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Snippets Of Wisdom #75: Who Bothers You The Most

by Mary Ann Pack

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Mary Ann Pack hosts Snippets of Wisdom, short lessons that support your joyous transformational journey. Today's snippet is #75: Who Bothers You The Most! Do you know someone who gets on your ever-lovin' last nerve? They just push all your buttons. Why do they show up in our lives? Let's explore who these bothersome people are, why they do what they do, and if we can get rid of them!

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Snippets of Wisdom,

Number 75.

Who bothers you the most?

Do you have someone in your life who really bothers you?

It's like they know every nerve to agitate.

They can be so infuriating and get on your ever-loving last nerve.

Do we try to stay away from them?

Do we divorce them?

Do we send them to the old folks' home?

Do we offer them up for adoption?

Do we look for another job somewhere else?

Yeah,

If only,

Right?

After I was fuming at someone who was bothering me,

I came across this quote from Abraham Hicks.

I should know by now that when I'm dealing with something I don't want to,

Divine has a way of guiding me to just the right message.

Sometimes they sting a little at first.

But when I consider that it's a wink from the universe,

I take it to heart.

Here's what they said.

The people who bother you the most are the people with whom you have the strongest pacts to come forth and come into alignment with who you are.

My hell,

You see what I mean?

Ouch,

That stings.

These irritable people are here for our alignment.

We've made a strong pact with them to come and bother us into alignment.

Now,

How the heck does that happen?

And what do we do about it?

When we're irritated by those people over and over,

We absolutely know what we don't want.

This is the valuable contrast,

Bright up close and personal.

So this is our opportunity to make our preferences known to the universe.

We choose what we prefer,

Wrap it up in a rocket of desire,

And shoot it off into the vortex of creation.

There,

Our inner beings immediately say yes and become that new desire.

So we've just expanded into someone new under all the universe.

Remember,

We also create every experience we're encountering.

So if those stinkers are constantly in our face,

We have invited them with our vibration.

We have an underlying expectation of them to act that way.

And that's what we get over and over until we run,

Don't walk,

Into our alignment.

Feeling good must be our priority.

When we get a handle on feeling good,

No matter what,

And our vibrational output rises,

They will either begin to match our raised vibrational expectation of them,

Or they will vibrate right out of our experience.

The point is to use the valuable contrast they provide us so superbly that we take a leap into the leading edge of expanding who we really are in every moment.

Happy alignment,

No matter who is bothering you.

Big hugs,

Marianne.

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Mary Ann PackTexas, USA

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