Today we're talking about get over it,
Own your part.
Whenever you are tormented or confused by a situation it is likely that karma is at work.
It is not just about the other person or situation,
You are also involved,
You also hold responsibility.
The sooner you can relax and have compassion for yourself and all involved,
The sooner things will heal the universe.
Whenever you are tormented or confused by a situation it is likely that karma is at work.
And so we talk a lot about this idea of sticky relationships or sticky situations where it doesn't feel good,
There's arguing or there's drama,
There's conflict.
So there's this tendency,
Myself myself included,
To like blame the other person or be angry with the other person.
Just like all this drama thinking you know if only they were different,
It's all their fault,
They're not behaving right,
Blah blah blah blah and really it's like get over yourself,
You're part of it too,
Own your part,
You're also part.
It takes two to tango,
It takes two to argue,
It takes two to be in conflict.
If you are not involved in the conflict it can't happen,
If you aren't involved in the drama it can't happen.
And you say well this is really difficult like you know my boss is hassling me or my my you know boyfriend or girlfriend or or relationship partner is is being a jerk.
Okay so recalling that karma is at work,
The sticky situation is a way for you to learn a soul lesson about how to deal with this.
So if your boss is being a jerk you have a couple choices,
You can talk with them or you can quit.
If your partner is being a jerk or being abusive you can work it out with them or you can leave.
If you're fighting with someone over a long period of time like often we'll fight with you know relatives or people we've known for a long time we'll just sort of have this ongoing issue with them,
You know own your part of that.
What a waste to have relationships especially with family members be sticky and then only to have them resolved you know on that person's deathbed.
Why not just resolve them now,
Own your part,
Get over yourself,
Get over the need for you to be the wounded one or for you to be the victim.
Just kind of work through it.
Now I understand that all situations are different,
I also understand that there are super jerks,
Uber jerks out there of course and yet get over the idea that you're the victim and begin to work from your power which you have each person has intrinsic power as a soul and if you need support again we have this beautiful process called direct connection where you can enter into divine space simply by closing your eyes,
Breathing,
Going to the space where your guides are and beginning to ask for help from your spiritual counsel and beginning to ask for help from the from the outer the universe in the outer ways it manifests the synchronicities and the signs and the events that take place in your life and ask for assistance from this benevolent force so that you can resolve or relax or free yourself from these sticky situations.
It's so much easier when we're being mistreated to just kind of victimize ourselves or to have incredible anger you know but but if we get over our need to have those reactions we can actually get to the root and either again relax it or leave it thereby breaking or finishing the karma
