Success Through Alignment - L,L,&L W/ Glenn Ambrose

Welcome to Life Lessons and Laughter with your host,

Glenn Ambrose.

Hello everyone,

Welcome to the show.

So today I'm talking about success through alignment.

So it's so helpful to understand everything's energy because it simplifies these concepts and you can,

Yeah,

It just simplifies the concepts,

I feel.

So what,

You know,

The way this kind of came through originally was that I was seeing that whatever stays in alignment flourishes,

Whatever stays in consistent alignment,

Right?

And there's multiple ways of looking at this.

So if you look at it like energy,

You can see it with everything,

You know,

Like it's kind of easy to see it with nature.

So a plant that grows,

The reason that a plant grows,

Like when it's actually doing its growing,

It's in alignment with what it needs,

Right?

So it's in alignment with the energy that it needs.

So like if a plant requires lots of sun and it gets lots of sun consistently,

Then it's going to grow consistently and well,

Right?

Same with water,

Same with some plants that need shade.

If they need shade and they get shade consistently,

Then they're going to grow.

So if they are in alignment with what they need,

Then they're going to grow consistently.

You're going to have a good effect.

So everything is like that.

We are like that.

If we stay in alignment with what we're trying to accomplish,

We're going to accomplish it.

When we,

You know,

Whatever stays in alignment flourishes while it's in alignment,

Because that's its source of energy.

So this is why a lot of times I tell people,

Do what you can where you are all the time.

Wherever you are,

Do what you can.

So like if you want to start a business,

You want to start a side hustle or something,

And you're like,

Well,

I still have to work my 40 hour a week job.

Okay,

So do what you can where you are.

Like go start chipping away at building a website.

Go get a domain name.

Go spend $10 a week on some materials that you might need.

Watch a YouTube video about marketing.

Whatever,

It doesn't matter.

Wherever you are,

Just do whatever you can to put a little bit of energy towards what you want to accomplish,

Because that builds up the energy.

It starts flourishing.

You can't,

You know,

One of the things people,

One of the mistakes people make often is they're waiting for everything to line up before they do anything.

Well,

I can't,

I can't go over here and do this.

So,

You know,

I'm not going to waste my time doing this until I get that all set up.

No,

No,

No,

No,

It's not a waste of time.

One,

You're never wasting your time if you're putting energy towards something that you want.

It should be a joyful experience.

And if it's not,

That's a whole nother thing you need to look into.

So if you're doing something that you enjoy,

That's not a waste of time.

If you're walking in the direction of something that you want to create,

You should be experiencing joy.

If you're putting so much stress on yourself to try to accomplish something that you're not even enjoying what you're trying to accomplish,

Then you're off center in another way.

Maybe you shouldn't be trying to accomplish that.

Or you need to change the energy in which you're doing it,

Which I just did a podcast on that.

So you can go back and listen to that one.

You know,

It's about the energy in which we do things.

So it's very important and becoming more and more important right now.

We should be enjoying our lives.

We shouldn't be stressing ourselves out,

Doing everything and just not paying attention to the energy in which we're doing them just to try to get them done so then we can go do the next thing.

It's like people,

That's wasting time.

You're wasting 40,

50 years of your life missing it because you're stressed out all the time just trying to accomplish something.

So this,

We just need to put consistent energy in alignment with what we're trying to accomplish.

It doesn't matter.

We're so addicted to results.

We wanna know if what we're going to do back here is going to produce the result up here that we want.

And if it doesn't,

Then it's a waste of time and I'm not gonna do it.

That's not how things work.

It's just energy.

If you're putting energy towards something that you want,

That's energy going towards what you want.

It's going to have a positive effect.

It's going to bring you more in alignment.

Just by you taking action puts you in alignment.

Okay,

So this is what I'm talking about.

We have to stay in alignment with what we're going towards as much as possible.

Not like,

And I don't mean that,

I gotta try to remember how the ego interprets some of the things that I say.

That it's,

Oh,

He said as much as possible.

So then people will take that line and put all this stress on themselves for every waking moment to try to figure out how to throw something else on their to-do list to try to accomplish it because they have to do it as much as possible.

No,

You're going to get there.

You're going to get there.

So don't turn it into,

It's the energy in which you do it is important because if you're stressed out trying to accomplish something,

You're going to accomplish something that's stressful.

If you're peaceful and you're enjoying working towards something,

Then you're gonna produce something that you enjoy.

Energy doesn't magically shift from negative to positive.

So if we are in alignment,

If we are feeling joyful energy as we take a step towards a life that we're trying to create,

Then we will,

And we do that consistently,

Then we're going to create that joyful life that we want.

So whatever you want in your life,

If you want to have a happy relationship,

Then put some consistent effort towards creating happiness in that relationship.

If you listen to people who have successful relationships,

Like one of the things that they say is have a date night.

A date night is not magic,

Okay?

Like,

This is something that I try to teach a lot.

Look underneath,

Understand why things work.

It's not that important if you find something that works.

Try to understand why it works.

If you understand why it works,

Then you can duplicate it.

Not only in that possibly that particular way,

But you can duplicate it in other ways.

So date night seems to have a positive effect on a lot of relationships.

Why?

It's because you're taking action,

You're putting energy towards something with the intention of enhancing it.

That's why you have a date night.

I want to have a date night because I want it to improve my relationship.

Oh,

Okay,

So you're doing something,

You're taking action that's gonna put you in alignment with a happy relationship.

Oh,

That's why it works,

Yeah.

So it works in every situation,

All the time,

Always.

If you put energy towards something,

You're going to get an effect.

That's what that energy does.

You know,

Now sometimes we're putting energy towards something we think we want.

You know,

Like,

You know,

The ego will come in and be like,

Well,

I had date night with my ex and it didn't work out,

It didn't help us at all.

Well,

Maybe you had a crappy relationship.

Maybe you shouldn't have been having a date night.

I mean,

Maybe you were having a date night just to see if it could help it and it didn't.

Okay,

Well,

Then it doesn't mean the date night didn't work.

It just meant that you weren't supposed to be with that person,

You know?

So this is,

We're so easy to find excuses why these laws don't work and it's like,

Well,

Wait a minute,

You're talking about a different law.

This is why you gotta go deep enough to understand this stuff.

If you understand it,

Then you're not at the whim of all this surfaceness.

Oh,

I'm gonna try this,

Oh,

It didn't work.

Oh,

I'll try this,

Oh,

That didn't work,

I'll try this.

Well,

Why are they not working?

Do you understand the dynamic of them and what they're supposed to do?

No,

Oh,

Okay,

Well,

Then maybe you should.

And then maybe you'll get one of these things to work or maybe you'll actually choose things that are going to give you the effect that you want instead of just randomly trying stuff.

And like the date night,

If you're sitting there going,

You know what,

I think this relationship is gonna end,

But I'm not sure yet,

So I need to make sure,

So I'm gonna try date night.

Okay,

So you try date night for a while and it doesn't work and then the relationship ends.

That doesn't mean you wasted your time for date night.

Date night actually served its purpose.

You found out that the relationship wasn't going to be saved.

Whereas before date night,

You didn't know if the relationship was gonna be saved.

So really the goal is to find out,

It wasn't to save the relationship,

It was to find out if the relationship could be saved.

See,

Then you're like,

Oh,

So date night did work.

Yeah,

It's solved,

It served its purpose.

Its purpose was to find out if the relationship was gonna be saved and you found out that it wasn't,

Congratulations.

You know,

When we understand things on a deeper level,

Things start to make sense.

Most people are dancing around the surface and it's very difficult to make sense of life up there because it's the chaos theory up there.

It's all symptoms of what's below and you're dancing around and everything looks different and it looks like life is all complicated and it's hard.

That's why come down and understand energy.

Understand that if you put energy towards what you want,

You're going to get it.

If you starve something of energy,

You're not going to get it.

If you just sit around waiting for a perfect scenario to come up and then you'll go take action,

It's probably not going to happen.

And you're gonna get depressed sitting around anyway.

I mean,

Sometimes if when we're in a situation that we don't like,

We just need to take action for the sake of taking action,

Just to not sit still.

You know,

Like years ago,

My son wasn't real happy where he was.

You know,

He'd finished high school,

He didn't know what he wanted to do and he was getting depressed.

And then all of a sudden,

You know,

We had this big blowout and he ends up staying at my friend's house.

Now he didn't,

He wouldn't have asked for that to happen.

He didn't want it to happen.

Now he's over at my friend's house and my friend's like,

Hey,

If you're over here,

You're gonna start working for me.

Nobody's sitting around on my couch all day.

So then all of a sudden he starts working for him.

And now that turned out to be a very pivotal moment.

Even though he wouldn't have chosen it,

He starts working as a plumber and starts doing something and starts realizing how capable and intelligent he is and that he can do other things too.

And,

You know,

And it was just a major turning point in him becoming confident in who he was as an adult.

Now he's not working there anymore,

But that was a very pivotal point in his life.

So,

But if you asked him,

Hey,

Hey,

Do you wanna go work as a plumber?

No,

I'm not doing that.

But he did what was in front of him.

Was he kind of forced a little?

Yeah,

Kinda,

You know,

But that's okay.

It doesn't matter why,

It matters what.

So he did it.

He did it and it turned into something because he allowed it.

Now,

If he would have resisted that,

You know,

That's where the what comes in or the why,

I should say.

You know,

If he was,

I don't wanna do this,

I don't wanna do this and resisted it the whole time,

Well,

Then it wouldn't have turned out well,

But he opened up and gave it a try and actually it really served him because of that.

So sometimes we're doing,

Sometimes we're being held in a place where it's not,

Oh,

I really wanna be over here doing this,

But there's no way you can get there.

Like you're doing everything that you can to get there.

Well,

If it's meant to be,

It will turn into something,

But in the meantime,

Don't just sit there,

Do what you can around you.

And sometimes that literally means going for a walk.

I don't necessarily mean,

You know,

Taking on another job or whatever.

What I mean is our biggest problem in accomplishing things is stagnant energy.

It's when we're not doing anything.

Non-movement equals depression.

It equals closed minds.

It equals victimhood.

When we're just sitting around being stuck inside of our own heads,

That's a isolation is very dangerous.

It's,

We are not supposed to be doing it.

Maybe that's the podcast I need to do.

I'm gonna make a note,

Isolation podcast.

So maybe I'll do one on that.

But what happens when we isolate is it's just not natural.

And we do it too much nowadays.

This is,

We're addicted to like independence and thinking we're supposed to stand on our own two feet and separation from others.

You know,

We don't even talk to our neighbors anymore.

Like we listen to the government,

But we won't,

But we're scared of our neighbor.

Like,

Are you freaking kidding me?

Like,

We have to,

We're supposed to be part of a community.

If you take a person and stick them on a deserted Island and go pick them up a few years later,

They're crazy.

Why?

Because it's stuck in their head.

And weird things starts to make sense when we isolate and we get depressed because of the non-movement.

So just take action,

Do things,

Go to the gym and exercise,

Go for a walk,

Whatever you can do,

Start journaling,

Research stuff,

What can I do?

Start walking towards something,

Even if you're not sure that's what you want.

I'm not sure,

I'm not gonna waste my time.

No,

Just put energy towards it.

See,

That's another thing.

We're so scared to waste our time,

If we're not sure about something especially,

But a lot of times that's what leads us to things that we want.

So a lot of people don't know what to do or what they want and all that type of stuff,

Right?

So they just stay stuck.

So instead of that,

What you can do is just start researching or walking in the direction of,

Or putting energy towards anything that captures your attention,

Anything.

Because a lot of times it's a pathway.

So sometimes we go,

Oh,

YouTube creation caught my attention.

That kind of sounds cool.

Making a YouTube channel that generates money,

That's kind of cool,

I'm gonna look into that.

And we start looking into it.

And then all of a sudden we go,

Oh,

Yeah,

Well,

That's cool.

Oh,

What they do is,

There's actually a marketing technique that they do.

And I didn't even realize this,

That they create specific thumbnails and stuff.

Hey,

Maybe I could start a business creating thumbnails.

And maybe I'll do it for other things too.

Maybe I'll do it,

YouTube,

Maybe I could do it for some people,

But I could create thumbnails for all social media outlets.

And I could focus on that and give people really good price and start a business doing that.

And then all of a sudden you do that,

Right?

And people like,

Oh,

How did you come up with the idea to start the thumbnail business?

Well,

Actually I was looking into developing a YouTube channel.

And then I came across this and it sounded like a good idea,

So I just did that,

Right?

This is how we come across things.

That never would have happened if you're sitting on the couch going,

I don't know what to do.

I'm not sure what I should do.

I don't know.

Well,

I'm not gonna waste my time doing something until I figure out what I wanna do.

No,

Just put energy out there.

Just start doing anything.

Move,

Move,

Right?

And then once you start,

Once something captures your attention,

Then align your energy with it.

Align your actions with that.

Ooh,

This captures my attention.

I'll feed a little bit more energy there and it'll expand.

Not again,

It's kind of like date night.

It might not necessarily expand the way you expect it to expand.

It might not turn into a YouTube business.

Maybe it'll turn into another business.

That's okay.

It doesn't matter.

Eventually you got to where you're going because you were moving.

You were putting energy towards.

You were staying in alignment with what you want.

I wanna do something that brings me joy.

Okay,

Good.

Put energy towards that.

Well,

How would I do that?

I don't know,

What brings you joy?

I don't know,

Like marketing does.

Okay,

So start looking into different types of marketing.

Yeah,

But there's so many I don't know.

This is how people stay stuck.

They talk themselves out of putting energy towards something,

Anything,

And seeing what comes of it.

A lot of times,

I'm telling you,

A lot of times people don't know what to do.

I mean,

I'm king of that,

Man.

I still don't know what I wanna be when I grow up.

But how did I become a life coach?

That's really served me well over the years.

Well,

The way I became a life coach was because I didn't know what I wanted to do.

That's how,

Right?

So I'm like,

What do I wanna do?

And I'm like,

I was so grateful for getting sober and the help that people gave me.

And I really loved helping other people.

So I was like,

I wanna give back.

I wanna help others.

Oh,

Okay.

Now,

I didn't know that I was going to be able to or how to do it or what.

But I'm like,

All right,

Well,

I was sponsoring other people in recovery.

So I'm like,

Okay,

Yeah,

I like this.

This feels good.

So I was doing more of that.

Then I'm like,

Okay,

I think I wanna turn this into a business.

Well,

I can't make money in AA.

That goes against the principles.

So what can I do?

Well,

I can help people outside of AA.

Okay,

Well,

Let's.

.

.

So I started looking into becoming a psychologist and a psychiatrist and a counselor and a therapist and all these other different things.

And they all sounded like they had a bunch of red tape,

Which I wasn't interested in.

I'm like,

I don't wanna do a bunch of red tape.

Then I saw what you need to do to align with like insurance companies to get paid.

And I'm like,

Oh my God,

That sounds like a nightmare.

And then I looked at the schooling required and I hate school.

Like I just don't learn that way well and I have no patience for it.

So I'm like,

A bunch of school,

A bunch of red tape,

A bunch of insurance crap.

That does not sound good to me.

That doesn't sound like joy.

That sounds like sucking the joy out of what I wanna do.

I wanna help people.

That sounds like three quarters of my time is gonna be spent not helping people or at least half of it.

I'm not willing to do that.

So then I look into,

How else?

I hear about life coaching.

Okay,

Well,

What about life coaching?

Well,

You don't take insurance and there's a lot less red tape.

It's your own business.

It's like the wild,

Wild West is really no structure.

You can do it however you want.

I'm like,

Ooh,

That sounds like fun.

But it was just putting energy into looking into this type of stuff.

And then it turned into something.

And even when I was doing it,

I didn't know that it was gonna work.

Oh,

It's not like I found life coaching and I was like,

Oh yes,

This is me.

This is what I wanna do and I will do this and I will start a successful business and I will be an international podcast.

Like I didn't know any of that crap.

I just went,

Eh,

It kind of seems like it's in alignment with what brings me joy.

It has the most aspects of it compared to anything else that seems like it would fit me in my personality.

Okay,

I'll go in the direction of this for a while.

So I did.

And then little by little,

It turned into something more and more and more because I was putting consistent energy towards it.

So it flourished in ways that I never could have expected.

I didn't plan to do a podcast.

It got put in my lap and said,

Hey,

Glenn,

You should do a podcast.

Here,

Let me help you.

Oh,

Okay.

Thank you.

That stuff comes to you when you're putting consistent effort towards something.

All of a sudden doors open where there wasn't one and somebody comes out of the blue and offers you something that you didn't even know existed and then it works out.

So it's that consistent energy.

So the other thing I'm gonna branch off,

It's the same topic,

But I'm gonna branch off a little bit into this other way that I see this being important.

And it's staying in alignment with who you wanna be and who you're becoming.

So it's kind of an aspect of manifesting,

I would say.

But really Beckwith does a really nice job teaching this.

It's you have to vibrate at the rate of what you're trying to become.

So if you want to be successful financially,

Specifically financially for this conversation because success,

I think success is much bigger than finances.

I think finance is a small portion of success,

But for this,

If you wanna be successful financially and you can't see yourself,

You don't feel like you're capable of being successful financially,

Then it's not gonna happen.

Or it'll happen like if you're lucky enough to manifest it,

It'll happen in a flash and then all the money will be gone.

Like you won't be able to maintain it.

So we have to be able to,

This is kind of how the visioning process works.

And I don't go overboard with visioning.

I think people vision way too much.

I think most of the times when people visualize achieving things,

What they're actually doing is they're visualizing their lack thereof.

They're basically,

Because they're not aware of their energy,

So they're trying to go,

Oh,

I wanna bring this into my life.

I wanna bring this into my life.

And what they're doing is they're saying,

I don't have this in my life.

I don't have this in my life.

And the universe is just matching the fact that you don't have it.

So you don't have it longer.

Right?

They're not trying to do that,

But that's what's actually happening.

So I obviously don't mean that.

What I mean is going like,

Sitting side,

I do this technique with so many different things.

Learning to talk to yourself and read your own energy and connect to yourself internally is so important.

So one of the ways you can do it,

Like for,

And I'll go stick with the financial abundance topic on this one,

Right?

So you just go in and be like,

Wow.

Play the imagination game a little.

Just be like,

Wow,

I have all the money that I ever wanted.

I have the freedom to do whatever I want.

If something happens in my life,

Like a car breaks down or something,

There's zero stress because I know that I can handle it.

And when there's an opportunity to help somebody,

I know that I can help them.

And if I wanna do some project or if I'm a philanthropic project,

This is obviously a little bit aligned with the way that I think,

But you can do it the way you think.

If a philanthropic idea that I have comes up,

I can actually go do that now because I have the money to support the idea.

So,

And if I wanna go on this beautiful vacation somewhere and just not stress about staying in some crappy hotel somewhere,

Or if I'm gonna be able to afford renting a car,

I don't have to worry about it,

Man.

I can go just do this vacation and whatever comes up,

I have enough finances to just be like,

Got that covered,

No problem.

So I can just really relax and enjoy the experience of the vacation instead of stressing out over every dime that I have to spend somewhere,

Or being worried about something I'm expected coming up.

And it's so nice to have this.

And you gotta,

If you're saying these things and really connected to your body,

It has to feel good.

It has to feel like it's matching your truth.

It's matching your energy.

So you can imagine and visualize there.

And if it doesn't feel natural,

Like it's matching your energy,

Then try to release whatever energy that's in you that doesn't match.

Or you can go in and find out,

Like,

Why doesn't this feel?

Ask yourself,

Why doesn't this feel natural?

Oh,

Because you don't even have that money.

Well,

That's,

This is,

I'm imagining this.

I'm just trying to match my vibration.

Like sometimes,

Sometimes,

A lot of times,

We get too hung up on the truth and lying to ourselves,

Which all that does is it creates the same for our future.

Right,

And I consider myself a spiritual realist.

That's another podcast I gotta do,

Spiritual realist.

So I do not lie to myself.

And there,

I had to make some notes.

I was struggling coming up with some ideas lately.

So I wanted to write some,

And I had a bunch of them last week and I didn't write them down.

So I'm trying to write them down now.

So yeah,

I'm realistic about my life.

It's,

But there's a time to be realistic about my energy and what I'm creating.

I am a creator.

You are a creator.

We are all creators.

So if we are to create something in the future that is different than where we are now,

We have to embody that energy.

That's what ushers it into our lives.

So sitting there going like,

Oh,

But that's not true.

I don't have that money.

All you're doing is reinforcing,

I don't have that money.

And guess where you're gonna be six months from now?

Same place,

Because you keep embodying,

I don't have money energy.

I am one who doesn't have money.

You keep reinforcing it because you're scared to look into what might be.

This is what might be.

This is your future you're bringing,

You're walking towards.

So it's okay to let go.

It doesn't mean you're not being realistic.

Not being realistic is when you act in ridiculous ways.

So like if I,

Like when I'm trying to embody this energy,

I'm embodying the energy,

Right?

Not realistic,

Being not realistic,

The way that that could hurt your life is if you're embodying all this energy,

Everything's fine.

And then all of a sudden,

For some reason,

You actually start believing that you have more money than you do.

I don't know why you would do that,

But let's just say it happened.

Or you're trying to take this creation process and speed it up and not use it properly or something because you don't understand it or something.

And then all of a sudden you go and you go,

All right,

Well,

I have $5,

000 in the bank and this vacation,

The flights cost $7,

000,

Which sounds pretty expensive for flights unless they're first class,

But whatever.

So you go,

Right?

And you buy this flight that's $7,

000 and you only have 5,

000.

And then all of a sudden your bank rejects the purchase and punishes you for,

Gives you a penalty for overcharging or something.

And then now you got to pay that off.

And you're like,

Oh my God,

This didn't work.

Well,

Come on.

Like,

Don't take action that you,

That's impossible for you to take.

Like you still have to be realistic,

But when you're aligning your energy,

That's a different story.

You're not taking it.

Now,

If there's something that you can do to align your energy even more,

Then cool.

I'm trying to think,

I don't know.

Like,

I'm trying to think of something that like,

I was talking about a trip.

So maybe you could,

Like,

Let's say the trips,

There's something that you can do,

Like you could book a tour.

Like,

Let's say you could,

Or let's say you can book your flights,

But you can't pay for everything.

Well,

You could go book your,

This is a little bit risky.

It depends on where you are and how able you are to do this.

You might be able to book your flights.

Like,

Let's say they're refundable,

Right?

That's a good example.

So like,

Let's say you have enough money for the flights,

But you don't have the money for the rest,

Right?

Well,

Book a refundable plane ticket because that's like,

You're aligning to it happening.

Now,

You're not,

You're still being realistic because it's a refundable plane ticket.

And God forbid,

Money sounds like it's tight in your situation.

So if something comes up and you have to cancel it,

Well,

Then you have a way out.

So that's called being realistic with still taking action.

This is what I'm talking about.

This is what aligns our energy.

We don't wanna be unrealistic and shoot ourselves in the foot and do things that we can't do that aren't realistic,

But we can take action wherever we can take action to align our energy to what we're trying to accomplish.

Right?

This is,

As we stay in alignment with it,

As we take a little action,

It reinforces that belief.

Like,

Yes,

This actually is going to happen.

Yes,

This is happening.

Yes,

I am manifesting this.

Yeah,

Yeah.

Instead of the,

I don't have,

I don't have.

So it's staying in alignment,

You know?

Like when we manifest on,

Just clarify the manifesting piece with this.

When we manifest,

Most times we manifest when we forget about things,

Okay?

And the reason is,

Is because when we forget about things,

Usually two things are happening.

When we forget about things,

One,

We have to believe it's possible.

Otherwise,

It's not going to manifest.

And that's what I was just talking about.

Getting within yourself where you really feel that this is possible and you're capable of doing this.

Right?

So,

But once your energy is aligned to that,

Like when I found my first business space,

I wasn't even really looking.

Well,

How did I manifest that?

Well,

I knew,

I was confident in myself that if I found a business space that had a living space attached to it for me and my son,

Because that's what I was living in,

I knew that if I found a place like that,

And then,

Like I hadn't even put together a business plan or even thought about a business plan yet,

But I knew deep down in my unconscious being that I could do whatever I put my mind to.

So therefore,

If this came into my life on an unconscious level,

Because remember,

I didn't think about this at all.

It was just strictly on an unconscious level.

I knew that if given the right situation,

I was smart enough and capable enough to have my own business.

I knew that just deep down.

I wasn't sitting there going,

Oh,

I'm looking for a business space and do I?

It was just something that I happened to know that I would be able to run my own business someday.

So then I forgot about it.

The forgetting about it avoided me from putting the lack energy out that blocks manifesting.

Like I was saying,

Most people,

When they're manifesting,

They're like,

Oh,

I want this,

I want this,

I want this.

And really all they're saying is,

I don't have this,

I don't have this.

So since I wasn't even thinking about it,

I wasn't putting any lack out there.

It just come up in conversation every once in a while.

I'd be like,

Yeah,

That'd be cool.

And then the next thing you know,

It comes in.

And then I had to take action.

Then I had to figure out a business plan.

Oh my God,

There's a building like that and it's for rent.

How am I gonna make enough money to afford this?

Oh,

Then I had to take action.

But I knew that I would be capable of running a business.

I didn't know how yet,

Because I hadn't gotten to that point.

So my point is,

Is the reason that worked was because deep down I knew,

I was already in alignment with that,

With the fact that I was capable of running a business.

I knew that.

Even though I hadn't done it before,

I knew it.

So there was no block there.

And then I forgot about it and it just came in because it was meant to be.

So yeah,

I think that was the,

We have to internally,

We have to believe that it's possible.

Otherwise it's not going to come in.

So that's what internally knowing it's possible is what puts us in alignment with the energy the creative energy that makes things happen.

That's why I want to talk about this now.

It may have sounded like I went off,

But it's to get us here.

We have to be in energetic alignment with what we're trying to create,

Knowing that it's possible for us.

There can't be any sense of lack or blocks there.

So stay in that.

So when you learn to have these conversations with yourself and if it feels right,

Yeah,

Yes,

I do.

Yes,

I have this money and yes,

I am successful.

Oh,

I feel so,

It feels so good to be here.

Our brain doesn't know the difference,

Well,

Or our body doesn't know the difference between us thinking about something and us actually experiencing it.

That's why it shifts our vibration.

Everything has a vibration.

So like everything,

Alcoholism has vibration,

Victim has a vibration,

Abuse has a vibration.

The type of job we do has a vibration.

The way we think has a vibration.

Everything has vibration and collectively it makes up our vibrational field or our energy field and there's little aspects of it.

So if we're not vibrating at the rate of someone who is capable of being successful financially,

Then we're not going to be successful financially because we're not in alignment with that vibration.

So it has no channel to come through.

This is what alignment is.

See,

It's not about time.

We think everything's linear.

It's not linear.

It's not about time.

It's not about,

Like a lot of the actions we take actually just put us in alignment.

The actions don't really do crap.

Like one example is people say,

Oh,

You know,

You have to work hard to succeed.

Like,

No,

You don't.

There's lots of people who have succeeded who haven't worked hard.

You know,

Oh,

You got to work hard to make money.

No,

You don't.

Most of the people that,

The hardest workers make the least money.

In many times,

Not always,

Right?

Sometimes it's hard workers that make good money,

But why?

It can't be the hard work because you have hard workers making tons of money and you have hard workers making no money.

So it can't be how hard you work.

If it was just how hard you work,

Then everybody that worked hard would make money.

And that's simply not true,

Right?

A lot of the people who make the most money are on a golf course all day.

So like,

Why?

Why is that different?

Because it's not about working hard.

It's about what you think you're capable of.

That's why.

And sometimes if you truly believe that if you work hard,

You're going to be financially successful,

Then as you work hard and you think it's going to take you 10 years,

Then if you work hard for 10 years,

There's a good chance that you're going to be financially successful.

Because you worked hard for 10 years?

No,

No,

No.

Because you thought that that would bring you in alignment with financial success.

So you worked hard and every time you worked hard,

It matched your vibration in alignment with financial success more and more and more and more.

So you're working hard and believing that it was going to bring you success.

That's what brought you success.

It's not the actual working hard.

It's that you thought that that was the formula and you believed that that formula was going to work.

So once you implement that formula,

It shifts your vibration into alignment with financial success.

Because you believe you're doing what it takes to gain financial success.

Now,

The reason it doesn't work for other people is they can say,

Like for example,

They'll say,

Oh yes,

If you work hard,

You make lots of money.

So they go out there and they bust their butt and they're working hard and they can't understand why because they really thought this was going to work.

Usually it's because there's something inside of you that thinks that you're not worthy.

You don't deserve financial abundance.

You're not capable.

You came from a crappy background.

There's no way it's going to work for you.

There's some limiting belief down in your unconsciousness that's blocking you from getting into alignment with that financial abundance.

This is why doing that talk inside of yourself and imagining yourself,

If you're imagining yourself financially abundant and it doesn't feel right,

That means there's something unconsciously blocking you from that.

And you need to find out what that is or at least somehow remove it.

Sometimes we don't have to have clarity on what it is.

Some people,

Like a lot of times,

I energetically remove it.

I'll just be like,

Whatever is out of alignment with what I'm trying to gain,

Whatever isn't in my highest good,

Please remove,

Release,

Transmute,

To the highest good.

I'll do stuff like that.

So I don't even have to know what it is.

If this doesn't block,

I'm just like universe,

You know better than I do.

So if there's something blocking me,

Get rid of it.

And then I'll reinforce what I do want.

So that's how we can get in alignment and how we can stay in alignment.

And whatever is in alignment flourishes.

This is how we achieve success through alignment.

And we can do it in any area.

Like I said,

I talked about financial success,

But we can do this with relationships.

You wanna be in a happy relationship.

Well,

How do you feel about that inside?

Do you feel you're capable of being in a healthy relationship?

Are you on social media,

Talking about how men or there's no good men or there's no good women out there anymore?

That blocks it.

That's a limiting belief.

Oh,

There's no good men out there.

There's no good women anymore.

I hear this all the time.

Oh,

I have to,

Oh,

This is the world is filled with narcissists and I'm an empath and it's so difficult.

Oh God,

Let's,

It's,

Don't worry about the external circumstances.

Worry about your energy.

If you're putting limiting beliefs on yourself and putting them out there,

Reinforcing that they're your reality,

Then guess what your reality is gonna be?

Exactly what you're putting out saying your reality is.

It's just a story.

You don't have to meet 350,

000 wonderful men out of 8 million or 8 billion.

You don't have,

All you need is one.

All you need is one good woman.

You don't need 600,

000.

So like,

Even if there wasn't many on the planet,

You only need one,

So stop feeding those limited beliefs.

There's good people out there.

The world is filled with good people.

I noticed I was,

I'll wrap up with this.

I noticed a video a little while ago of George Carlin,

Who I used to love when I was younger.

And you know,

He's passed now,

But he has some good stuff to say.

And one of the things he said is he says,

Like he would trash society a lot,

Right?

And one of the things he said about society,

I saw him on a talk show and they're like,

So you just hate people.

And he,

Because he was alluding to that.

You know,

He goes,

No,

No,

No.

He says,

I don't hate people.

I hate people collectively.

He goes,

People individually,

I love people individually.

It's like,

I meet great people all the time individually.

You meet them one-on-one,

You get,

You know,

And you get to know who they are.

And people are wonderful one-on-one.

It's when they start grouping together that they start losing their authenticity.

They start losing their identity and start locking in on these collective BS beliefs that are ridiculous.

And he's like,

Those are the ones that annoy me,

Right?

And there's some truth to that.

There's some truth to that.

There's people are wonderful.

You know,

This is what makes me laugh when with all the political division that's going on.

It's people like,

Oh my God,

I can't understand how seemingly intelligent people would even think about voting for the other side.

Like,

So instead of slowing down and looking at that and going,

Well,

They must have a reason.

Like,

There must be some train of thought that they're thinking makes sense.

There must be.

Because half the world didn't just go insane all of a sudden.

Like,

The world is filled with good people.

They're wonderful people all over the place,

Right?

So where are the 50% of the population hiding?

If every time I go out,

I meet good people all the time and seemingly they want the same things like peace,

Happiness,

To be able to take care of their families,

To love,

Everybody wants all those same things,

Right?

But now somehow we have 50% of these people that are major insane jerks that shouldn't be allowed to live on this planet because all they want is death and destruction because of who they think is gonna be good in office.

Like,

Does that make sense?

Does that make sense that like,

Where are all these 50% of the people hiding?

You know,

Are they like the bad drivers on the road where there's like two of them and 150 good drivers?

Like,

Because the numbers don't add up,

You know?

How often do you actually interact with somebody that's treating you like a jerk for no reason?

How often does that happen?

Most people,

It doesn't happen very often.

Like it happened for me when I was young,

It happened somewhat regularly,

But even then it was rare.

You know,

If I'm honest with myself,

Like let's say it would happen like maybe once a week when I was young,

Right?

Which is way more often than most people,

Way more often.

But that was because I was in anger energy all the time.

I was angry and guess,

Like,

It was like a magnet,

Man.

If there was somebody else that was angry,

I was attracted to them.

And if I was friends with them,

I mean,

Some,

Of course,

Sometimes we'd get into an argument,

But sometimes we'd,

Like one time I specifically remember this,

Like I was in a crappy mood and I went out to a bar and I ran into this friend of mine who was in a really crappy mood too.

And I mean,

He was a friend,

So I didn't want to start crap with him,

But I latched onto him and we'd like expanded our anger.

It was just like,

It was fuel.

You know,

It was like another log on the fire.

We were more negative together.

And then these like three guys came in from out of town,

Which up in Massachusetts out of town is a reason in itself to have a problem with somebody at the time,

At least it was back then.

So we get into this big fight with them,

But it was why,

Because it was like a magnet,

Right?

There are,

So if we're negative,

We're going to attract negative people.

So if there's a lot of negative people in your life,

Look around,

Man,

You got to shift your vibration because it's you.

Once I got,

You know,

When I got sober and woke up spiritually,

That was 20 years ago now.

I haven't been in one fight,

Not one.

Haven't even really come close in 20 years.

Do you know how many fights I got into the 20 years before that?

I can't even count,

Countless.

And what changed me?

The world didn't change.

Suddenly all the jerks on the planet didn't just disappear,

Which I thought they were all jerks.

That's why I fought them,

Right?

So like it's,

The world didn't change,

I changed.

This is what we need to do.

We are responsible for ourself and our energy.

So stay in alignment with what you want.

And there's tons of good people out here,

All kinds of wonderful souls amongst us.

So,

All right,

That's going to do it.

So,

Yeah,

Yeah,

That'll do it.

Thanks for listening everybody and get in alignment with what you want.

You know,

Feed that,

Feed that energetically.

Oh,

I do want to say one more thing.

So I said that our mind and our body doesn't know the difference between whether we're thinking about something or whether we're experiencing it.

That has been scientifically proven.

Like neural pathways are created by thinking about things.

Our body releases stress hormones,

The same as if we're thinking about a past event and then if we're experiencing it.

Athletes,

They've had them visualize their event and with electrons and they found out their muscles were firing out in the same sequence as if they were actually doing it.

Like,

So this is all,

It actually physically changes our vibration.

We want to be vibrating at the rate of what we're bringing in or what we want in our life.

That's how we create our future.

If we're vibrating at,

You know,

Like I said,

Like if I was vibrating at anger all the time,

Right,

And I wanted to be peaceful,

It wasn't going to happen because negative people were going to keep,

Angry people were going to keep coming in my life and I was going to keep butting heads with them.

But as soon as I shifted my vibration,

All of a sudden these angry people just disappeared.

Why?

Because they didn't match my vibration anymore.

So they weren't coming in.

It's like an asshole repellent.

It's a beautiful thing.

The more love you are,

The less bad people come around you.

So vibrate at love.

That's a good one.

Vibrate at love.

I'll end on that.

All right,

Peace peeps.