.
You don't want to be with someone that you want to change.
You don't want to be with someone that you want to change.
You want to change them.
Change them all your life and of course we always grow we always evolve we always go through some like Expansion.
When you are in a relationship with someone,
You are going to witness so many deaths and rebirths of identity and growing and outgrowing things.
But you have to fall in love with the person that they are in very moment.
Every moment and stop creating that ideal potential person.
If you don't,
No problem,
Move on.
Don't keep someone in that spot.
Of being your soulmate,
Of being your partner.
Queen or your king.
Because They don't deserve it.
We don't deserve it.
And the more you keep them in that spot,
The more you delay your actions on me.
To come into your experience.
This is so important.
So many of us choose to be with potential.
Also because we feel guilty,
Right?
We feel like,
Oh,
I don't want to break up with them.
They're not who I want them to be,
But I'm sure they can change.
I'm sure they can elevate.
Well,
Okay,
Tell them.
Tell them.
Hey,
I believe that this is who you can be.
I see the best version of you and I'm in love with that version.
Are you?
Are you seeing what I'm seeing?
Do you wanna be that version?
And if they say,
No that's not me.
.
.
Then move on.
If they say,
Wow,
Actually,
I want to be that.
I wanna be that version.
And they take action to be that version.
Because sometimes we see each other's highest potential and that's great.
But we still have to love the person for who they are in that very moment.
Not to attach to that and override who they are in the moment because you've fallen in love with that version.
And if they don't want to do the work,
If it's not in the highest to become that version,
Then you need to let that go.
And see what what and who they want to be and if that matches.
Who you want to be with.
But never stay stuck.
With protection.
The last point.
That I want to share with you on this.
What your future soulmate wants you to know.
Is to stay anchored in your wholeness and purpose.
Stay anchored in your wholeness and purpose.
You are already whole.
All these theories.
.
.
I think we actually did spirituality the wrong way,
If you ask me.
Because we always chase something.
We are always not enough and chasing something.
We are always approaching life from lack.
I want to be more enlightened.
I want to be more healed.
Even this,
I want to be with my soulmate.
I want to attract and be with a partner of my life and dreams.
I want more money.
It's okay to want that,
It's okay to have the desire.
But if it's coming from luck.
If it's coming from need,
If it's coming from a place of I'm drained,
I don't have energy and I want to become this so that I am then fulfilled and powerful and the people see me differently and I feel better about myself.
If it's coming from that place,
It's not coming from the right place,
Especially when it comes to attracting your partner,
Attracting your soulmate,
Anything for that matter.
But you don't want to attract someone from luck.
And need.
You can.
I attracted people from luck and need.
And guess what they reflected me?
Lack of need.
I trapped it.
I attracted a dated woman.
I had like two years ago I had a period that I tested a little bit dating.
Usually I'm not.
.
.
So fond of dating like don't get me wrong I love to take my woman out and have dinner and all of that But I don't believe in the active searching for a partner,
Like dating them and randomly finding someone.
I believe that there's a greater destiny for myself.
When I tune into that and I align with that frequency,
I attract that person.
That person and I are going to match frequencies.
So it's not about seeking anything.
But I had a period where I was actually seeking,
I was like.
.
.
I want to find my soulmate and this is how I want her to be.
And it came from this place of need.
I didn't feel whole in that moment when I did this.
And I attracted someone.
That matches all the things I put on the list.
However,
They felt luck.
They felt lack,
They felt empty and needy.
And I was like,
Wait a minute,
Why I feel when I'm with you,
I feel more depleted.
I feel like you are taking from me and I'm also taking from you.
Because I needed to be with someone that I take from,
Because I felt that I'm not yet whole.
So this is.
Many of us stay in relationships like that without even knowing.
Many of us are in relationships like this.
And we ask ourselves,
Why?
I don't feel fulfilled.
What do you want to take from that person?
What is that person having that you don't?
That person is also the creator.
That person is whole,
Just as much as you are whole.
Connect to that wholeness.
Connect to that wholeness.
Because you are already whole no matter if you even if you are sick even if you have chronic illnesses.
You are whole,
Even in those moments.
We have never been empty.
We have never been less than.
The Creator didn't made us be less than.
The creator is an energy of wholeness,
An energy of abundance.
And so we are made from that same image,
So we are the same.
It's just our perspective.
That has been.
Manipulated through time to look at the empty part of the glass.
Look at this glass.
What is this glass?
You can see the empty part or the full part.
This is,
You know,
It's whole,
It's.
.
.
It's a hole.
And even if it's empty,
Even if I empty the hole,
The entire water,
It's still whole.
The glass itself,
The vessel,
It's still whole.
You know it's not broken so in the same way The fact that we exist,
The fact that we are alive in these vessels,
That means we are whole.
At all times.
And we get to.
.
.
Fill our lives with something that really matters,
That impacts.
The highest good,
The creation as a whole.
And once we operate from that frequency,
Which is also to have a purpose,
To have a mission,
To create something.
That is for the greatest good.
That is the energy that attracts our soulmate into our lives.
Because when you live for more than yourself,
Whether that is even,
You know,
It could be I want to build a family.
You live for something more than yourself.
Calling someone to co-create that way,
You cannot build a family on your own.
You cannot build a successful business on your own.
You can to a certain degree.
But then you need to expand.
It means,
You know.
.
.
It's a co-creation.
So Wholeness goes hand in hand with purpose and once you have both of these energies solid inside of yourself and once you know that the purpose element applies especially for men.
Men have to have a direction,
A mission.
Women can have that too obviously,
But especially for men.
I see many men that abandon their purpose,
That they do not have a direction,
That don't have something to live for and to die for at the same time.
And the only thing they want is this woman of their dreams.
I've been that person for a while.
I wanted this woman and made her my purpose.
And do what?
Like feed from that woman?
Feed from that woman energy.
No,
I need to.
.
.
I'm already the creator.
I'm already fueled by this energy of the creator,
So I need to invest that into something else.
Something bigger than myself so that that woman joins me and we both under the under the authority of the Creator we are both creating towards that mission.
She comes with her gifts with her mission.
I come with mine and my mission and together We are creating something beautiful.
It's like Two people create a third project.
That can be a child,
That can be a business,
That can be many things at once.
So you have to be purposeful oriented.
You can't be in survival mode.
And not trust yourself and be like.
.
.
Like,
Yeah,
Like controlled by someone.
By having authority outside of you and attract your soulmate.
It doesn't work.
You will attract a relationship that reflects the same level of of giving your power away that you.
.
.
Operate from.
And that's going to be a lesson.
That's going to be a calming lesson.
But if you want your soulmate,
You need to really be rooted,
Like your ultimate soulmate.
Uh based on the frequency you're at because i don't believe that there's like this ultimate person that You can only be with them when that's what it is.
You always will attract.
Different soulmate based on the frequency you're at.
And the goal,
My goal,
Is to be with someone that I can be my entire life with.
And grow with that person my entire life.
And experience many deaths and rebirths with that person my entire life and build a family with kids with our purpose with our sacred offering.
Business,
Whatever.
Build that.
Further.
And that is for me the greatest way to be alive in this human form,
In this human body.
And experience life.
Um.
.
.
And the things that I share with you is what I had to understand deep from within myself in order to attract that life and experience it as I'm doing right now.
And it's super exciting,
It's fun,
It's powerful,
It feels so fulfilling.
And my question when I wake up.
Every day is,
God,
Utilize us for the highest good of humanity.
What can we do?
Well,
How can we show up to be more at service?
Show us how better you can get.
For the world and for us.
Show us how we can be an impact for the world.
And It's so beautiful,
You know,
And I believe that soulmate relationship,
Like really divine union,
Not just to have someone that fulfills you because you feel that you're in luck or whatever.
No but like really if you wanna attract that divine union soulmate sacred partner to build with.
Um,
Being in devotion to the highest good of humanity,
Your community,
Your country,
Your culture,
Whatever.
Is the easiest way to attract people.
That person in your life.
If that is your intention,
Purpose.
The neural attractor.
If your intention is to be fulfilled because Mommy or daddy didn't love you.
Which I have compassion for it being that person.
But the thing is,
So many of us attract from that point.
Or wants to be with someone from that point.
If you're triggered when I say this.
.
.
Then look into that.
Know that you're whole,
Purify,
Clean your mother-father lineage and then come back from a place of wholeness and desire your soulmate from that place.
Desire your soulmate because you want to build something,
Because you want to give.
You wanna share yourself to the world.
You wanna give.
Back to future generations,
Raising a family,
Creating.
You know,
Those are the people that really attract the most beautiful relationships.
And if you are one of those people and if you feel that.
That that's a possibility for you,
Then it means it's true.
It means it exists.
Even if you don't experience it right now in your life,
It means it's there and it's alive.
And honor that,
Trust that,
Believe in that.
There's a reason.
Why you feel this way.
So this is it guys,
This is what I want to share about this topic.
Have a blessed rest of the week and weekend.
Much love.
Ciao for now.
