What To Do When Sleep Isn't Coming - CBT-I

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What To Do When Sleep Isn't Coming - CBT-I

by Karelin Wadkins

Rated

5

Type

guided

Activity

Meditation

Suitable for

Everyone

Plays

22

Lying awake in bed can feel frustrating, discouraging, and sometimes even anxiety-provoking. This meditation is designed for those moments when sleep isn't happening. Rather than struggling against wakefulness, you'll be guided through a gentle reset that helps reduce pressure, calm the nervous system, and reconnect with your body's natural readiness for sleep. Use this meditation if you're having difficulty falling asleep or if you've awakened during the night and find yourself lying awake. This practice is part of my course The CBT-I Sleep Reset Course - Sleep Without Struggle, where you'll learn how sleep works and how to support your body's natural sleep rhythm. If you'd like to learn more, I'd encourage you to check out the course which consists of 7 lessons and 7 paired meditations.

Sleep Meditation Relaxation Mindfulness Body Awareness Breath Control Visualization

Meet your Teacher

Karelin Wadkins

Fair Oaks, CA, USA

Meet your Teacher

Karelin Wadkins

Fair Oaks, CA, USA

Transcript

This practice is for moments when sleep. Isn't coming. Maybe you woke in the night. Maybe you've been lying in bed longer than expected. Or maybe your body feels tired, But your mind is still active. And right now, The most important thing to know. Is that nothing has gone wrong. This moment is part of retraining your sleep system. So instead of trying harder to sleep, We're going to help your brain feel safe again. Start by noticing where your body is resting. Notice the surface underneath you. Possibly the weight of the blanket. The position of your head. There's nothing that you need to change. Just notice. Now notice your breathing. And let it stay exactly as it is. Sleep returns to us more easily when the body stops trying to control the process. And if your mind is busy right now. That's okay. Busy minds often happen at night. Your job right now isn't to stop your thoughts. Your job is simply to notice what's happening. So take a moment to notice. What is your mind doing right now? Is it planning? Remembering. Problem-solving. May be worrying. Just name the process quietly to yourself. Boring. Remember it. Naming thoughts helps your brain step out of them. Now notice whether there's any pressure inside of you to fall asleep. Many of us feel it right here. A sense of trying. A sense of waiting. A sense of hoping sleep happens soon. If you feel that pressure. Just notice it. You don't need to remove it. Or just recognizing it. Pressure is one of the biggest signals that keeps the brain awake. Now imagine something gentle for a moment. Imagine you're floating in water. Not swimming. Nothing effortful. Just floating. Supported completely. Warm and relaxed. Sleep works a lot like floating. It happens when the body stops trying to control it. Now take a deep breath in. And let your exhale lengthen slightly. Again, Slow inhale. Longer exhale. Let everything remain. Exactly as it is. Your body already knows how to rest. Now gently ask yourself this question. Am I actually sleepy right now? Not tired. Not frustrated. Not wishing I were asleep. But sleepy. If the answer feels like yes. And your body may be ready to drift. And you can simply stay here. And allow that to happen naturally. But if the answer feels like no. And something very helpful. Can happen next. Instead of staying here. And trying harder. And getting stuck in the loop. You can give your brain. A gentle reset. Because each time you step out of bed when sleep isn't happening. Your brain relearns something very powerful. This bed is for sleeping. So imagine yourself gently sitting up. No frustration. No judgment. No urgency. Just calmly shifting positions from lying down to standing. To getting up. And maybe placing your feet on the floor. Maybe wrapping yourself in something warm. And imagine walking quietly into another space. Keeping the lights soft. Doing something simple and calm. Maybe reading something easy. Or stretching gently. Just sitting quietly. And letting your body reset for sleep. When it's ready. Not trying to force or make sleep happen. But just allowing sleepiness to return on its own. Now imagine noticing the moment when your body begins to feel heavier again. Your eyes softer. Your thoughts, Slower. That moment when sleepiness returns. And then imagine yourself returning to bed. Ready for sleep. Climbing back in. And letting your body settle again. This is how sleep becomes natural again. Each time you do this. You are providing the cue, And your brain learns to trust. Trust in the Bud. Trust in your rhythm. Trust and sleep itself. So if tonight becomes one of those nights where sleep takes time. You already know what to do. You don't have to force anything. You don't have to solve anything. You simply follow your body's signals. And let sleep return. Whenever it's ready. Take one more slow breath here and let your body rest exactly as it is. And trust that even this moment counts. Is helping your sleep system reset.