There Are No Coincidences - Every Person Has A Lesson For Us

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In this video I want to speak to you guys about something that I've been noticing for myself.

I always try to share these random learnings with you guys because I think I have this belief that if I'm going through something,

Probably a hundred thousand other people are going through exactly the same thing.

Perhaps I don't know all of those hundred thousand people but even if I know a hundred of them and if I can share this knowledge with them and they can be like,

Oh I'm not alone,

I feel like that would be a major,

Major transformational moment.

I've noticed this for myself as well that I've noticed many times that I thought I was alone in experiencing something.

Being an INFJ is one big thing but I realized there are hundreds of thousands of other people going through exactly the same thing and that made me feel less alone.

Alright,

So that's the reason I share a lot of this stuff just in case you guys are wondering.

Recently I've noticed that there is,

There are no coincidences on this beautiful planet and this universe that we live in.

I absolutely noticed that more and more,

The more I live on this planet and the longer I spent in this life,

The more I noticed that this becomes true further and further and further.

And the main essence of this idea is that there are no coincidences which means that you are meeting every person that you're meeting for a reason.

And because this idea is becoming so prominent in my mind,

I am being extremely alert and careful whenever I meet someone.

So if I do meet someone,

Whoever they might be,

It doesn't matter if they're a boy,

A girl,

Or like a female or a male or a child or an adult or an older person or whoever they are,

Whatever they are,

And not only just human but obviously beings in general,

Insects and and snails and there's a lot of snails here right now because of the rain and roaches and mosquitoes or whatever it might be,

Right?

Like every being that comes into your life,

There's a reason they came into your life.

Now of course if it's a mosquito,

What are they gonna teach you very little because they can't communicate with you?

But if it's a human that's coming into your life,

They're probably going to communicate with you.

They're going to say certain words,

Certain sentences,

Certain phrases and I think,

I think in my life I've noticed that every single person who says whatever they're saying is saying those words for me and they're saying it because I need to learn something from those words.

Now of course this kind of maybe can become a little bit too intense because you meet a new person and they say something you're like whoa this is for me then what does it mean etc.

So you can kind of go through,

You can go down the rabbit hole very fast and you get enamored in your thoughts and you can just go really insane very fast,

Yeah?

So I try not to overdo it but if I keep on meeting the same person over and over again and that does happen as I said as well very often to me where I don't deliberately make it happen but it ends up happening that I meet them at one event and I'll go randomly to another event and they're there as well and I'll go to and they're there as well and I'm like alright cool and so then I'll sit down with them and I'll talk to them and then they'll say certain things and I'll be really alert as I said I'll be alert to the fact that something they're saying is important for me to hear.

Something they're saying is important for me to hear especially if it irks me,

Especially if it irritates me,

Especially if it's something I don't want to hear.

Alright I'll give you a quick example because examples work better I think in my opinion.

So I was at an event a couple of days ago and I was sitting in front of this lady and she reminds me a lot of a friend who door slammed me or let go of our friendship a couple of years ago right and so for me whenever I listen to this lady because her accent is very similar to my friend's and the way she behaves and the way she speaks the way she moves her hands very very similar to my friend and instantaneously I start feeling this irkiness I start feelings ugh I don't want to be around this person not because of her it's not her fault and I always feel bad because I'm like it's not your fault it's because of my stuff that I have of course that I still have because of this individual so I'm really trying every single time I meet her because I'm meeting her a lot which of course is a sign as well so I'm always trying to be present and I'm really trying not to be like alright just be present with this human being she is not that other person that you're having issues with she is her own human being and she has something to teach you right of course one of the best lessons she has to teach me is that I still haven't gotten over that friendship and I need to have closure over it but another thing that she teaches taught me when we met last was the fact that I need to call my mother right and something she said about missing her mother etc etc reminded me that I miss my mother a lot and I wanted to talk to her right and so as soon as that meeting ended as soon as I was able to get out of there I called my mother I was walking home it was raining I had an umbrella in one hand at the phone in the other hand and I was walking in the rain people looked at me like I was crazy because I'm excited and I was I think yelling into the phone because when Indian people talk to each other we yell a lot of coaches do that but we particularly my family we all love talking to each other in a loud volume people think that we're angry but we're not we're just having excited time and talking to each other and we're just happy right and so Thai people are not used to that they looked at me like I was insane I really tried to tamp down my volume but I was so excited to talk to her I was happy I was just excited and this excitement came because I realized that this person had to teach me something right and she taught me that I love my mother a lot and even despite all the madness and all of the all of the fights that we've had over time I love her and I want to spend time with her and I want to talk to her right and I wouldn't have called my mother if I hadn't had that lesson I wouldn't have called my mother if I was not open to the lesson is more accurate if I wasn't open to the idea that this person has something to teach me and I'm going to listen to it and I'm gonna take it on as my next mission right not a thought mission or it could be a thought mission but a physical mission whatever it might be if I was closed off and I was like no this person is nothing to teach me because yeah whatever what are they gonna teach me I know everything kind of thing but sometimes I just go into this mode right as a human being as well we have pride and we're like no no I know everything it's fine you know I don't need to learn anything I realize that the more I meet new people the more I realize that they have everyone actually every single person that I meet has something to teach me every single person even if I believe when I first look at them out they have nothing to teach me the more I believe that the more I have to be like all right you're being an idiot obviously they have something to teach you as well so stay open stay alert to what they have to teach you what lesson are they providing for you right and if you meet that person over and over again either the same listen lesson is going to be repeated if you are not listening to it which happens to me a lot or they're meant to teach you many different lessons and that's why they meet you meet up with you again and again that's why the universe makes you meet up again and again right because as I said there are really in my opinion no coincidences there are seriously the more I learn about the world the more I realize there are no coincidences every little freaking thing is happening because there's a reason for it every little thing and the more I learn about the universe the more I realize this truth and so the fact that you're meeting this person once is obviously there's a reason for it if you keep on meeting them again and again there's absolutely a reason for it and if you keep on getting the same lesson again and again there is a reason for it absolutely right so I've said the same sentence over and over again just so that you guys understand the meaning and importance of it so this is what I recommend that you guys do in your life as well is that if you keep on meeting the a particular person over and over again or the particular lesson over and over again realize that the universe is trying to knock some head in some sense into your head right he's like the universe is like tuck tuck knock knock knock you know listen up pay attention there's something that you need to learn here but you are not being alert to it you're not listening right now so pay attention right that's what the universe is trying to tell you and so again as I said the same lesson might be repeated the same person might be repeated or you might just meet this person once just once just randomly out of nowhere you're walking down the street and this person stops you and says something and that's the lesson and you're never gonna get that lesson again from that particular person perhaps from other places but that person's never gonna meet you again you got that lesson and you have to be alert that's one of the reasons why I'm really trying to not zone out especially in conversations but our in life in general but also in conversations because there there are lessons coming at us all the time some of them we get some of them are like yeah of course this is a lesson I get it I get it universe some of them are like no I don't want this you I don't want this lesson because I'm scared of it so then also the universe is like yeah okay no I don't care you're still gonna have to take it and lastly we get lessons or the lessons are sent to us but we are not alert enough so we're not paying attention and they disappear right and I think that's such a race right the universe is trying to talk to you the universe is sending you a lesson doing all this stuff to get you this information and you're like no I'm not gonna pay attention right so I think that's a kind of a waste of time so I recommend as much as possible of course I'm not saying go around like with with high-vision goggles on and just be so alert all the time it's impossible to do that it's very tiring but if you are in a conversation with a person that keeps on reappearing or if you notice that there's something that if you get goosebumps or if your intuition pipes up almost all of a sudden you feel like you need to be alert be alert because there's a lesson coming at you and you need to take it in okay the universe is always sending us lessons and if you don't take it the first time around the universe is cool I love her because she's always like alright if you don't get it the first time I'm gonna send it to you again she's very forgiving and so she'll send it to us over and over and over again so it's fine if you don't get it the first time some lessons don't as I said just come once which is fine as well but most of them will come over and over again right and so be ready for it because you have to be alert to accept it to receive it to understand it okay I hope this makes sense it's an abstract abstract topic but I think it's so important especially for me it was such a revelation and I hope it is for you as well if you guys want to put me further obviously you could do that by going off 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