A Cherished Secret To Experience More Magic In Your Life

Hello and welcome to Solutions for Moving Beyond Struggle.

I'm Mikael.

Thanks for spending some time with me today.

So let's get started.

Well,

Welcome to episode number three.

I'm super excited to share this with you because this is something that has had profound impact and change,

Not only in my personal life,

But also in my ability to create and manifest my dreams.

And that is to understand the power of what love is and how we all are conditioned and brainwashed into believing something that we assume is being loving but isn't.

I received this letter from a lady and she wishes to remain anonymous and she's from Saudi Arabia and she said,

I've been living a life very privileged,

Mikael,

And I'd like to understand where I'm going wrong.

I try to love everyone and put everyone else's needs ahead of my own and try to give and to care,

But I feel like I've lost myself.

I've been taught love is to suffer and to sacrifice and to give to other people.

Can you help shed your view on what to do?

Eternally grateful.

Anonymous.

And thanks for your question.

Please listen in and I think this will provide you with the answer you're seeking.

But let's talk about what is a major crisis in our world right now and that is martyrhood.

And martyrhood is comprised of certain characteristics,

Certain states of mind,

The way you operate,

The way you think,

And the way you feel.

And it's fundamentally based upon seven different characteristics.

And the first one is being misunderstood.

Feeling like everyone misunderstands me.

I'm misunderstood and it also is about feeling unappreciated.

A martyr feels misunderstood and unappreciated by everybody and everything and they don't talk about it,

They don't say it,

But they feel it.

They feel this way inside.

And the third thing is that they are innocent of all responsibility.

It's always happening to them.

They're not responsible for any of this being misunderstood or being unappreciated.

They just feel like I don't have any responsibility.

It's not my fault.

It's them.

People misunderstand me.

People unappreciate me.

I'm not doing anything to cause it.

It's just the way the world works.

And they feel that they are innocent of any and all responsibility.

They also are burdened with unsolvable problems.

Oh my gosh,

Martyrs have got unsolvable problems all the time.

They can't solve anything.

Everything is a problem and they feel so burdened by all the problems in their life and they don't know what to do with all those problems.

They feel judged and treated wrongly.

That people treat them wrongly.

They feel like they're being judged all the time and that they are basically being wronged.

People think that they're somehow,

You know,

Make them feel that they're wrong.

They're overworked and underpaid.

They feel like I work so hard.

I do all this stuff and nobody appreciates me and they don't pay me enough.

They misunderstand me.

These are the foundations of what make up martyrhood.

Hopeless and helpless.

I'm hopeless.

I'm helpless.

I'm a lost cause.

And these are characteristics when you are thinking and feeling.

When you are feeling unappreciated and misunderstood you are going into martyrhood and self-pity.

Wait.

Wait.

Sometimes you are misunderstood.

Right.

Sometimes you aren't appreciated.

Right.

And what in the law of attraction says that my state of consciousness attracted this person to misunderstand me.

And that state of consciousness is called martyrhood.

It attracted that person in to misunderstand me.

When you function in the state of consciousness of martyrhood you will attract people out of the woodwork.

It really happens to them.

They've got proof.

Martyrs are powerful manifestors.

They're powerful.

They will draw people out of the woodwork to unappreciate them,

Take advantage of them,

To overwork them and overburden them.

They're powerful.

You see it's the antithesis,

It's the dark side of the magician.

The magician who works magic and miracles.

The magician who's based in love who creates magic and miracles.

It creates wonderful things happening all the time.

That's the magician.

And they are functioning out of love.

The dark side of the magician is the martyr who creates and manifests everything they don't want to happen.

And as you are realizing I'm feeling this way in my relationships and I'm not being loving in my relationship.

I'm being more of a martyr because I keep attracting this happening over and over again.

And if I can realize that I can start to take my power back.

But if I'm not aware of it it's like well that's what my mother did.

Martyrhood,

Motherhood,

They actually,

Most mothers have been martyrs you know and that's what they were taught and conditioned from their parents and their parents parents and we've been taught and conditioned that's what love is.

It's not what love is.

Martyrs are hostile.

They have a lot of hostility.

Martyrhood is represented in the world as terrorism.

Terrorists are martyrs.

So they're hostile and they're cowards.

They're cowards.

They want to run and hide.

They don't want to stand up for them and take responsibility for their actions.

They want to be in the shadows.

Go out and hurt people and run and disappear.

That's what martyrs do and we have that within us as a consciousness,

As a human being and that's the dark side.

If I can admit and own it and recognize it,

Acknowledge and forgive myself,

I don't have to be at sufferance of that martyrhood.

And then the genuine love of the magician can start to expand and I can function more with magic and miracles in my life.

But it's an awareness.

It's not a lot of things you have to do.

It's more of an awareness of being conscious of when I'm feeling these things I'm going into martyrhood and my life isn't working.

And I tell you one thing,

When you can recognize that,

Hey I'm in martyrhood right now.

I'm being very misunderstood and unappreciated and I'm feeling very taken advantage of and unappreciated.

When I'm feeling that I can stop,

Take a deep breath and remember the love,

Start caring and shift that energy and guess what?

The reality changes immediately.

And as I can work on heal mind,

There's less of that in the world for them to feed off of.

God does not say to suffer and sacrifice.

It doesn't make sense.

Love doesn't.

Yeah.

It's the same thing.

It's like the martyred Christ,

How he suffered and struggled for our sins.

He loved you so much.

You see how we're so conditioned and brainwashed to believe that that's what love is.

That's why I said if you haven't thought about it,

Tonight's an exposure to be,

Wow this is something that I didn't even think about.

But it's the biggest hindrance of truly being genuinely loving because we think this is what love is.

It's something that as you become aware of within yourself,

You're not going to go change the world by telling,

Go talk to terrorism about their martyrhood.

But as you can work on it within yourself,

Your life,

You stop terrorizing yourself and you start living more magic and miracles.

But when you're feeling those things,

And it's invasive,

It's really slick,

It's very difficult,

Like I said it's very sophisticated.

And it is a form of self-pity.

Self-pity is victim and martyrhood.

And children actually were victimized.

As children we couldn't take responsibility.

We went through experiences,

We couldn't speak up for ourselves,

We were victims.

But as adults,

We're not children anymore.

And if the adult who's trying to pretend they're still a victim in life,

That everything's happening to them is functioning out of the child.

And they're stuck and powerless.

But they're not a child anymore.

And they can change their consciousness,

They can make changes,

But they don't want to.

They'd rather get self-pity than love.

They'd rather have people feel sorry for them than to feel love.

They feel,

I was victimized in the past,

And I'm living in the past,

And I'm focusing on the past,

The victim.

The martyr's exonerating and focusing on the future one day,

I'm going to be righteous,

And I'm going to get my reward,

I'll get my turn.

That's where it's rooted out of.

But neither one are in the present moment.

Neither one is being loving now.

They think that's what love represents.

So real important to think about,

And I know this is kind of pretty intense for some people that are kind of beginning new metaphysics,

But it's also,

When I learned it,

It was like wow,

It was an eye-opener for me.

And then as I started to monitor myself,

And I would find myself going into it,

And I'd recognize it,

Oh my god,

I'm feeling unappreciated.

And I would take a deep breath in,

And I would start to care,

Open up my heart,

Say the words,

I care,

I care,

I care,

I care about me and my future,

I care about the future of my family and friends,

To start opening up that level of compassion and caring.

I would shift out of martyrhood,

And the situation would change immediately.

It's that powerful,

It's that quick.

You change sets,

You change energy,

You change archetypes,

Things,

Magic happens very,

Very quickly.

It doesn't have to take a long time.

It doesn't make sense.

Like you said,

Well yeah,

There are people really out there doing,

Yeah,

You'll manifest it,

And you have a lot of proof.

But it's my consciousness that's attracting that and causing that to happen.

Not by chance,

I'm not a victim of it,

It's not something that just happened to happen.

I create my own reality by causing or by allowing.

And when I function from martyrhood,

I'm allowing things to happen where I feel misunderstood and unappreciated,

Taken advantage of,

Overworked and underpaid,

And misunderstood.

That's what happens.