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A Life Full OF "Me" Is In Distrust, Calculation, Speculation

by Cico (Chonghe Zhang)

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**Note: Truth does not always sound pleasant. If the mind is not really peaceful now, it might not be a perfect moment to listen to this podcast, one has to be aware of the emotions or reactions that can block one from listenING ATTENTIVELY and with HUMILITY. This talk is a meditation practice. What one needs to do is listen attentively, without getting stuck in words, examine the mind in silence, not agree or disagree, just look at the mind as it is. Doing so is already part of true meditation.

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Transcript

This control brings about lot of conflicts,

Issues.

We stay away from each other more and more.

The society is becoming more and more individual.

It is all because me,

This very petty,

Ugly entity.

This inner control only leads to old,

Old control.

Look at what is happening around the world.

Everyone is in this order.

Everyone is in this order.

Because this control found me,

That brings about the conflicts,

Contradictions,

Confusions,

Never lead to order unless the me is totally absent.

Where there are no longer fragments controlling one another.

And this one is life heals everything.

With those fragments,

There are no conflicts,

There are no contradictions.

Therefore there are no confusions because the mind is quiet.

And only when the mind is in its totality,

Those can function in the right place.

This intelligence of the neural system will do the right thing.

But the mind must be in trust.

That's to empty the me,

End the me.

Do it,

Test it,

See what would happen in your life.

When the me is there,

There are endless doubt,

Endless speculation.

The me trusts nobody,

But it sees it in the life.

Such a commercial world is based on me because it's easier,

Isn't it?

The me is always calculating,

Always speculating.

And in this culture where the commercial is so dominating,

We have lost the human trust.

Almost everyone is controlled by me.

The me has permeated the being,

Calculating,

Speculating,

Seeking pleasure.

Plus though,

Only for the concern of the me.

This becomes the new normalcy.

And the minds that conditioned to this feel this is normal,

But this is totally abnormal.

Can I live a life fully in trust?

Which means that can I really let go with this me?

So I just observe and learn that this whole neural system is working.

Me is totally unnecessary.

To do this actually is meditating.

Only when you do it,

You will find out what is an authentic life like.

You can't imagine it.

You must do it because the truth can be only come upon when you are acting sheerly.

And this beauty of living only exists when the me is totally absent.

Meet your Teacher

Cico (Chonghe Zhang)Amsterdam, Netherlands

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