Dear friend,
Welcome to this beautiful place where we share a lot of love and peace and light.
So today we're gonna talk about unconditional love.
Unconditional love and the difference between impersonal love and the personal love.
Okay,
So when we enter spirituality we see a lot of people talking about universal love or unconditional love and we want to understand what is that.
What is this thing that they call unconditional love and sometimes people they misunderstand what really is unconditional love.
So unconditional love is impersonal love.
Is this love that doesn't come from the person.
That's very important thing to understand.
The love that is unconditional doesn't come from the person.
When I say person I mean the individual identity,
The ego.
The ego can only have the personal love,
The individual love.
And I would not call that is a true love.
I would call more like a passion or attachment.
What normally the individual self,
The ego,
Feels is the attachment for other persons.
But what we want to explore here today is the unconditional love.
So unconditional love is something that it's a quality,
Let's say like that,
It's a quality of or true nature.
Unconditional love is not something that we feel.
It's something that we are.
So you see the difference between I am feeling unconditional love,
Normally people say that,
Or I am unconditional love.
Because when I say that I am feeling unconditional love,
I'm already separate from this feeling.
So I'm not one with this feeling.
So I feel that I am one and this is true.
I am the subject and this is the object.
I am the person feeling this feeling of unconditional love.
So this separateness is already the distance between us and the true love.
So when we say that we are feeling this unconditional love,
It's a misunderstanding because it's not a feeling and it's not,
Let's say,
Let's say,
Experience.
It's more like a fragrance of awareness.
It's a fragrance of consciousness.
It's something that is always here on the background of our true nature.
And I could say to you that our awareness or true nature consciousness has like,
Normally we say that consciousness doesn't have qualities.
It's free of qualities.
But on this expression of life,
We can say that love is a quality of awareness.
True peace is a quality of awareness.
So normally when we are living on this true being,
We feel this love here.
And this love is an expression of living in our true nature.
In our true nature.
And this love that we are,
Not that we feel,
This love that we are,
It goes towards everything.
Like my love doesn't go only for you.
Doesn't go only for my mother.
My love goes to this camera or this tripod,
This TV,
Goes to everything.
Actually,
There is not a TV or a camera because also everything that I am seeing is also an expression of awareness.
So that's how we feel love.
Not that we feel,
But it's when we see that there is not two here.
There is not a camera and myself.
There is only one.
And this is the feeling of love.
It's not a feeling,
Okay,
But I'm going to call feeling for this moment.
So there is this beautiful quote,
I think it's from Rumi,
That he says that true lovers never meet.
True lovers never meet.
So what does that mean?
It means that two persons that are really feeling love between them,
They never meet because they're not two.
It's only one.
So this feeling of unconditional love is when I stop seeing this universe as separate from myself.
There is no more me and the other.
There is not more me and the objects.
This illusion of duality,
It comes to an end.
And now there is only love being love.
While I'm living on this separate entity,
This ego that feels that he is separate from others,
I'm always going to feel this divided love,
This conditional love.
What I mean when it's conditional love,
It means that my love has conditions.
I will love you while you follow my channel,
And while you give me likes,
And while you share my videos.
But if you don't do that anymore,
I will not love you anymore.
Or I will love you while you are married to me.
But when we finish our marriage,
I will not feel more love to you.
So this is a conditional love that comes from the ego and is not a true love.
Because the true love,
There is no borders,
There is no conditions.
It goes throughout the persons and now the objects.
Objects doesn't exist,
But it goes to everything.
Even go to these persons that we don't agree with them or we don't like them.
We can love a person that we don't like them.
That's a true experience.
Just to give example,
A few years ago,
I was helping one person to get out of an abusing relationship.
And then the person that was on the other side,
The man,
He came after me and he was feeling hate towards me.
He probably wanted to kill me.
And I was only feeling love for him.
I was only feeling love for him.
Because that's what we are when we are on our true nature.
We are love.
We are love all the time.
Even for these persons that can make bad things to us.
Or even for these persons that we don't agree with them.
Or that we don't like how they act in their life.
Just because we feel unconditional love doesn't mean that we are going to agree with everyone.
And doesn't mean that we are going to like everyone.
There is a difference between liking and loving.
I can love everyone,
But I don't like the way that this person is.
Hopefully you will understand this difference.
So,
Love is the dissolution,
Is the end of the distance between me and the other.
Of me and this world that I'm seeing.
Is the cessation of the separateness between me and the universe.
So now,
I'm feeling love for this plate that I just had breakfast and I need to clean.
I'm feeling love for that.
And I'm feeling love for this,
I don't know the word in English.
Because I'm not seeing this as a separate thing.
When I touch this,
I'm touching awareness.
I'm touching consciousness.
So,
You feel love for everything.
And actually,
Like I said,
It's not a feeling.
It's just like a fragrance.
This love is everywhere.
It's everywhere all the time.
And that's the same with peace.
And probably I will do this video soon about the peace that suppresses understanding.
The peace of God.
So,
This love that I'm seeing here is the love of God.
This love comes from God.
And this love,
This unconditional love,
Purifies everything.
It's like,
It's the cure of our humanity.
Your humanity needs love so fast and it's so urgent that we start to live in this place of unconditional love.
This place that we are love and that's the only thing that's gonna heal.
Heal.
Real heal.
Our world,
Our universe,
Our planet needs so much this unconditional love right now.
Because there's so much hate and there is so much duality and separateness.
Okay?
So,
This love is the strongest thing that we are.
It's the most beautiful thing.
It's divine love.
And I'm saying these words from from the deepest place on my heart because I felt,
I will say now feeling,
I felt this love so many times and it's so powerful what it can do for our lives and also for the lives of people around us.
It can cure and it can fix everything.
It's so powerful and so beautiful.
And so remember,
Love is not something that we feel.
It's something that we are.
But I cannot say that from the point of view of ego.
From the point of view of ego,
Love is something that we feel sometimes.
But also,
Hate is something that I feel sometimes when I'm on ego.
So,
I feel love and hate.
I feel love and hate.
And my love is conditional.
It's temporary.
But when I know that I am,
When I know that I am awareness,
That I am consciousness,
I am love.
Love is my substance,
Is what I am all the time.
And this love is not on time.
There is no time for this love.
It's always here.
It's my own existence.
It's my own reality.
And this love is everything that I am.
Consciousness and love are the same.
Truth and love are the same.
Truth,
Love,
And consciousness is the same,
Or are the same.
It's the same thing.
It's one thing that expresses from different perspective.
Beauty is another aspect of awareness.
Beauty,
Love,
Truth,
Wisdom.
One thing,
One love,
Unconditional love.
It's so beautiful.
So,
I wish you that you can open your heart more and more and more,
That you can live more on your true nature,
So you can stay on this place,
This unconditional place,
Unconditional reality,
Where you are always on this place of love.
That's what your humanity needs so much right now.
Unconditional love.
Okay?
So,
I wish you blessings.
I wish you love that you already are.
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So I can continue to do these videos in English,
And perhaps in the future I'm gonna create groups on English as well and do retreats in English.
I do retreats here in Brazil already on Portuguese.
I have my groups on Portuguese,
But I want to start to do these things in English as well.
Okay?
So,
Blessings for you,
Peace,
And love.
All the time and unconditional.
