
Cultivating Patience
by davidji
In this track, Davidji explores the profound teaching from verse 15 of the Tao Te Ching and guides you to a deeper understanding of patience, letting your mud settle, so that you can show up as your best expression.

by davidji
In this track, Davidji explores the profound teaching from verse 15 of the Tao Te Ching and guides you to a deeper understanding of patience, letting your mud settle, so that you can show up as your best expression.
Transcript
Oh, Hello there. Hi, This is davidji. And I've been diving into the Dao Te Ching today. And verse 15. Which It's not all of verse 15, But it's so powerful. Do you have the patience to wait until your mud settles and the water is clear? And it follows that up with, Can you remain unmoving till the right action arises by itself? Can you remain unmoving till the right action arises by itself? So this doesn't mean just sit on the couch and wait. This means when you sense a calling, When you hear the invitation from something bigger than you, Can you lean into that? Can you Be fully present with the invitation. Can you prepare, Right? Prep. Prep is so core and critical to this. So can you remain unmoving essentially means can you not doom scroll. Can you not suddenly react to something? Can you allow single-mindedness of intention to guide you to this thing? And as long as you show up and you have that intention, Embedded, Etched inside of you, Then you will move more closely, More closely, Closer, Closer, Closer. To that thing. Now the first part of it sets us up. Do you have the patience to wait until your mud settles and the water is clear? Not so easy. Patience is a virtue. It needs to be tested. And it needs to be cultivated. It's so easy to be patient when no one's tapping you on the shoulder. But if suddenly there is something going on that's pulling you or pushing you, Where there's emotional charge inside of you, Then your water is going to be disturbed. So think of this as if you just took a glass and put some mud into it and then shook it up. You would have to wait for a while. You'd have to truly let that settle. Here's an example. I just happen to have a little Buddha snow globe, So let's see. I can sort of kind of see what the Buddha looks like. Inside of there. But can I truly wait till my mind settles without pain? Wanting to pick up my phone, Wanting to be distracted, Wanting to make a call, Wanting to go on social media. All these things. They're perhaps desires, They're not needs. But here now we can fully see. There's still some stuff going on, Right? I'm sorry about that reflection in there. But I'm just trying to. . . Really demonstrate this. It takes some time. And this is a particularly settling of the mud sometimes our mud because it's been shaken up shaken, Not stirred, For so long, For so many years. And in so many different types of situations, It's a little bit harder. Now, As taters, As meditators, We have a superpower that we show up, We give ourselves permission to truly take a few deep breaths and then settle in. Remember, Comfort is queen. And then we allow to settle. Perhaps. Perhaps. It's so easy to say, Oh, Oh, Oh, That show is on right now. Or, Oh, Let me get there early. Let me leave this moment. So my invitation to all of us today, Including me, Is can we give ourselves permission? To be with what is right here. And if we're like, Well, I'd be more comfortable over there. And then you go over there and then. After a while, You'd be like, Well, Now I'd actually be more comfortable over there. Then you're not allowing it to settle. So you can be comfortable no matter where you are. As long as you remember, Comfort is queen. And you surrender, If you have an itch, You scratch it. If your back hurts or your shoulders are tight or your neck hurts, Feel free to rub it and then stay in that space. Without being pulled. There's so many things. What we really designed to be watching TV, What we really designed to be getting so many invitations by social media to pull us here. To have an algorithm telling us what information should be fed to us. And of course, We live in the real world, So there's all that stuff. But we also live in the real world where there's A sky outside, And at night there are stars and planets. And the moon. And during the day there's clouds. And maybe there's no clouds, Maybe it's hazy. Can we sit with that? And say, Wow, Isn't it just amazing to be in nature? Can we sit outside and not be disturbed because some animal or bird keeps squawking or making a noise? Can we actually be with that? There are so many times when we're like, And that's all about our own perception. Technically, There's no difference between us. A baby giggling? And a jackhammer. Do we have emotional charge? I think we'd all rather be hanging out with a baby giggling than a jackhammer. Banging outside, But if it is outside, Shall we run away from it? As Pema Chodron says, Shall we put leather over every single surface that possibly might disturb us? Or shall we get to that space inside of us? Where we can accept that this moment is perfect. This moment is pure. This moment is whole. This moment has everything, And you. In this moment. Are perfect and pure and whole. Can we accept that? Can we celebrate that? Can we enjoy that? Can we just be in that space? So from the sweet spot of the universe, This is my invitation to you. Do you have the patience to wait until your mud settles and the water is clear? Can you remain unmoving? Till the right action arises by itself. It's a cultivation. So let's see if we can do it. Maybe take five minutes a day. And just say, Well, I could have been doing something else, Or I would have been doing something else, Or even I feel like doing something else. Let me just regulate my nervous system, Close my eyes and breathe. Let me just unfold a gratitude practice right here. And just let all the things, All the people, All the animals, All the stuff happen. That I'm grateful for to just unfold. In my mind's eye. Can we just be with what is? From the Sweet Spot of the Universe wishing you love, Wishing you the patience to wait until your mud settles. And the strength to remain, Or the surrender to remain, Unmoving till the right action arises by itself. Namaste.
4.9 (445)
Linda
May 31, 2026
This is exactly what I needed today. Thank you so much! 😊
Jane
May 30, 2026
So true. It’s a struggle settling in to receive inspiration when all that on the spot fight or flight creative fear is unsettling me. It’s a kind of paradox. The goal is to write one true sentence but then there’s a fear of what that one true sentence might be. But once you suspend the fear the writing session becomes a wonderful game of possibility.
Grace
May 27, 2026
Thank you Davidji☺️ That was awesome! 🥰 👏🏻 🥳 I love your easygoing, insightful, lighthearted, down-to-earth, quirky-cool ✌🏽😎 and super chill way of breaking down some pretty heavy life “stuff” that every human Being faces on a daily basis. Thank you for doing what you do! May you always BE Blessed 🙏🏽 Namaste’ Grace 🌻
Lori
May 20, 2026
Omgshhh... this was super helpful for what I'm going through right now. Thank you so much!! 🙏🏻🪷
Lisa
May 16, 2026
Thank you Davidji! I’m always trying to change what is and now I’m going to sit with it.
Jamie
May 9, 2026
I needed this gentle reminder today, I feel like I am heading onto a more productive, joyful path today. Thank you for your insights, your meditations & talks always feel so relevant and in tune with my heart🙏❤️
Judy
May 8, 2026
Always a thoughtful reminder🙏🏻
Linda
May 8, 2026
Thank you for this video. Your patient, optimistic spirit is beautifully contagious! Be well, Linda
Lisa
May 8, 2026
Wonderful to see you as well as hear the message! I needed to hear this today! Thank you Davidji’
Deidre
May 8, 2026
I really enjoyed that and you, my favorite teacher.
Bobbie
May 8, 2026
Thank you. During these muddy times a helpful wisdom.
Robin
May 8, 2026
This is brilliant. Thank you, davidji 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
DeAnn
May 8, 2026
💝🙏love this. Thank you and so nice to see you on video! You exude love and all things peace and harmony🙏💝
Emma
May 8, 2026
Always a pleasure. David’s voice is like liquid gold with an infusion of divinity. He has the rare quality of being calming yet playful. He always brings such great medicine!
Pama
May 7, 2026
So lovely as always!
Lori
May 7, 2026
Great pause and wisdom as well as quote. Thank you, Namaste. ❤️
Karenmk
May 7, 2026
Perfect timing 🪷Thank you🙏💓
Susan
May 7, 2026
Thank you for the reminder. ❤️🕉️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
John
May 7, 2026
Thank you David!
Andréa
May 7, 2026
Always illuminate our lives 🙌🏼🌟✨👏🏻👏🏻🫶🏼

