09:31

To The Hurt One Inside - IFS Direct Access To An Exile

by Diviya Lewis

Rated
4.6
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
Suitable for
Everyone
Plays
340

This meditation offers listeners loving kindness and compassion for a part that is hurt or triggered by someone or something that has happened. It is best used during moments of tenderness when it feels really hard to access calm, self-compassion, or clarity. It does not offer grounding, nor is it suitable for moments of extreme pain or overwhelm. This meditation uses "direct access", an IFS technique of talking directly to parts, so you can allow yourself to just be, to feel whatever is present, and soften into the prompts as you need. You might keep a journal to jot down insights you receive, you might just let yourself feel, and listen to your body and parts. Background Music by Benjamin Tissot. Photo by Chinh Le Duc on Unsplash.

MeditationSelf CompassionEmotional HealingMind Body ConnectionSelf LoveIfsEmotional ValidationInner Child HealingEmotional ReleaseEmotional Witnessing

Transcript

Hi there,

My sweet sensitive one.

I feel your hurt.

I notice it right there.

Hmm,

Yeah I feel that tenderness.

I'm so sorry you're in pain right now.

I'm here with you.

I can tell it was really tough that they didn't recognize you were so hurt.

They weren't able to respond in the way that you needed them to.

That was doubly painful for you.

I sense that.

It is so hard not to be seen in the way you need to be.

I'm so sorry you don't feel seen,

Heard,

And understood in the way that you need right now.

I want you to know that I'm here.

I am right here with you.

I recognize that it might not be completely what you want,

And I still want you to know that I love you,

And I'm here if you need.

You can show me in my mind's eye.

You can tell me through my thoughts,

My inner voice.

You can use my body,

Have me feel what it is that you're holding.

I know sometimes when someone says something hurtful,

You replay it over and over again.

I know certain moments plague you at times.

Moments of hurt,

Embarrassment,

Shame.

When you said or did things you didn't mean,

I know some emotions live inside you and squeeze you,

Like sadness when it squeezes your heart.

I am here if you need or want a witness in this moment.

I care so deeply for you,

And I'm open to your truth.

I want to understand.

So take your time.

I'm listening.

I'm still here.

Thank you for everything you're sharing with me.

I know it can be difficult to open up sometimes.

I truly honor your courage.

If there is anything more you need from me,

You can always show,

Tell,

Or help me.

Have me feel what it is you want me to.

Anytime you're hurt or sad or just need a moment with me,

Remind me of this recording,

Of this moment.

I will try to find some time to connect with you.

Or if there's another way you want me to stay connected to you,

Let me know this now,

As our time together now is coming to a close.

Thank you,

Truly,

For all you've shared with me.

And I want you to know that I'm here for you.

And if by chance I miss a tune,

Or I don't hear you when you call out for me,

Please know that you can let me know next time we do sit down together.

I promise to try my best,

Knowing that I might mess up.

You're always welcome.

I love you.

Meet your Teacher

Diviya LewisVictoria, BC, Canada

4.6 (28)

Recent Reviews

Laura

January 16, 2026

So tender and loving. Will return

Sandhya

October 7, 2025

How beautiful just what I needed x thank yoju

Margo

September 2, 2025

Beautiful and powerful. Will come back to this one again ❤️

Mary

March 5, 2025

Wow. Unbelievably powerful. Just beautiful. Thank you from a trauma therapist.

More from Diviya Lewis

Loading...

Related Meditations

Loading...

Related Teachers

Loading...
© 2026 Diviya Lewis. All rights reserved. All copyright in this work remains with the original creator. No part of this material may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, without the prior written permission of the copyright owner.

How can we help?

Sleep better
Reduce stress or anxiety
Meditation
Spirituality
Something else