The Vibration Of Love

Welcome to life lessons and laughter with your host Glenn Ambrose.

Hey everybody,

Welcome to the show.

So today we are talking about the vibration of love.

What does that mean?

It's,

You know,

Everything has a vibration,

You know,

We're vibrational beings,

We live in a vibrational universe,

Everything's energy,

Everything has a vibration.

So I was thinking of,

You know,

Like it's,

I kind of had a bit of a rough day yesterday,

And you know,

Stuff was just trying to claw in at me.

And I got up this morning and it was a little bit like that again.

And I was like,

Screw that.

Like,

It's no,

You know,

No.

So I just kind of was like,

Well,

What,

How can I recenter and really get myself into a better space?

And I started thinking,

You know,

Foundationally,

Which I like to,

And it's really about love,

You know,

It's,

It's getting back to the vibration of love and just vibrating from there.

That's like this,

That's like everything in its simplest form.

There's a lot of times,

You know,

It's a lot of times we'll try to use tools,

Which tools can be helpful.

And they can be really helpful sometimes.

And we talk about a lot of tools,

You know,

How to deal with this,

How to deal with that.

And,

But a lot of times getting right down to the core mentality,

Sometimes going right to that is the most helpful.

Sometimes using little tools are a little bit more helpful depending on a situation.

But if you're going to use a tool,

It's important to understand where that tool comes from,

Like what that what the foundation of it is.

So a lot of times what I do is I go all the way down to the core and then I work like I kind of walk back towards the problem from,

You know,

So if everything if love is the foundation of everything,

And it's the foundation of everything,

That's good.

Then if I anchor into the vibration of love,

And I just start there,

And then I go back and I start walking towards the problem,

And I go,

Okay,

Well,

What was stressing me out?

Or what was bothering me?

It's like,

Well,

Is that important?

So like,

Well,

Compared to love?

No.

You know,

No,

Nothing's really important compared to love.

Like everything's going to everything in our life on an earthly plane is going to work out if I'm vibrating from a place of love.

So it's,

It's the as I can get caught up in the worldly things and you know,

Living by sight,

And not by faith.

And what happens when I get caught up with that is the worldly things start becoming more important.

And I,

My vibration starts shifting.

Like those worldly things are important,

Which induces fear.

So which affects my mood,

Because now all of a sudden I'm fearful,

You know,

So if,

If I start focusing in the vibration of love,

And vibrating at that,

Then it's what's interesting is that I know that whatever I'm worried about,

I am like a million times more capable of making the right choices or dealing with it properly or having a good result.

If I'm coming from the vibration of love.

And even if it doesn't work out,

If I'm vibrating at the vibration of love,

Then I'm literally in love,

Like,

It's okay.

You know,

If sun doesn't go my way,

And I'm vibrating in love,

I'm like,

Oh,

Well,

It didn't go my way.

Yeah,

Of course,

Sometimes that happens.

And I can accept it because I'm in the vibration of love.

If things do go my way,

I go,

Oh,

Isn't that wonderful?

They went my way.

And that's wonderful,

Because I'm in the vibration of love.

But I'm not necessarily attached to it.

I don't,

You know,

I'm like,

Oh,

That's wonderful.

And it's an enhancement of how I feel.

But I know that that situation outside going my way didn't cause my love.

Because I'm already in it,

It was just an enhancement of my love.

So no matter whether things go good,

Or things go bad,

If I'm vibrating in the final,

I'm in the foundational vibration of love,

It's just a wonderful experience.

The opposite is if I'm not,

If I'm not vibrating in the vibration of love,

And then things don't go my way,

It's a frickin problem.

You know,

Now we this is this is not good.

And the problem can eat me up,

It can consume me,

I can really throw my mood off.

If things go my way,

I might,

You know,

At least on an unconscious level,

If not conscious,

Think that something going my way actually caused the goodness that I feel inside.

I think it caused it.

And then if I think it caused it,

I'll try to duplicate it.

So I can continue feeling good.

And then I'll attach to it.

And I'll be like,

When when things go my way,

I feel good.

When things don't go my way,

I don't feel good.

I need to make sure things go my way.

You know,

And then you start getting locked into that mentality of control.

And it's,

You know,

That's a not a pretty path.

Let's go back for a second to just the the term itself.

Right.

So the vibration of love.

I know that we've touched on it many times during the course of all of the podcasts.

But can you expand a little bit into just the what you what you mean when you say vibration?

Yeah,

I mean,

You know,

Everything has a vibration to it.

And it's if you pay really close attention,

If you get still,

You can actually feel it and start getting comfortable with vibrations,

You can start getting familiar with vibrations.

And a lot of it likes one example I use,

It doesn't really apply to what we're talking about.

But that's probably better.

Because it just gives a kind of an outside example of vibration.

Like everything has a vibration dysfunctions have a vibration.

So so a lot of times I'll see this vibration and like alcoholism.

Alcoholism has a vibration.

So a lot of times you'll see people that have grown up in an alcoholic home and up in alcoholic relationships,

Even if they've been able to,

You know,

Steer themselves away from any type of addiction,

Like alcoholism,

Because they saw the damage that it did.

So you know,

Some people can see the damage that it did say they're never going to drink,

Then start drinking and get caught up in the addiction because it's so strong enough.

But some people can be like,

You know,

They're not an alcoholic,

Or they're they're so,

You know,

Turned off by the dysfunction that that they saw that they make sure they never go in that direction,

Or,

You know,

Whatever,

But they'll be there.

And,

You know,

They'll be completely against drinking and the dysfunction of alcoholism.

And I've seen it many times where they end up married to an alcoholic.

Yeah,

You know,

And it's and a lot of times they even I even see it fairly commonly where they end up married to an alcoholic that wasn't an alcoholic when they got married.

Why is that?

Well,

Because that person actually has the vibration of alcoholism within them.

They just they're they're like,

They could be holding themselves together and not drinking very much at that particular time.

And then when their life gets worse,

They really fall into their addiction,

It was there within them vibrating.

It was part of their vibrational makeup.

It just hadn't fully manifested yet.

And see,

This is what I mean with vibration.

It's like,

You know,

Somebody will just say for the sake that the man in a relationship is an alcoholic.

And the woman that is not an alcoholic,

But she grew up in an alcoholic family.

So like she can see,

You know,

She can meet five guys going five different dates and he's all right,

He's all right,

He's all right.

And then she'll fall in love with the alcoholic.

Because it's just like there's something about him is an intangible,

She feels comfortable around him.

There's because she felt she was in an alcoholic home.

So that she's used to being around that vibration,

It feels familiar.

You know,

And then that's why she can connect with somebody and it's like,

Geez,

I don't know,

I feel comfortable,

More comfortable around this person than other people.

I don't know what it is.

Well,

It's vibrational.

That's what it is.

Right.

Okay.

Well,

Thank you for explaining that.

Yeah,

That's,

You know,

That's a that's vibrationally.

That's how vibrations can work.

So you know,

What we want to do with our spiritual walk is get really familiar with good vibrations,

You know,

Especially love and like if you just fill yourself up with love,

And then all of a sudden,

You know,

You're really still and you're just feeling like,

What does love feel like?

What is I want to feel love in my heart and just feel the feeling of love start building.

If you need to bring up somebody that you have a deep love for,

To pull up that vibration and that feeling within you,

And then pay attention to it and be like,

Oh,

What's this feel like?

And if you pay really close attention,

Like you'll come up with your own words to describe it.

And like,

You could be like,

Oh,

It's a it's a warm fullness,

Safety type feeling,

Whatever,

You know,

Come up with your own words to describe it and just get familiar with what that feels like.

And it will,

It'll draw that vibration and more the more you do that,

The more you'll be vibrating in the energy of love,

The more and what's cool too is the more you get familiar with those types of vibrations,

Then when you're outside of them,

The more you can,

It's kind of like building a roadmap to get back to it.

So like,

If you're if you're really feeling off and you're like,

You know,

I don't I don't know what's wrong.

I don't I don't know what's,

You know,

Not right.

But all of a sudden,

You have these words and this vibration you're familiar with.

And you're just like,

I'm just going to try to feel,

Get back to that vibration,

I'm just going to try to get back to that.

Maybe like,

But you're so distant from it,

That you don't even know how to get there.

Well,

Then you can start using those words like,

Well,

I want to feel this sense of safety and warmth.

And then all of a sudden,

It's like it triggers that vibration is somewhere inside of you.

So all of a sudden,

It starts triggering it,

And it starts coming back up to the surface,

As you kind of back in it.

And then you can feel it,

And then you can sit in that vibration more.

And the longer you sit in that vibration,

Or the more often you bring it in,

The more it's going to make up your vibrational being,

The more part of you it's going to be.

And what if you're not in the vibration of love?

How do you get there?

Like,

What is the vibration there?

Like,

You talked about earlier being in a vibration of fear,

Or,

You know,

Whatever else it is.

How do you get back to or get to,

You know,

Or get back?

Because everybody is there at some point,

Right?

Oh,

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah,

Everybody gets there,

Gets off.

So it's,

You know,

Like I said,

I mean,

That's why it's helpful getting familiar with it.

Because the more familiar you are with it,

The easier it is to get back to it.

You know,

If you felt it once six months ago,

And you're like,

How do I get back there?

You know,

I felt it for 15 seconds,

Six months ago.

You know,

I mean,

You can still do it.

It's within us.

It's just going,

That's going to be going to require a little bit more energy than if,

You know,

If you've been feeling it on a regular basis.

You can make it a morning ritual just to feel love within you for five minutes every morning.

I mean,

That that just that could change your life.

You know,

But a lot of it is just really letting go of the worldly stuff.

Now letting go of the the transitional stuff that we think is so important.

It's and we think it's,

It's not that,

You know,

We have to,

We have,

I think we have to really live our lives responsibly.

And I think that the little catch point that I have to work myself around sometimes when I get caught up in it is my mind will tell me that,

Well,

It's yeah,

Sure.

You know,

Vibrating and love and being love and being peace and being joy and all that stuff is wonderful,

Glenn.

But like,

You've got bills to pay.

Right?

You know,

You know,

You,

You can't,

You know,

Vibrate love at the people when they come to repo your car.

You know,

They respond to money.

So,

You know,

If they don't get their money,

Then you know,

You can vibrate at love all you want.

So and,

And I,

There is some truth to it.

It's just that it's not,

It's not an overpowering truth.

See what your ego likes to do is it likes to confuse you.

So it takes in something that has a morsel of truth and just holds that in front of your face.

So yes,

Of course,

We need to have money.

Of course,

We need to take care of our responsibilities.

But that doesn't mean that it's more important than love.

You know,

It doesn't mean that.

And that's what we have to remember is that it doesn't have to be one or the other.

As a matter of fact,

It's when we're vibrating in the in the mode of love,

It enhances our ability to accomplish things.

You know,

When there is,

If we're vibrating,

Like there's,

There's things that cause financial difficulties.

And they're all founded in fear.

You know,

A mentality of lack of not deserving of panic,

Of,

Oh my God,

How am I going to get this taken care of?

All that stuff is all fear based.

And we don't function well in fear.

And it limits us and most likely it's caused the problem in the first place.

So if we bring in more fear,

Oh my God,

And control and tightness and constriction,

That's not what helps us fix it.

Can we push through sometimes?

See,

This is the part that's confusing is sometimes we just,

We're all wrapped up in fear and lack and we push through anyway,

And we don't open up to spirituality.

And we take all this forced action,

And it's really hard.

And somehow we get through and we get on the other side of our difficulty.

And it's really hard,

Torturous,

Painful,

It sucks.

But we get on the other side of it and then we go,

Oh,

Okay,

See,

So that's how you get through stuff.

It's like,

No,

You didn't get through it because you,

Yeah,

That's one way.

I mean,

It was freaking horrible the whole way.

Like,

You know,

There is another way,

Like there's another way to accomplish everything that you want.

That's the way.

And that's more joyful,

Less pain-filled and has better results and actually can even prevent you from ending up in the same place down the road.

Just because you're on the other side of something now doesn't mean you're on the right side of like where you could have been from it.

Yeah,

We live so dysfunctionally that it's this mentality that we have to push through.

And that's the right thing to do.

No,

You don't understand.

I have real problems.

So I have to live life like,

You know,

Money is just such a good example.

You know,

You don't have money and it's like,

It's very easy to live spiritually or it's easier to live spiritually when you're dealing with people.

When you deal with something tangible like materials,

Especially like money,

You know,

It's like,

Well,

I just don't have the money to pay rent and they're going to throw me out.

So don't tell me to live spiritual.

This isn't a spiritual issue,

But everything's a spiritual issue.

Because if you were vibrating in a lack of,

I mean,

In a vibration of abundance and love,

Then you probably wouldn't be in that position in the first place.

But what people do instead of working on their vibration and working on dealing with a problem through the energy of love,

They constrict even more and push and close off.

And we always get through one way or another,

We get through.

You could get evicted from your apartment.

It's happened to me.

You know,

I've gotten kicked out and homeless and slept in my car.

And you know what,

Somehow that worked out.

I was on the other side of it in a warm place to live later on.

So I did get through that.

But the way I went through that journey was miserable and horrible and tight.

You know,

Where if I focus on love,

Then I'm bringing,

I have all this fear.

And I can muscle through it with all this fear and fear and fear and maybe get to the other side torturously somehow,

Or I can bring in love.

You know,

If I have a fearful situation,

I bring in more fear,

It just makes it worse of a situation.

But if I have a fearful situation,

I bring in love.

Now all of a sudden it minimizes the fear.

And I work through and it might not necessarily be easy,

But it's going to be calmer.

It's going to be more manageable.

And I have a better chance of not duplicating it in the future,

Because I brought more love in which breeds things like abundance,

Worthiness,

You know,

As we increase our love.

So it's just because you made it through something,

Like a,

Just like a ball just running into it and pushing and pushing and pushing.

I mean,

Think,

Was it fun?

Like,

No,

It was really hard,

Then try something different.

You know,

And that,

That's the key is we think better.

We're more effective when we're functioning from a vibration of love.

Things go smoother,

Things fall into place,

People are more reasonable.

You know,

It's,

It's just everything works better in a vibration of love.

And the,

The,

See,

The thing that happens,

If we push through out of fear,

And we get to the other side,

It actually becomes a,

It actually becomes a,

A cycle,

Because like,

When I'm dealing with somebody like that,

And,

And they're not capable of letting go of the,

No,

I have to push through this.

If they're not capable of that,

What happens is they,

They do,

They keep going 90 miles an hour,

And they're miserable,

And it's very difficult,

And they can't work on themselves.

And they can't focus on fear right now,

Because they got real stuff to deal with.

And then they finally get through it.

And they,

The whole time,

They're like,

I'll work on myself when I get on the other side of this.

But I got to get on the other side of this first,

And they get through.

And then,

Then I go,

Oh,

Okay,

So we're gonna do some work now.

And they're like,

Well,

I'm really tired.

I was exhausting.

I had to do a lot of pushing.

So I,

I'm just going to catch my breath,

And then we'll work on stuff.

Oh,

Okay.

So then they catch their breath,

You go,

Are you ready to work on stuff?

And they're like,

You know what,

Life really isn't that bad.

I mean,

I'm fairly happy.

Everything's okay.

I don't really have to do the work on myself.

I don't really have to change all this stuff.

It's okay.

It's,

It's fine.

And then,

So they don't do the work on themselves.

And then,

Excuse me,

Difficulty hits again.

And then they start pushing through.

And then they start to cycle all over again.

You know,

And they're just caught in that.

It's just misery,

Struggle,

Push through,

Catch your breath,

Relax for a little bit,

Tell yourself that this was only a one time thing,

It's never going to happen again.

And your life is actually okay.

And then hit another problem,

And then push through again,

And then catch your breath,

And then tell yourself it's never going to happen again.

And they'll just live like that for years.

You know,

Never ever actually changing anything.

And so,

And then the answer to that is to go back to being grounded in love.

Right,

Because then also that's what it looks like,

You know,

From the fear perspective,

From the love perspective,

It's like,

It's more like,

Okay,

So I have a situation that isn't good,

But it's,

It's just like,

Just the way I'm saying it already is more peaceful.

Oh,

Yeah.

Okay,

I have a situation,

You know,

It's a life situation.

That's it.

We have billions of them throughout our lives.

It's a it's a situation that requires my attention.

Okay.

So what's the best way to deal with this?

And just from that,

Just from a calm,

Peaceful,

Loving perspective,

And non judgmental,

Non anger,

Your brain can think more clearly,

You can come up with more solutions.

You can you can,

If you're on the phone going,

You got to give me more time.

What's more likely for somebody to give you more time to come up with money,

Screaming at them going,

You don't understand you have to give me more time.

This is ridiculous.

Is that more effective?

Or is coming from a place of love more effective?

Nailed it.

Good choice,

Ben.

So you know,

If you're sitting there going,

Hey,

Listen,

I understand that I owe you some money.

And I understand that,

You know,

You have a life to live,

And you need to get it.

You need to take care of your responsibilities.

You know,

I can,

If you just give me a little bit more time,

I know I can work this out.

And,

You know,

You can get what you need.

And it's like that that is going to be more,

It's more likely that somebody's gonna lean in your direction.

If you meet them in love,

Then if you're yelling at them out of fear,

You know,

And your brain thinks more clearly,

Like I said,

You come up,

You see solutions,

You,

You stay open.

And that's how we navigate things by staying open,

And relaxed and looking and moving forward,

Of course,

This action we have to take,

But take it out of love.

It,

It multiplies and people are happy to help.

And it's just amazing how we can,

You know,

There's two ways of doing anything.

And I've talked about this with like,

You know,

Running late for something,

We go,

Oh,

My God,

I'm late and drop,

You know,

Grab your keys,

And then forget your wallet,

And then run back and get you all in a trip.

Or you can just go,

Okay,

I'm late for something.

Center yourself for three seconds.

What do I need to bring with me?

My keys,

My wallet,

My phone.

Okay,

Grab those,

Walk to the car.

Less mistakes happen,

Everything goes smoothly.

It's the same on bigger scale things.

There's two ways to do everything,

Anything out of love or out of fear.

And if it's out of fear,

It's constricted,

It's forced,

It's tight,

It's difficult,

You're not thinking so clearly.

If it's out of love,

You're more relaxed,

You see more opportunities,

You see more solutions,

More people are more likely to interact with you and help you and give you something you need.

If you're coming from a vibration of love.

And at the end of the day,

You're going to get through this one way or another.

It's just,

You know,

How do you want to walk like if you have a situation that takes a week to walk through,

How do you want to work walk that week through pain,

Misery and constriction,

Or with love,

Peace and comfort?

You know,

Yeah,

It's,

It's,

It's our choice.

And the more the more we learn to walk through life that way,

The more we're going to have a happier life.

It's like,

How do I have a happy life?

Well,

Like that,

Like that,

That's how it's we don't happy life doesn't mean that everything goes our way.

And when I say that,

Everybody laughs,

Oh,

That's not what I want.

Yeah,

That's exactly what you want.

That's exactly what we all want.

I mean,

Let's be realistic about it subconsciously.

When we are irritable and caught up in life.

The reason we're irritable and caught up in life is because we want everything to go our way.

That's why you know,

Period,

We want everything to go our way.

Now,

We're not conscious about it.

We're not slowing down and going,

Oh,

I think the world revolves around me.

So I want everything to go my way.

No,

Of course,

We're not conscious about it.

We're not thinking that.

But that's the motivating energy of what's driving our mentality and our mood.

It's we want everything to go our way when we want it,

How we want it.

And if it's not doing that,

Then we're going to get upset about it.

And if we can pull back and relax off of that,

And anchored down more into the love,

We actually end up getting more of what we want.

And even if we don't,

It's okay because we're vibrating at the end of the energy of love.

That's a great place to end this episode.

Honestly.

Yeah,

I'm an extremist.

So a lot of times I have to draw serious lines in the sand with myself.

My mind's very clever and manipulative and rationalizes real well and it can trick and all this stuff.

So I try not to get into the games with my mind.

Just cut to the chase.

And the cut into the chase is just going,

Nothing's more important than love.

I don't care.

Well,

Glenn,

What if your whole world falls apart around you?

Well,

Then I guess I'm going to be happy with the world falling apart around me.

Because I'm not sacrificing being in love for anything.

So if I lose my house,

Then fine,

I'll be in love.

If I lose my car,

Fine,

I'll be in love.

And what happens is when I really anchor into it like that,

Not listening to my mind's excuses,

Usually within five minutes,

All of a sudden I go,

When I really anchor into the vibration of love,

All of a sudden I go,

I'm not going to lose my house.

Why would I lose my house?

That's absurd.

I'm way more capable of handling everything right now that I'm vibrating.

My mind was trying to keep me vibrating in a vibration of fear and control and telling me that I needed to do that in order to solve problems.

And I don't.

It's absurd to even think that.

Now that I'm really in love with my life,

I'm not going to lose my house.

Why would I lose my love?

I've got 13 solutions here that I never would have seen if I stayed there.

And everything's fine.

You know,

It's just what we're the vibration we're caught up in.

If we're caught up in that fear,

We think we're supposed to stay there and it's going to help us somehow.

If we're able to disconnect and go,

No,

Nothing's more important than love.

Nothing's more important than peace.

Nothing is more important than happiness.

And we let go of all that stuff.

All of a sudden we see,

Like,

Oh,

I get to have all that too.

As long as I stay in this love,

I get to have everything that I thought I was giving up for it.

I don't even have to give all that stuff up.

That was just a trick of my mind.

So that's going to do it.

Good.

Good.

Good.

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And we'll talk with you soon.