Lesson 8 - Search For Meaning Over Money (Series Finale)

So today we're talking about mission-based emotions and it's it's a conversation that is full of positive feelings emotions you know all of those things I call them the yummy feelings because we've been talking about all the yucky feelings over the past what seven weeks so this is the eighth week and right now I don't know if you've noticed I don't know how long you've been with me but you have after today you'll have 16 sessions that you can go back to when it comes to releasing and resolving your challenges around money we have eight after today we'll have eight lessons eight talks and then there's an accompanied meditation that goes with each talk so you'll have eight meditations giving you 16 sessions that's basically a course so I did this series because in my group I share a lot of this information but I know that Insight Timer my Insight Timer family can't always leave Insight Timer and join me in my group so I wanted to bring some of it here to Insight Timer and I am incredibly grateful honored which is the first mission-based emotion that we're going to talk about but it's also how I feel when I'm on Insight Timer I just feel so honored to be able to talk to and connect with people all over the world all over the world and share what I have learned over my 20 years doing this research and technically my research is on being happy which is what we all want it's just that society tells us especially nowadays I feel like maybe it was this way in the 1900s in the 1700s but because I'm living right now it feels like money is a big part of happiness and money can be a tool to buy you things that bring or continue your happiness but your happiness has to be inside happiness is an inside job like they say happiness is internal it is not external however you can use the money to help you go out and find and create more inner peace more inner happiness because having money allows you to take care of some of the problems that you have pretty easily I mean if you think about some of the problems you have with just a little bit more money that problem would go away now society says more money more problems it says you can't money can't buy happiness it can't buy love money doesn't grow on trees and it also says the love of money is the root of all evil and because of all of this we have these negative feelings around money and we a lot of us believe that we don't deserve money like money is only for the greedy and if we desire money then there's something wrong with us and my community my good rich people society we all believe that we can do good things the more money we have the more good things we can do and that's why we are moving towards having a more prosperous wealthy monetary wealthy life but wealth comes in many forms and one of those forms is your mission and that is what we'll talk about today your mission in life is private is personal and it's what all of us are born with and in some ways some people never get to it because they are so distracted by all the messages that society gives them however there are some of us who get to live out our mission but before we get to live out our mission we feel all of these negative emotions fear this confusion all lack maybe even lust over our calling because because for some of us it is a calling but when you think about your mission based emotions those are the ones that you can use to overcome any of the last four types of emotions we talked about we talked about fear based emotions lack based emotions lust based emotions lonely based emotions and all of these when associated with money now they can be associated with anything but I specifically talk about money and stress and happiness so that's what we're talking about today how those emotions affect you and your money if you are feeling any of those then you won't enjoy the money if you get it and for some of us especially those good rich people you won't get the money because the greedy rich people can feel those negative emotions and still attract money because why because the only one reason they truly deserve believe they deserve it most of the greedy rich people truly believe they deserve it now it doesn't matter what kind of evil things they have done in order to get the money because that is not what money is about and if you thought that was and I'm so glad we're having this conversation because money isn't about oh I do good things now I get money no money goes where it's invited and it stays where it's welcome if you welcome money into your life it will come to you and if you say to money I'm so glad you're here I appreciate you so much and let's keep working together it will stay with you it's just when you believe you don't deserve it that it fleets you that it goes away from you so want you to get these mission-based emotions because the more you hold on to the mission-based emotions and the reason why the mission-based emotions are so important for somebody like you is because you're not a greedy rich person and so you won't be able to have those two things exist at the same time where you feel greed and you also feel deserving but what you can feel what you are able to feel because of the heart that you have is you can feel the honor that we're going to talk about you can feel the belief the belief that this is right for you you are in the right place at the right time doing the right thing for yourself and others will reap the benefits remember that saying for those of you who've been with me you can feel the enthusiasm or excitement or thrilled is a lot of words that mean excited enthusiasm but that is the word we use here in my work and you can feel accomplished so let's break each one of those down you got each one I'm going to give you a little bit more detail honor honor and gratitude very close they're like twins almost but honor a lot of times is it's prior to like you nothing has even happened just the idea of it makes you feel honored and you can still feel that and gratitude as well but honor this sense of pride which we'll talk about a little bit more when we talk about accomplishments but the sense of pride comes over you that the universe chose you for this mission you gave you this idea this vision the universe gave you this responsibility and that's how I feel like I said earlier I'm responsible for bringing this message to Insight Timer and I am honored that I get to do that and not everybody will get that privilege but I did so I feel the honor and the honor can get bigger and bigger and bigger as the mission gets bigger and bigger and bigger now depending on your money mentality and if you don't know your money mentality go ahead and go back to the earlier I think that was lesson two maybe where we talked about the money mentalities types but depending on your money mentality honor will be bigger for you like the hero money mentality which a lot of us here are the hero can really tap in to the honor and the more you tap into the honor the more you attract money into your life and wealth I should say in all of its forms in monetary form in possessions in love in community and in just even in opportunities so feel the honor because the honor will create more opportunities for you to feel more honor and then that takes me to the belief because you also have to believe that those opportunities are for you and you can believe and then there's this this extra layer of belief called knowing when you just know you just know it's for you you're in the right place at the right time doing the right thing for yourself and others will reap the benefits and you just know it you know you can do it you know that it's happening for your best and highest good you know that even when obstacles come you will figure it out the universe is supporting you and you know it you feel it and that support brings you the next one which is the enthusiasm knowing that the universe is supporting you just thrills you it just lights you up you're like wow not only do I feel honored that the universe gave me this responsibility and I believe and I know that I can pull it off but I feel this overwhelming sense of enthusiasm for this responsibility that I get to play out and then as it unfolds and unfolds and unfolds and I look at these milestones which we'll talk about just a second in accomplishments and I look at these milestones that I create I'm like wow I am thrilled by the work that I have done and that fuels me because your enthusiasm is coming from your why it's your why power and when why power fuels you then you don't need willpower because willpower will fail you and when it fails you you're gonna need to tap in to your honor and your belief so you can get back your enthusiasm because sometimes the enthusiasm will leave you the belief in the honor will leave you too but you can recreate them and you use each one of these to create the other one so when the Sun can't come up fast enough for you to get back to what you're doing that's enthusiasm but sometimes you can barely sleep at night about it it's keeping you up you can't figure it out there's obstacle here an obstacle there and it's bringing down your enthusiasm and that's when you're gonna work on the fourth one which is your accomplishments and your accomplishments those are these little baby steps it's not the big giant mission the big giant mission sometimes you may not even get there like you think about Gandhi and Mother Teresa and Martin Luther King and you know these leaders who maybe never even saw the thing happen that they were working towards but that was their life's work they're just accomplishing this the milestones that one day will come into fruition they may not be there to see it but it comes because of the work that you have done so you may not be there to see it but you get this sense of accomplishment from the milestones that happen yes you feel the sense of pride that comes with that honor the pride and sometimes pride comes after like what things are accomplished or done and when you feel that sense of pride it also comes with a bit of confidence so yeah it's been an honor to share this information with you because earlier when we first started someone asked me about the positive emotions that go along with money and oddly enough we don't feel those as much as we feel the negative emotions so I wanted to share the honor the belief the enthusiasm the accomplishment I wanted to share those yummy emotions with you because those are what are going to fuel you when the lack emotions come in and you're going to have them you're going to feel the lack it's gonna happen and it's okay don't get too down on yourself just work towards getting to your honor or your belief or having a little bit of a sense of accomplishment find a little milestone that you can tap into go to that enthusiasm for your mission just remember your mission so continue to listen to these lessons over and over and over again continue to use these meditations because it will help open up the part of your brain that's holding your mission in and here's the last thing I want you to know your brain it's doing its best to protect you and sometimes to protect you it will suppress information information that your heart your gut can tap into so sometimes you got to get out of your head and into your body and that's why you meditate yes sometimes it's a thinkatation it's not a meditation in fact we're going to do a thinkatation so you can just spend some time in your head because nothing's wrong with that either but you really need your meditation in order to get down into your body tap into your heart tap into your gut and when you do it will open up so don't you worry don't you go out working your butt off trying to figure out or find your purpose your mission you know your meaning in life just do these things do your morning routine do your night routine you know get your hydration and your your vibration up and without doing any of the work the universe will pull your mission to you I know that you think that maybe you have to go out and work for it but you don't that's not necessarily true what you the work that you need to be doing is your meditation is your hydration is your your activation right you're studying those things whatever thing you want to study and the you'll need to sometimes deactivate yourself and prepare that's the work that you have to do but wrecking your brain to try and find your mission your meaning your purpose it's it's not in your head and even if it is your brain could be suppressing it to protect you so go ahead and get into your body by doing your meditation by doing your hydration and doing the things that are for your best and highest good get into your gut and follow follow and just ask the universe to lead you just say lead me and that's what we're about to do when we go into this meditation we're gonna ask for the universe to lead us to our mission because I know that there are some of you who don't know your mission yet and like I said in my group I teach people to find their mission and it takes time I don't wave a magic wand and get the mission out but sometimes in in releasing that critical brain that's in the front that that conscious brain and then the critical brain can get to your subconscious brain because that is where your brain will allow you to tap into your heart and your gut and you can sync the three of those together and that's why I call it self sync therapy the work that I do so I'm glad I was able to share a little bit of self sync therapy with you here in this lesson and I'm gonna share a little bit more in the meditation so I'm gonna stop this recording we're gonna do a separate recording for the meditation but I'm also gonna stop and ask you questions so if you wanted weren't here live sorry I didn't get to get your question but I will see you sooner and thank you