6 Key Secrets To Success That Will Make Your Life Better!

Hi beautiful dearest lovelies!

I'm so excited because today we're going to be talking about the six secrets to success that make your life better.

Before we get into this episode,

I would like to tell you that I'm hosting a live webinar this Thursday,

August 5th at 11am PST about setting boundaries,

Saying no to what doesn't fulfill you,

And saying yes to yourself.

It is completely free and all you have to do is register at kalenfood.

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Even if you can't make it live,

If you sign up,

I always send you the recording so you can listen to it when you get a chance to.

You are joyfully invited and I hope to see you there.

So this episode is for you if you want to develop a meaningful relationship with yourself,

Learn how to live your everyday life at a high vibration,

Desire tips and affirmations to aid your journey,

Or would like to acquire various aspects of wisdom regarding prosperity in your life.

In this episode,

I'm focusing primarily on the success of currency,

But all of these points tie into other areas in your life as well.

In this episode,

I discuss having a healthy relationship with money,

How I define success,

Making a 20 reasons why list and why it's a great idea to have one.

The universe will help you with your mission when it is aligned with your heart and passion,

How to arrive at peace and serenity,

Why pointing the finger at others is fruitless,

And what you can do instead,

And more.

Do you want to accomplish something?

Have you set out a new goal?

That is incredible,

But if you don't set out to grow and make changes,

Time can fly by without moving closer to your desired final outcomes.

One year on my birthday,

I did yoga with baby goats and it was absolutely incredible.

The instructor was consistently asking the question,

Where are you now?

She went on to say how important it is to acknowledge and appreciate where you are now because you're exactly where you need to be.

Money is constantly flowing all around us.

We simply need to position ourselves in the correct way to acquire it.

Think about how much money is flowing in and out of people's wallets,

Bank accounts,

Wire transfers,

Etc.

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Every single day.

There is true abundance on earth.

I also want to point out that having a healthy relationship with money is so important.

This can look like many things,

But one of them is trusting that the universe will always give you money when you need it.

It helps you worry less about it and focus on other things.

Ken Honda says that people with a good relationship with money have better relationships with their families because they're not constantly working and stressing out about bills.

I believe that the most important things in life above all is who you loved and how deeply you loved them.

To me,

Success is happiness,

Health,

Love,

And inner peace.

You can have all of the money in the world,

But if you don't have someone to share it with,

Attained it at the expense of missing out on your family's lives,

Or continually live in a state of scarcity,

It might not be the best feeling.

Being prosperous is not necessarily easy,

But it's worth it,

And with practice it becomes easier to consistently utilize these mindsets.

Nothing great is built overnight.

It is cultivated.

Here are six secrets to success that I've learned in my life,

And they are do the things that you don't feel like doing to get what you ultimately want.

When you fail,

Stand back up.

When someone tells you no,

Do it without them.

Align your passions and purpose with your occupation.

Be grateful for everything you have and believe that you can actually succeed.

So the first one,

Do what you don't feel like doing.

You are on your own journey.

In this journey,

Only you have control over your actions.

No one else can jump into your body and do the hard work for you.

You have to push through it all by yourself.

When you're starting a new goal,

Or when anyone is starting a new goal,

We can be so pumped up and motivated,

And then a few weeks,

Months,

Or years pass by,

And it starts to feel really challenging.

What are you going to do in this situation?

Not feeling as though you want to do something is inevitable and is going to happen from time to time.

Will you give up because it feels challenging,

Or will you keep going when you don't feel like it because you want it that much?

About a month ago,

I had a routine doctor's appointment.

For the last year,

I have been working so hard to make ends meet and at the same time pursue my dreams.

Let's be real,

I worked so hard that I neglected my own needs in the area of fitness.

So when I walked onto the scale and saw that I was about 10 pounds heavier than I was about a year ago,

It was my wake-up call.

There was no denying that yes,

I could do a much better job about my fitness.

So I did something about it.

I created a workout schedule to stick to so that I would actually follow through with it.

And when it came to creating this,

I took a couple things into consideration.

First,

Since I'm just getting back into it,

It would be wise to give myself grace to practice and get better.

Second,

I made sure that my plan would be something that is actually achievable and motivating.

I decided on going to the gym every other day.

Whether it is in the morning or night didn't matter to me,

But making sure that I stick to once a day on and off is my schedule is what was important to me.

After sticking to my routine for about a month,

I'm already noticing a difference.

Yes,

There were times when I didn't feel like going and those are the days when it's 9 or 10 pm and I'm finally done with work and all I want to do is just lay on my bed and relax.

Relaxing isn't my priority right now though.

My health is.

So I slip on my workout clothes and shoes,

I kiss my dog goodbye and head out to get my sweat on.

And it's been so worth it.

Taking time for myself and having self-care,

Which was a lot of work,

That extended meters s Adhens can get youimate Francise,

Anytime I needed to.

So I began going out to my sleep partytop and I wasown wearing a dress gold shirt that wouldn't might see it and think to yourself,

I'll do it tomorrow or I'm just going to pretend that it's not there.

Would you treat dinner plans with your best friend like that?

Or maybe your mom or someone who you really care about?

If you wouldn't,

Then take this into consideration.

It's time to treat yourself with love and respect as well.

Because the way that you treat yourself is the most important relationship that you have in your life.

So I have a list of 21 reasons why I need to reach my goals so badly.

It's pretty easy to come up with 10 reasons why you want something.

But after that it takes some soul searching.

I highly recommend that you create a 21 reasons why you need to accomplish your goals.

Be honest with yourself.

When times get challenging,

Refer back to your list.

Next to my 21 reasons why,

I also have my top five goals,

Five other goals,

Affirmations,

And quotes that I love.

It's important to remember that everything right now is temporary.

Your current situation,

Your job,

Your relationships,

And even your physical existence on earth.

Our souls live on forever.

Keep on working hard and it will pay off.

Second,

When you fail,

Stand back up.

Let's define failure.

Failure is the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective.

While that is technically accurate,

True failure to me is when someone gives up,

Loses hope,

And stops trying,

Or when someone never even gives themselves the chance to try in the first place.

When you fail,

It can be very challenging to see the light in it,

But there is.

Every time that you don't meet your desired outcome,

You build strength,

Knowledge,

And experience.

Nothing is ever wasted time.

What is your response to failure?

If you don't know,

Then you need to know.

The best way to take control of yourself is to know yourself.

When you know your strengths,

You can work on improving them more if they are beneficial for you.

And in the same way,

When you know your weaknesses,

You can work on improving on those as well.

If you see someone with a broken leg,

You don't tell them to walk it off,

And it's all in their head.

So why do we give mental bruises and breakages less importance?

When these events happen,

Acknowledge them and give them love and care.

Imagine what the world would be like if we all worked on our mental health as much as our physical health.

And who cares who's watching?

Are you going to let that stop you?

It is in your best interest to stop caring about what others think of you.

This is your life,

Not theirs.

Let them go figure out their own lives first before you put any energy into caring about their judgments.

When someone judges you or sends negative energy your way,

It is a reflection of their own pain.

Here's something that I personally live by.

Failure is not an option.

No matter what,

I will keep trying until I carry out my mission.

This type of thinking makes it a lot less likely for me to lounge around being unproductive because I'm literally giving myself no other option than to succeed.

I'm the kind of person that's all or nothing.

So when I commit myself to something,

I go all in.

Maybe you aren't an all or nothing kind of person,

But I still strongly believe that going all in on something that you're passionate about or that you want to achieve is important because nothing truly great is built on the side.

It is given appropriate love and care.

At the same time,

If something doesn't work,

Don't knock your head on it until your skull breaks.

That would be not a good plan.

Get inside your power,

Assess the situation,

Create a new plan of action,

And try again.

Silence is power.

Doing nothing can be powerful too.

It's wiser to plan ahead and take steps to move forward when you take the first leap.

Stuart Wilde gives an example in one of his books that says something along the lines of,

If you aren't chasing after your goal like a chicken with its head cut off,

Then you're doing it wrong.

Three,

When someone tells you no,

Do it without them.

It can hurt a lot when someone says no,

Both literally or figuratively.

Don't take it personally.

It says a greater deal about them than it does about you.

And honestly,

It saves you a whole lot of time.

So please don't ever blame people for where you are and point the fingers at others.

You are responsible for your actions.

You got yourself where you are.

Only you can transform or uplift your life,

And that's the truth.

I do want to acknowledge that a lot of situations in our lives are out of our control.

If you've been abused or suffered extreme trauma of any kind,

I want to acknowledge how painful that might be.

Keep in mind that even if you have gone through terrible events or situations in your life,

You can still focus your energy on the future and not be a victim to your past experiences.

It can be easy to point the finger at someone else for why you aren't where you want to be.

It's not as easy to acknowledge that you would be best to point the finger at yourself.

When I was in network marketing,

My upline was so kind to me before I signed up.

And then once I did,

She wouldn't even text me back.

When I reached out to her,

Telling her that I was ready to take charge and I wanted her help,

I got nothing.

When I realized that my mentor was fruitless,

I went to look for another one.

It's all about perspective.

Say to yourself,

There is a way and I will find it.

There is always a path and you will definitely find it with persistence and perseverance.

Do what you have to do to get where you need to go.

If you keep trying,

There is no way that you won't make it.

From this podcast,

I have created and nurtured many relationships with listeners and those in my network.

Transitioning to working as a self-love coach full time,

The foundation that I nurtured has created the perfect basis for what I'm doing now.

And as my journey evolves,

I'm nurturing more foundations for what is coming next.

It really is so wonderful and interesting how everything comes together perfectly.

Trust the process and figuratively take the stairs.

There is no elevator to where you want to go if you wish to maintain that position sustainably.

There are lessons that you must learn,

Relationships that you must nurture,

And loving time that you must dedicate into your craft.

Have you ever heard of Birchbox?

It was started by two girls and they got 60 no's before they got a yes.

I mean,

Imagine that.

They were asking for help for 60 times before they got a yes.

I would think that after 40 times they would maybe get a little discouraged or disheartened,

But they maintained their self-confidence and their composure,

Kept their belief strong and kept going,

And then they got a yes.

And now they are ultra mega successful.

I want to point out here that when you do create a business,

Organization,

Etc.

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We tend to think that it is safer to begin it with somebody.

Something I learned from friends' and families' experiences is that the more people who are involved the less control you actually have,

Especially when their money is involved.

Don't you want to call the shots on your own creation?

Be careful with who you let in.

If you do,

Increase your intuition.

I am a firm believer that you can do anything you dream of.

I do believe that you are capable of doing much more on your own than you may realize.

Yes,

Teamwork can definitely make the dream work,

But those people come to you at the right time.

Try not to force anything.

Number four,

Align your passions and purpose with your occupation.

When you are doing what you were born on Earth to do,

The universe wants to help you get there.

When your employment is birthed from following your heart,

You will live life every day and love gratitude and service to others.

If you are truly pursuing your life purpose,

Nothing will stop you because the universe will help you along the way.

If your goal is not in alignment with what feels true in your heart,

Then it has much less likelihood of succeeding.

Another thing to ask yourself is if your goal hurts others both figuratively and literally.

If it does,

The universe will likely not support your objective.

Another thing to contemplate is that when you do follow your passion,

Allow the universe to give you money.

For instance,

Having items available to purchase online or some form or way that someone is able to passively give you money,

In these ways,

The universe can bring you abundance without you having to clock in and out of work.

Do you see the difference?

In a similar manner,

Allow yourself to receive money and abundance from the universe as a whole.

You won't receive it unless you allow yourself to receive it.

Try saying either or both to yourself or the universe.

I am open,

Ready,

And willing to receive money and abundance as well as I deserve serenity,

Health,

And happiness.

Fifth one is be grateful for everything that you have.

So this one is immensely vital.

Being grateful for everything that you have is not a joke or something that anyone should take lightly.

Everything that we have is a gift and can be taken away in an instant.

There are so many people out there living in conditions who are much worse off than yours.

In January 2020,

Los Angeles County had about 66,

000 homeless people.

To me,

This is so sad.

It truly is.

As a society,

We are only as healthy as our weakest points.

Many of those were failed by the system.

Of course,

There are exceptions in people who just want to be homeless,

But there are also those with really sad life stories who were failed by foster care and government systems.

If you haven't checked out the popular YouTube channel,

Soft White Underbelly,

I really highly recommend checking it out.

The interviewer Mark finds homeless and troubled people and asks them questions about their life stories.

It's a great way to get a glimpse into what life is like for many of them.

You know,

A lot of people cause their own suffering.

Some people choose to be unhappy.

If you have a family,

A bed to sleep in,

A roof over your head,

Or food to satisfy your stomach,

Then you have a lot more than a lot of people.

Look at the big picture and shift things into perspective.

The mere fact that you are alive is a miracle.

You have been given an opportunity to learn and grow and evolve.

The next time that someone asks you how you're doing,

Say that you're doing fantastic with a big smile on your face.

And also contemplate this question.

What is so great about your life that you want more of it?

Try to focus on the positive things in life and live life in a way that is half cut full.

Gratitude is what takes you from misery to peace.

It allows you to be aware.

I strongly recommend you to write three things down every day,

Every day that you're grateful for.

Or at least one thing and three reasons why.

Try to say thank you more,

Whether that's to God,

To yourself,

Or other people.

Arriving in peace and happiness is not something that you find at an outer source.

It comes from within.

Delve within yourself the present moment and take a look around you and smile.

Really be in the present moment.

This is how you arrive.

This is peace.

When your inner peace is so stable,

Emotional drama that comes up in our lives is much more tolerable.

I had to reach the lowest of the lows to start being grateful for my life and everything in it.

And I'm so grateful for that.

Sometimes you don't realize how great you have it until it's gone.

We would be wise to appreciate the good things in our lives before that happens,

Just in case it does.

And my last number six,

Believe that you actually can do it.

Whoever you are,

Wherever you are,

You must have faith that you're actually competent to achieve your goal.

If you don't believe in yourself,

You will keep yourself contained in a box and you will have a challenging time moving forward.

If you don't believe you can do it,

Then why would anyone else want to join you on your mission?

People enjoy seeing passion,

Fire,

And soul in others.

That's what we're all drawn to.

On a more personal note,

I have gone through days when I didn't believe that I would survive.

I have overcome obstacles that I never thought I would be able to,

And I'm still here,

Stronger than ever.

Our weaknesses,

Pains,

And struggles give birth to strength.

I'll say that again.

Our weaknesses,

Pains,

And struggles give birth to strength.

But I want to make a point that it was always within us.

It was always within us.

That strength was always there.

It just comes out when we get into situations that are challenging.

Believing in yourself can be exemplified through following through with your daily schedules and rituals,

Adopting a healthy lifestyle,

Giving yourself compliments,

Supporting other people's journeys,

And setting long-term goals for yourself.

The reason why supporting other people's journeys is an example of believing in yourself is because when you feel so confident in yourself,

You don't want to put other people down.

You are happy for other people,

And you want them to win,

Because when they win,

You win too.

So,

You have been through so many challenges in your life.

I know so because nobody's life is perfect,

And you're still here,

Bettering yourself,

And that speaks volumes in itself.

Do it for you,

And you can do it for me,

But ultimately,

You're really doing it for you.

You deserve everything that you want.

You deserve serenity,

Health,

And happiness,

And peace,

And joy,

And abundance,

And prosperity,

And anything that your heart desires.

Remember,

When you do change yourself,

You change the outer things in your life as well.

Your personal development reflects onto your business,

Organization,

Or mission.

Pray,

Journal,

Manifest,

And pour your heart into everything that you do.

Don't forget to say I love you to everyone,

Including yourself.

Stay incredible,

And keep going.

So,

Remember,

Do the things that you don't feel like doing to get what you ultimately want.

When you fail,

Stand back up.

When someone tells you no,

Do it without them.

Align your passions and purpose with your occupation.

Be grateful for everything that you have,

And believe that you can actually succeed.

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