You Don't Need A Fresh Start — You Need Complete Dissolution

You don't need a fresh start.

You need complete dissolution.

Hey there,

Friend.

My name is Anthony,

And I want to share with you a little message today that maybe can give you something to think about if you're feeling stuck or at a crossroads,

Or maybe you've reached a point in your life where it feels like it's time for a new beginning.

Maybe a chapter in your life is ending and you don't know where to turn.

But here's the thing.

You don't want to start over.

You want to leave your world behind and enter zero.

Starting over sounds nice.

It sounds noble.

A clean sleep.

A new chapter.

But what most people call starting over is just rearranging the furniture in a house built by the past.

Instead,

You want to set the house on fire and check into a motel.

Because with starting over,

You're not really beginning again.

You're replaying a familiar pattern.

Same melody,

Different lyrics.

Starting over is moving forward while still looking backward.

Still trying to recover what you lost.

Still trying to rebuild what already fell apart.

But the future you're aching for,

The one you deserve,

It doesn't live in your history.

It can't emerge from the old architecture of your current identity.

Again,

You have to enter zero.

The blank space.

The unknown.

The place where nothing from your past self fits.

And that's the point.

You must not have the answers.

You must not be confident.

You must step onto unfamiliar ground.

You must be willing to become someone your current self wouldn't recognize.

Because your new life cannot just be a slightly better version of your current one.

It must be a completely different reality.

Let go of the desire to start over.

Have the courage to walk into the complete unknown.

Let yourself and your current reality dissolve.

And then get ready.

Because things will get uncomfortable.

But watch what wants to be born.

This is your heart opening to possibility.

This is your soul guiding you to who you've always known you were meant to be.

I share this message not to say that your current life isn't good enough for you,

Or that you should regret who you are and the road you traveled in your past.

But instead,

It's meant to remind us that the greatest expression of ourselves and the life we truly crave is always waiting in the uncharted paths we're hesitant to take.

As Joseph Campbell once said,

The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.

I hope to see you there.

Much love.