
It's Ok Not to Be Ok
Giving ourselves permission to NOT be ok, to feel and to acknowledge heavy or deep emotions.
Meet your Teacher

Chicago, IL, USA

Giving ourselves permission to NOT be ok, to feel and to acknowledge heavy or deep emotions.
Meet your Teacher

Chicago, IL, USA
Transcript
Welcome to this guided meditation on emotional well-being. Find a comfortable and quiet place to either sit or lie down and give yourself a moment to land wherever you are, Feeling the support beneath you, Grounding into the earth. And let's take some natural but conscious breaths, Letting the inhale and the exhale be steady and smooth. And if you find your breath a little rocky or uneven, See if you can lengthen the exhale by pursing your lips as if you're drinking from a straw on your exhales. This will help to soothe your nervous system and regulate your breath. Keeping a breath, Let's shift our attention to this notion that it's okay to not be okay. It's okay to experience heavy or negative emotions. It's part of our human experience. And it's okay to acknowledge them and be present with them. And it's okay to express them in a form of anger or anxiety. Knowing that it's okay gives you permission to relax into the state that you're in unapologetically and lets your energy shift from darkness and pain to eventually one of gratitude and peace. So take a moment right now to identify and label these emotions, Whether it's sadness or grief, Anger or resentment. Give yourself that permission to wallow and be sad and unmotivated. Allow these emotions to be part of your experience right now instead of pushing them down. Let them know that it's okay for you to feel this way in this moment as if you're talking to a hurt child of yours or someone you care about. Bring compassion to these emotions. And notice your breath as you're going through this process. Stay present with it and keep lengthening your exhale if you find your breath uneven or rocky. And notice when we give some breathing room to these gloomy emotions, We allow them to be part of us instead of separate. We let them know that it's okay for us to feel them and it's okay for us to release them whenever we feel ready to. And by going through this process of allowing and acknowledging our emotions, You're able to shift your energy from one of darkness and pain to one of gratitude and peace. You're able to step out of your head and look at the bigger picture and appreciate the vastness of our world. But also give yourself permission to not have to jump from a feeling of anger, Resentment, Or negativity straight to a feeling of happiness and joy. Instead, Let yourself slowly step one feeling up at a time. A gentle step up can be a practice of gratitude in every moment even when life sucks. When we look for something however small to appreciate, A brain releases serotonin and dopamine, Both of which make you feel better. Gratitude is truly the magic medicine that never runs out. But take this opportunity to find one, Two, Or three things that you're grateful for in this moment. And notice how they make you feel. Notice if there is a shift no matter how small. And as our meditation comes to a close, Consider that true emotional well-being is not the absence of negative emotions but rather a practice of strengthening our emotional immune system so that you can learn how to be okay even when not everything is okay. I hope this serves you and Namaste.
4.5 (639)
Alice
June 26, 2024
Thank you for your talk. It was very empowering and helpful. 🧡🌻💛🌞🧡🌻💛🌞🧡🌻💛🌞🧡🌻
Valentina
April 15, 2020
Lovely meditation! Thank you!
Laila
December 27, 2019
I rlly njoyed this, holistic cure I will continue to rejoin you for this meditation and your other mediations too. Thank you, L
Melissa
June 14, 2019
Just what I needed to hear. Thank you
Katherine
April 24, 2019
Thank you so much. This really helped my depressed mind and body.
Jillian
March 20, 2019
Wonderful! I like the idea of moving beyond low energy emotions in incremental steps. Thank you!!
Anne
September 15, 2018
Short and good. 😊 Thank you 🙏
Sara
May 29, 2018
It was so good I wish it was a bit longer!
Dominique
April 7, 2018
Great check in with yourself and your emotions to clear and calm your mind
simmyloo
January 26, 2018
Short and to the point. Gratitude is the key...
Miranda
November 29, 2017
Excellent, you talk so much sense. I find forced positivity meditations so unhelpful, this is just what I need. Thank you
Becca
October 16, 2017
Brilliant! I love the stepping up one emotion at a time when you're not feeling okay. Namaste and Om Shanti 🙇☮
Andie
September 19, 2017
Thank you for such wisdom!
George
August 30, 2017
Short, sweet, curative, just in time taste of meditation
Dawn
January 5, 2017
Great... I am a beginner and I really appreciate the guidance and direction.
Katie
November 21, 2016
So perfect, especially when times are tough. Powerful conclusion.
BJ22
November 19, 2016
Thank you. Just what I needed to hear. 🙏
Max
November 19, 2016
Brief is sometimes remembered longer. Namasté
