Before we begin today's practice,
I'd like to start by saying something directly to you.
You do not have to perform feeling better right now.
This practice is not about fixing you.
It's about being with you,
The real you,
In whatever state you're in today.
So,
Wherever you are,
Physically,
Emotionally,
Energetically,
You're allowed to start there.
Not from where you think you should be.
From where you actually are.
Now to begin today's practice,
Go ahead and get comfortable where you are,
And take a breath.
And let your face do whatever it wants to do.
Bring to mind something that has been heavy lately.
It doesn't have to be dramatic.
It might be the quiet exhaustion of managing something difficult day to day.
The grief of a body that doesn't work the way that it used to.
The gap between who you want to be and who you're able to be right now.
Just let whatever is true come forward.
Notice what happens in your body as you hold this.
Where do you feel it?
Your throat?
Your chest?
Your gut?
Just locate it.
You don't have to analyze it.
Now,
Place one hand over that place in your body.
Your chest,
Your belly,
Wherever the feeling lives.
And let the warmth of your own hand simply rest there.
This is what compassion looks like in the body.
Contact.
Presence.
Warmth.
Silently say to yourself,
This is hard.
Allow those words to land,
Not as an excuse,
Not as a complaint,
Just as truth.
I'm not alone in this.
Somewhere right now,
Another person is sitting with something heavy too.
Struggling with their body,
Their circumstances,
Their sense of self.
You are in the company of every human who has ever had a hard day.
And that is every human.
I'm going to offer myself some kindness.
You don't have to earn it.
You don't have to finish your to-do list first,
Or get better first,
Or figure it all out first.
Kindness is available to you right now,
Because you are a person.
And people deserve kindness,
Including you.
Especially you,
On the hard days.
Stay here for a moment,
Hand on your body.
Breathing slowly,
Letting yourself be exactly as you are.
If there is a younger version of you who needed to hear this,
The version who was first learning that life could be this hard,
Speak to them too.
You're going to be okay.
You don't have to be perfect.
You are enough,
Even now.
Take three breaths.
Long and slow.
Allowing each exhale to be a small act of release.
Not of the hard thing,
But of the judgment around it.
And when you're ready,
Open your eyes.
Carry that hand on heart warmth with you.
On hard days,
You are not failing.
You are human,
And that has always been enough.
