Why Your Manifestations May Not Be Manifesting- Part II

Okay,

We are back episode two,

Hopefully,

You're ready.

Okay,

So we spoke about stuff in episode one.

I'm not going to touch on those things here.

Hopefully,

You already list episode one.

If not,

Go back and listen to episode one.

So episode two,

Let's just get right into it.

So I mentioned already changing the language from manifesting to materializing.

So there's also this thing that everyone talks about.

The law of attraction.

Wow.

We love that the law of attraction.

True.

Great.

Love it,

But it's only one facet.

Of materializing.

I like attracting sort of what you want,

But there is this other side,

This other law that is not spoken about,

And that is the law of repulsion.

So the law of attraction attracts law of repulsion,

Repels,

Repels.

So we don't talk about that.

You know,

It's like saying,

Oh,

My gosh,

Look,

I have this amazing,

Wonderful coin.

And it's only heads.

It's not a coin,

Then it's fake.

It's not real,

It's play money.

Well,

At least play money has a heads and a tails.

It's fake.

It's counterfeit.

Like you need to have both sides of the coin to make it a coin.

Same thing for this.

Both sides are true when it comes to manifesting and materializing.

The law of attraction is true.

Law of repulsion is true.

So we all know what the law of attraction is like,

Right?

Bringing things in what you want,

Blah,

Blah,

Blah.

That's why you're here.

You know all about that stuff.

Law of repulsion is doing the opposite.

But thinking you're attracting.

So love of repulsion,

For example,

Is like wanting something really bad and kind of being like,

Oh,

I really want this,

I really want this.

I got to have it.

I really want this.

I really want this.

But what you're really sending out to the universe.

Are really feelings and energy and vibration of lack,

Because by you saying,

I really want this,

I really want this,

I really want this is you actually telling the universe,

I don't have this.

I don't have this.

I don't have this.

And the universe responds to the vibration.

So it's important for us when we want to materialize the things that we want.

Then we do it from a place of not really wanting fully and like beings.

I don't know.

People still use this,

But like fiending over it.

Like,

Oh,

My God,

I got to have it.

I got to have it.

But from a place of like,

Just chill,

Like,

Yeah.

It's going to come.

I got this.

Like just being so confident and knowing that it's going to come.

And I know that can be hard because it's like,

Well,

I don't know.

I don't I really can't say it's going to come because I haven't seen this before.

It's not been in my life.

It's not been in the life of anyone else I know personally.

Like,

I don't know how to really just like let it go and not like fiend for it.

And I don't know how to be confident that,

You know,

I definitely have it.

And I know that that can be hard.

That can definitely be hard.

I think,

Though,

It's about working your way up to that.

So if you feel like you can't necessarily go from fiending over it and really wanting it to being kind of like.

I don't want to say indifferent,

But like indifferent.

Like confident being like,

Oh,

It's almost like I got it already.

You know,

You're just kind of waiting for it to be delivered in the same way.

You might place an order for something online.

You're not going to be like,

Oh,

My God,

I want it.

I got to have it.

I want it.

It's like,

No,

You place the order for it.

You know,

It's going to come.

You know,

It's going to be delivered to you.

You're confident in that.

Right.

It's not like you're one way or the other,

Like,

Oh,

Are we going to have it?

Oh,

Is it going to come?

No,

It's like,

OK,

No,

We'll place the order.

It'll get here.

So it's the same the same thing.

It's like you place in the order.

I was saying,

OK,

Yeah,

It'll come.

I'm fine.

And I truly believe that that is the true feeling.

People talk about the book.

I mentioned this in the last episode.

People talk about this book by Neville Goddard,

Who's known to be one of the fathers of law of attraction.

But in pop culture,

He is because,

Again,

People in pop culture mainstream their manifestation stuff is fast food.

So they're being fed what they're,

You know,

Receiving by other people.

Who are eating fast food?

And no one's really doing their own research.

We really can't sometimes you really can't find deeper research about this stuff because some of this other stuff,

This knowledge is hidden and it's not readily available.

So realizing that the true feeling is this indifferent confidence.

Like,

Yeah,

It's mine.

I got it.

Almost kind of like cocky,

You know,

Almost like they're not quite,

But it's like almost there.

Like,

Yeah,

It's here.

It's mine.

Because then what what what that shows to the universe is like,

Oh,

OK.

They have it already.

Great.

So let's bring it to them.

It's just sense of like,

Just just deep knowing.

And again,

If you really can't get there quite yet,

It's just a matter of just working up to that.

The question is,

Then how do I work up to that?

Right.

Working up to that is finding ways to just truly let it go,

Because what's the best way to fly a kite?

Is it to run with the kite and to keep running and keep running,

Keep running?

OK,

Fly,

Kite,

Fly.

No,

You got to keep running,

But you also have to let the kite go so it can fly.

Right.

So I would say the first step to getting to this space of like.

In different confidence.

It's like saying,

OK,

This is the thing that I want.

Great.

Either one writing down what you want and then letting go,

Not coming back to it at all and just truly just like letting it go.

That's one thing.

Another thing you can do is an exercise that I did in the first episode,

A technique called the Sedona method,

Which is another technique of like really letting things go and being in a space of like indifference and kind of hootless about it.

But to be like,

All right,

You know,

It is what it is.

That's something else you can do.

And what I'll do is that for this episode,

I'll guide us through another way to use that particular technique.

So I'll do that at the end of this episode so you can experience what that's like.

And then,

You know,

I'll say the third thing you can do in regards to just letting it go,

You know,

Being in a space of like this confident indifference is.

Stepping into what it is that you want.

And then releasing it,

What I mean.

So if you can imagine.

A movie.

Or a scene.

With the image that you want,

Exactly the way that you want it.

And like step into that image,

Step into that scene to see yourself in it.

And live in it for a moment.

And then know that when you're in it,

In that moment,

You're there,

You're in it,

You're feeling it,

OK,

Great.

But also in a space of indifference at the same time,

Right,

Because here's this thing is that.

When we want something really bad,

Right,

And there's sometimes we think or we feel like,

Oh,

My God,

Now I have it.

So let's let's focus on a million dollars.

Oh,

I really want a million dollars.

I have a million dollars.

Oh,

My God,

It feels so good.

That's probably the feeling when you first get the money.

It's like,

Oh,

My God,

I want,

Oh,

My gosh,

I got so much money,

Right?

Well,

Right.

So much compared to who?

Right,

Because a million dollars for some people is not a lot.

But it's using that as an example.

Make,

Oh,

My gosh,

I have a million dollars.

Wow.

Oh,

My gosh.

Right.

That's the first day,

The first week.

Maybe in the first month after the first year,

It's like,

OK,

I got a million dollars.

Second year,

Third year.

OK.

You become indifferent to it because it's just a part of your life.

It's deeply integrated into your life.

I think about the person that maybe you're with right now,

Your partner.

Right,

When you first got with them,

First met them.

Oh,

My God.

Butterflies.

Oh,

My gosh.

Right.

All this stuff that are going out.

Oh,

My gosh.

Butterflies want to see each other every day,

Holding hands.

Right.

Over time,

It's like the person becomes so integrated into your life not that there's no more love there because that's not it.

But it's like confidence,

Like,

Yeah,

That's my person.

Yeah,

I'm the person.

You have to think about it like you,

You just know it.

You know it to be true.

So there's that sense of like just knowing it to be true because that person is so integrated.

Right.

So the same thing with this,

What you want,

Like knowing it to be true,

Making sure it's integrated.

So the way to step into this image or scene is to focus on the end result of what you want.

So,

For example,

If you you want to materialize,

Manifest running a race instead of you seeing yourself preparing for the race,

Getting excited for the race,

Training for the race,

Running the race,

Already see yourself at the finish line like you did it.

And you and your friends,

You and your family,

They're celebrating you.

Right.

So you did it already.

You can even go even further in and,

You know,

See yourself a week from now after the race and hear yourself on the phone talking to someone that wasn't at the race,

Telling them about what how the race was for you,

You know.

So the key is to go to the end of the thing you want,

Because the end of the thing is really when it's integrated.

So,

For an example,

With a relationship,

Maybe you don't want to go to the end of the race.

The relationship,

Maybe you want to go to the part of the relationship where you've been with the person already for a few years and they're already integrated into your life.

So I would say another way to let go.

Right.

Is to put yourself into the end result,

Into a space was for the integrated into your life.

Feel that be there in that space for a few seconds.

Feel that thing.

And OK,

Great.

Step out and then go about your day.

That's it.

OK,

So that's something you can do.

So,

Again,

Let's talk about these laws.

Important law of repulsion.

Law of attraction.

Important.

Right.

They're a coin.

So they both go together.

Then we have this other aspect.

Epigenetics.

So epigenetics is really connected to your DNA.

So realizing that,

You know,

There are certain things that are passed down through your blood,

Through the family,

You know,

So if someone's mother had breast cancer,

Grandmother had breast cancer.

Odds are they too might have breast cancer.

Right.

Because that's a part of the DNA.

Also,

Other things are passed down in the blood,

In the DNA,

Things like trauma.

You know,

So someone,

A grandparent went through something,

Let's say,

For example,

Going to focus on slavery in America.

OK,

So a grandparent went through slavery.

Parent went through slavery.

The kid goes to slavery,

That's three generations.

Of trauma.

So when that kid has kids,

That trauma is going to be passed to that kid.

So sometimes we think about,

Oh,

My gosh,

Like,

Why can't people just get over their stuff?

When things are passed down to you and you don't really know where this stuff is coming from.

Especially when it's passed down through many generations,

It's hard to just be like,

Oh.

You're fine.

Yeah,

It's hard for people to really just let that stuff go.

So another reason why sometimes you may not be manifesting what you want to manifest,

Why your stuff may not be manifesting,

It's because there might be some epigenetic stuff.

In there.

That might need to be worked on.

And there are ways to definitely do that,

And if you want to work on that,

You know,

Let me know.

And that's a different subject,

But you can't talk about that here,

The ways to do that.

But there are definitely ways to kind of work through that and sort of clean some of that stuff up for sure.

However,

What I will say is that even if things can't be,

Let's say,

Cleaned up fully with that,

There are other things to help the process so that you still can manifest what you want.

Let's not focus on Feng Shui.

Yeah,

Actually,

No way.

Let's not.

I'll get to Feng Shui.

Let me focus on this other aspect,

Because I mentioned that there are other ways to get what you want.

Real talk.

Sometimes you're unable to manifest what you want because sometimes it's not a part of your soul's purpose.

It's not a part of your spirit's purpose to have it.

So you can have all the other things lined up for you.

Like,

Yes,

I got my mind right.

I got my energy right.

Law of attraction,

Law of compulsion,

Got that right.

Law of karma,

I'm good.

Right.

Feng Shui,

Which I'll talk about later.

I'm good.

But your soul might be like,

Nah,

You're not meant to own five yachts in this lifetime.

Because it might distract you from whatever else you're meant to do.

Or,

You know,

You're not meant to have a mansion in this lifetime because it's meant for you to live in a village,

In a suburb with other people,

To have neighbors,

To help them,

For them to help you,

For you to be a part of that particular culture,

Or for you to be living in an urban setting.

You know,

Because you live in an urban setting,

You get a chance to guess what?

Meet your life partner,

Which you haven't been.

You would not have been able to meet if you lived in a mansion by yourself,

Surrounded by no other people because you in a mansion,

You know.

So to be honest.

Sometimes you're not manifesting the things you want because it's not meant for you in this lifetime.

That doesn't mean you should give up because I think sometimes we don't always know.

We don't always know what's not meant for us to manifest in this lifetime.

But I believe that sometimes we're given these passions,

These dreams,

These goals that we want to manifest because they are here to help us,

To guide us,

And to put us in a certain space and to put us on a certain road that we need to go down,

That maybe we may not have gone down if we didn't have those specific dreams or goals.

So.

Something to think about.

For that,

I think I had to add in a little moment of real talk for us.

Last thing I'm going to mention,

We'll talk about.

Actually,

I'm thinking.

Should I talk about this now?

No,

I'm actually I'm going to stop here.

I feel like this has been a lot already.

And that last thing I dropped.

Might be a lot for people to take in.

So what I will do now is what I promised I would do in regards to helping you let go of and release some of the things that might be holding back your manifestations.

Like perhaps you wanting this thing so much is actually repelling it from you.

Focusing on the law of repulsion.

So let's do this exercise to get you to a space of.

A bit more indifference or some slight indifference and a bit more less wanting and just more confidence.

OK,

So take a deep breath in.

And release.

And again,

Deep breath in.

And release.

Good last time,

Big,

Deep breath in.

And release.

Good.

Now,

This exercise,

You can do this exercise with your eyes open or eyes closed.

The preference would be your eyes closed.

You can also do it with your eyes open.

OK,

So I want you to just focus on something you really,

Really,

Really,

Really want.

That maybe you don't have right now.

But something you really,

Really,

Really,

Really want.

And just bring up all those thoughts,

Feelings,

Emotions connected to that.

And just bring it all up.

Can you let?

These feelings,

These emotions,

These thoughts,

Can you let them be as real as they seem?

And just answer honestly,

If it's yes,

Say yes.

If it's no,

Say no.

If it's maybe,

Say maybe.

But can you just let them be as real as they seem?

And can you let them be as unreal as they are?

Can you let the feelings,

Thoughts,

Emotions,

Can you let them be as real as they seem?

And can you let them be as unreal as they seem?

And can you let them be as unreal as they are?

And can you let them be as real as they seem?

And can you let them be as unreal as they are?

Can you let them be as real as they seem?

And can you let them be as unreal as they are?

And in this moment,

Can you open up to balance?

Open up to security.

Open up to confidence.

And again,

Can you open up to balance?

Open up to confidence.

Open up to security.

Open up to confidence.

And can you open up again,

Just a bit more,

To balance up,

To security?

Okay,

Good.

And if your eyes are closed,

You can open them.

Okay,

Hopefully you notice you might feel a bit better,

A bit more balanced,

A bit more maybe even neutral,

Even just a bit more about the goal,

The dream.

Now just check in and notice.

How do you feel about it now?

So this is here for you.

So you can always go back to this,

Especially to that point of this episode.

And just listen to this part again.

Let's listen to this part again to do the exercise because this is very powerful.

It's very powerful.

The more you do this exercise.

So hopefully you enjoyed episode two of this wire manifestations aren't manifesting series.

I will be back with episode three,

Hopefully soon.

All right,

Take care.