If you want a relationship to make you happy,
And if you're there waiting,
Waiting and thinking that as soon as I'm in that perfect relationship,
I will be happy,
I have really,
Really,
Really bad news for you.
And the news is that you'll be just as unhappy in the relationship as you were before,
Or you'll be just as happy in the relationship as you were right before the relationship.
So this you can control.
You don't know who you'll meet at what moment,
Who you'll have chemistry with,
But the happiness or unhappiness in a relationship you actually can control.
Make your wishes come true now.
Find your strength now.
Find joy now.
And then if you have joy and the other person has joy,
The joy triples or quadruples,
It compounds,
Or the misery also compounds.
So it is in your hand what you're gonna compound if you're single.
Find happiness,
Find joy.
It is possible without a romantic partner to feel really,
Really happy every single morning so that when you do meet that person,
You feel so much happier and they can add so much to your joy.
And also you usually meet how you feel.
If you're feeling an energetic deficit,
If you feel down,
If you feel unhappy with yourself,
You will also meet a person who is unhappy with themselves.
Every relationship is a mirror.
So truly spend time cultivating your self-compassion,
Doing your meditation practice,
Pursuing the things that matter to you,
Not meeting other people's expectations so that you can be balanced,
Happy,
In harmony with yourself and harmony with the world.
And then that harmony will only increase and you will step into the happiest relationship of your life.
I wish that for you.
