The art of surrender is a really powerful part of calling in our future and manifesting our desires and living an aligned life.
Because the truth is,
We cannot see everything.
We do not have the higher vision,
The divine vision,
To know what every outcome is going to lead to,
What everything is meaning to,
And what everything is tied to.
What surrender does,
Surrender asks us to trust that there is a power and a force out there working for our highest good that is ensuring that we are exactly where we need to be and on the path we need to go.
Now that doesn't mean passive resignation,
Right?
And that's false surrender.
And I'm going to be getting into that today.
Real surrender is when you are a co-creator,
Yet you are not gripping on with control.
You're not trying to control the outcome,
Control what happens,
Control exactly how everything is going to unfold,
How you're going to get your manifestation and your the entire process.
You're trusting,
This is where I want to go and I'm surrendering to the journey of how I'm going to get there.
That is ultimately the path of surrender.
Now if you are lacking faith and trust in yourself,
In the divine,
In the universe,
You are going to try and control the process,
Right?
And as long as you're trying to control the process,
You are limiting and holding back your manifestation and oftentimes actually not allowing it to come through.
So for you to experience manifestation,
You need to surrender.
Surrender isn't easy for a lot of people because there is not a trust built.
So I actually believe that the cure to be able to surrender is building your trust in the divine.
That might be for you the creator,
Spirit guides,
Universe,
Whatever it needs to be.
It might even be you and your soul.
But there needs to be a level of trust.
A trust that there is a higher part,
Higher aspect that is ensuring that everything is working out for you and that everything is always working out for your highest good.
Right?
And if you know that,
If you embody that,
Then you get to lean back,
Right?
And you're not so controlling and worried.
You get to go with the flow and you're not like,
Why hasn't it shown up?
Where is it?
What's happening?
I needed to come through in this way.
No.
It gets to be easy because actually not surrendering is really quite,
Quite stressful and quite heavy,
Right?
To constantly be in the how,
How,
How,
How,
How.
And think about all the incredible things that you have actually manifested in your life.
Right now,
Maybe you have a partner,
Right?
A beautiful soulmate.
Tell me,
Could you have predicted exactly how you met this soulmate?
Maybe you could have,
Maybe you couldn't have.
I couldn't have predicted how I met my soulmate.
Or what's another thing that you manifested in your life?
Could you have actually predicted the how?
Think about you five years ago.
Would you,
Five years ago,
Be looking at you today and going,
Yeah,
I know exactly how I'm going to get there.
Me,
Five years ago,
Would have no idea that this is the path.
The how.
I would have got the things that I desired.
Me,
Five years ago,
Did desire the things I have right now.
But the path?
Well,
I didn't think that it would come.
Not all the things would come the way they have,
Right?
Because there was a level of surrender.
So look at you five years ago.
Did you think that you would get to where you are today through those pathways?
This is where surrender can come in and play a really,
Really powerful role.
Control is an illusion,
Right?
Because we're never really actually in control.
All it does is stress and limit us.
When we feel like we have to control everything,
We're limiting the full expansive opportunities of life that we can't see in our limited vision.
If you are stuck in control,
You cannot experience miracles.
You actually can't because miracles require openness,
Expansion,
Willingness.
Control is the opposite of that.
It's a constriction.
So part of surrendering also means being open to miracles,
You know?
And at the end of the day,
While surrender,
It actually also helps your and everything that you're wanting to call in to be created.
It also just is a more peaceful,
Joyful life.
Like you're not worried all the time and stressing and anxiety.
How is this going to happen?
You get to just breathe and relax.
I want to touch base on real surrender versus fake surrender or false surrender because some people think they are surrendering,
But they are actually not.
Real surrender is a deeper,
More genuine release,
Right?
When we truly surrender,
We let go of the need to control every detail,
Every step,
Even the timing.
The timing is a really important part of surrender.
So real surrender means we're open to whatever outcome is best for us,
Right?
Because there's a level of trust,
That level of trust that things are working out for my highest good.
Always.
I'm looked after.
I'm taken care of.
And sometimes I actually don't know what is for my highest good because I don't have that divine vision.
I might think,
My ego might think I know what's for my highest good,
But I have to trust that there is a bigger picture at play.
One that I might not fully understand yet.
So here's how you can actually tell if you're in the true surrender,
Right?
You feel a sense of peace,
Acceptance,
Especially if things aren't going to plan.
And this is really important because if you are truly surrendered,
Even when things are falling apart,
You're still like,
I'm okay.
I'm good.
Because you trust so much that you know everything is going to work out for you,
That everything is happening for your highest good,
That,
Of course,
You're surrendered to it.
Of course,
There's peace because you know,
No matter how it turns out,
It's going to be for your highest good.
So it's not just,
I feel peace when things are working out.
Do you feel peace when things aren't working out?
You're not obsessing over outcomes anymore.
You're focused on the presence.
You're focused on how you feel.
You're focused on taking aligned actions.
And there's a certain disattachment,
Right?
To the results.
There's still desire,
But you're not obsessed with it.
It's there and you're aware of it,
But you've also surrendered it and release it.
Most of all,
There's an inner trust.
It's what's meant for you will come.
And what isn't meant for you is going to fall away,
Right?
Deepening into that trust.
Real surrender doesn't mean stop working towards your goal.
Not at all.
It means you take aligned effort that's from a soul space that is unattached from the result that you have to create.
You're acting from a place of trust and divine alignment.
And that's so powerful.
What you want to do if you're feeling like,
Okay,
I don't have that peace.
I'm too attached to the results and the outcomes.
And I feel anxiety and I'm trying to control it.
It's important that you bring awareness to it,
Right?
Because you can move from fake to real surrendered.
First,
I actually want you to connect to the divine,
To the universe and ask for help,
Request for help and ask to receive signs that you are being supported and everything is working out for you.
You're going to get signs.
It's where it always gives a sign.
So ask to receive those signs and you will.
And as you see those signs,
Know and feel,
I can surrender.
Everything is working out for me for my highest good.
I'm so deeply loved.
I'm so deeply looked after.
I can relax,
Right?
Untie yourself from the specific outcome or result.
Have the desire,
Okay?
This is my end goal,
My desire.
And I'm also open to it being slightly different if there is an even better way that that can come to me.
If there is an even better version of it,
Right?
Because you might think that that's the best possible outcome,
But there might be an even better one.
And you have to trust that and release that and know that there is a higher power that is looking out for you that knows what is even better for you.
The third way is shift from constantly focusing on the future and come back to the present.
Focus on how you feel right now.
Where can you find safety and security in yourself?
Because as long as you don't feel the safety and security,
You're going to go looking for it and you're not going to be able to actually surrender.
Real surrender is about accepting that you're not always in control.
And that's perfect.
Who would want to always be in control?
Yes,
You are the creator,
But you're also the co-creator and you're protected by higher forces to not experience certain things,
To not manifest certain things.
And you have to know that true freedom and peace comes from when you can trust the unknown and release the need for things to look a certain way or be a certain way,
Right?
And know that it's always working out for your highest good.
There is a divine timing for things to come up.
Surrendering fully is one of the most powerful things we can do.
It frees us up.
It opens up our lives to all the miracles and possibilities that come to us.
It brings more presence,
More peace,
And opens a door to unexpected miracles along the way.
So this is your intention to surrender.
Take what it is you've been holding,
Whether it's a manifestation,
Whatever you've been wanting to create,
Hand it over,
Ask for help,
Hand it over to the universe,
The spirit,
To the divine,
And know that you're taken care of and deeply loved.
Sending you big love.
