Comfort, Support, Teach, And Inspire

Hi friends,

This is Gladys Ellen and welcome to Heavenly Hugs,

A podcast guided by angels.

It is here I will share my personal angel stories and insight so that you too can be uplifted and blessed by these beautiful beings of light.

Hi friends,

It's Gladys.

I am glad to be back.

And today I want to talk about a topic that seems to come up a lot for me with my sessions with clients.

And it is based on the idea of caregivers,

Healers,

Earth angels,

Light workers,

Empaths,

Highly sensitive people,

And how we kind of approach the world working with people in our jobs,

In our families,

In our relationships,

Etc.

And I always say approaching working with others from the energy of comforting,

Supporting,

Teaching and inspiring.

I know I've talked about this in earlier podcasts,

But this energy that we're in now,

We're post eclipse energy.

We have like crazy planets retrograde.

And for me,

I find this time like highly creative.

I know there can be chaos and disarray in some parts in areas of people's lives and stuff.

But I've really kind of,

I don't want to say detached or separated from that idea of chaos with these retrogrades.

And for me,

It's a time to like polish up loose ends,

Tie up loose ends,

Polish up anything that needs to be fine tuned.

And I'm kind of like redoing,

Reviewing and going over.

So for me,

I've had such incredible energy.

I've been super creative working on projects.

And it makes me think about my approach and the type of energy of the people that I want to work with,

That I want to be friends with,

That I want to be surrounded by.

And this word that keeps coming up often.

And I hear it so much.

And there's like umpteen million articles written about it.

And it's the word toxic.

Now I myself at points in my life have been toxic.

And so when I think about people who one would label,

Let's say toxic,

If I can go into deeper and see it on a higher level,

Like spiritually,

I see it with people who are going through a transformation.

And I have to say to label that energy like toxic and stay away from them.

I get it.

But it's not always feasible.

And it really makes us who are sensitive,

Depleted and drained.

So how do we move through this energy of let's say,

Quote unquote,

Toxic energy without feeling like we've got a ducking cover or run away from and I have to say so that energy can tend to draw on us where we feel like we need to fix and save and change and make better.

So you have to see this is like an energy that I don't know attracts one another if you're not careful.

And I've noticed it recently as I've made adjustments in my life with moving towards more joy,

Adventure,

Play,

Laughter.

And I started to realize that I had a lot of difficult,

Challenging,

Quote unquote,

Toxic people in my life.

And I always take a step back and I was like,

Okay,

Where in me is resonating with that energy and creating it so it shows up in my life.

And it really is me wanting to help people and feeling like I can fix and save and change and make better.

So I say instead of fueling that energy,

Labeling it and running away from it,

Embrace the energy in a way of like,

What is it teaching me?

And being able to shift it in a way where you can approach it with comforting people,

Supporting them,

Teaching them,

Inspiring them to live their best life by living your best life.

And so,

Like I said,

I myself have been toxic to people in my life in my 20s.

And I know that.

So for me,

I also to feel like that energy is part of the spiritual evolution.

Because I have to say people who we would label as miserable and toxic and draining and mean and bullying and ugly and all that stuff.

They don't always necessarily know it.

And I have to say it's not helpful when you're pointing the finger and labeling you're toxic,

You're this,

You're that,

Because I can guarantee they're seeing other people in that place.

So as we're in this retrograde energy and as like energy flares up and we're making adjustments,

We can tend to be more sensitive to those energies.

But I always say like trying to detach from labeling and running away from.

Now you have an absolute choice.

It is your right to choose who you surround yourself with.

I know Oprah and Tony Robbins and Joel Osteen and even Steve Harvey,

They all talk about surrounding yourself with like minded people,

Surrounding yourself with people who feel good,

Who are driven,

Motivated,

Excited,

Cheering you on.

And so I always say like if you're starting to notice that toxic energy or you're starting to notice people in your life,

I see them kind of as like your teachers showing you that you're in the midst of a spiritual growth,

That you're in the midst of being on the move.

And I have to say,

As I've been making adjustments in my life,

It seems like I notice it.

And then once that's cleared out,

I notice it again somewhere else.

And once that's cleared out,

I notice it again somewhere else.

And again,

Instead of labeling and putting energy towards them,

I just bring it back to myself and I say,

Okay,

How can I comfort,

Support,

Teach and inspire?

And I just ask God and the angels to surround me with people and send people into my life,

Whether it be clients,

Family and friends that I can comfort,

Support,

Teach and inspire.

And you'll know the difference because the people who are open to receive are the people in that energy.

The takers,

You know,

I'm sure we all know people who only tend to call us when there's a crisis or they've got chaos going on in their life and they want an answer or they want you to tell them what to do.

And like I said,

It's not a judgment because I was definitely drowning at many points of my life,

But I realized that it can be very draining for that person that I'm pulling from.

So you can choose where to distribute your energy.

And I have to say,

I think it's the hardest thing when it's family.

And this has kind of been coming up a lot for the clients that I've been seeing.

And I really think it's the energy that we're in with these retrogrades and the lunar eclipse and the full moon or new moon and all this stuff that's going on.

And so I feel like we're in the process of getting clear of the energy that we want to be surrounded by.

And so the idea is being able to unplug from wanting to make them better,

To give them all the answers.

And sometimes it's a matter of let them,

Let them make the mistakes,

Let them experience the pain and the challenges.

Through that,

You can comfort them,

Support them,

Teach them,

Inspire them.

But if there are people around you who aren't proactive in their own growth,

It's just going to drain you of your own energy.

And that's why I say by continuing to fuel it and running,

Run away from it,

I think it can be even more draining on us.

Where?

I always recommend the best thing that you could do right now is work on your own projects.

What do you need to get rid of?

There's so many people right now going through their closets and fitting out their closets and the stuff that they have.

There's so many people who are making adjustments in their home.

You know,

I feel like I'm simplifying in profound ways and I'm plugging from the growth process that's happening out there.

Because again,

Remember,

People who are in that low vibrating energy,

And again,

It's not a good or bad thing.

It's the spot of where they are.

So I like to try to think of it as like volumes of a book.

Okay.

So when you're reading like volumes of a book,

You have to start somewhere.

And then what happens is eventually you finish that book and then you go on to the next.

And then you finish that and go on to the next.

So it's like A Course in Miracles or it is Conversations with God.

One thing extends on the other.

So we can become a vibrational mismatch for people.

And I have to say,

When I look at those people that I would have labeled,

Let's say toxic,

I see that they've always been that way.

And I've changed.

I've wanted more.

I've been shifting and I've been growing.

And so to continue to label it and fuel it,

As we know with Law of Attraction,

It gets worse.

So I always say,

If you can bring that back to yourself and ask yourself,

Okay,

Instead of being distracted by all these energies and needing to jump in and fix and save and change and make better.

And you know,

There is a lot of things happening in the world.

You know,

I do a lot of mediumship sessions,

Life purpose sessions.

I'm supporting people with divine guidance.

And there's a lot of heavy stuff going on in the world.

You know,

When I say the best thing you can do is send God's armies of angels to these people in your life.

Prayer is so powerful.

And I want to share with you today three angels that I use so often.

I call them the girls.

I may have talked about them in other podcasts,

But this is a perfect time to be able to bring them up together.

So the girls consists of Archangel Ariel.

She's the angel of courage and bravery.

Archangel Jophiel.

Archangel Jophiel is great for like clearing space and beautifying your thoughts.

And then also Archangel Honeyal,

Which is the angel of passion.

Now being able to send those three angels to people and using them for yourself,

They can help raise your vibration.

They can help them move through the process of their own spiritual growth.

And as caregivers,

Patience is super,

Super needed when you have these people who are going through these transformations or these tough times.

Having patience and allowing them to have the experiences so that they can grow.

And trust me,

This whole toxic idea has been like rattling around in my mind for a while.

And I say,

You know,

Angels,

Like,

How can I approach this?

And how do I work with it?

Because I'm so sensitive,

It's hard to be around.

I totally get it.

But I can't keep running because I feel like that energy takes my power when I do that.

And again,

I fall into that trap of wanting to fix and save and change and make better.

Meaning,

Tell them what to do.

Tell them,

You know,

What the steps to take or expending my time,

My energy,

My money for somebody who's not ready to make the adjustments to better the quality of their life,

Right?

They may be doing it for themselves and that may just be enough,

Right?

So we have to see that we have these vibrational changes and people are moving in and out of these spaces.

And as I see people coming out of my life and the lives of the people around me and clients,

I feel like we're in this metamorphosis stage where we're actually going deeper within ourselves.

Being okay with ourselves,

Right?

So being able to share the knowledge and wisdom that we have,

The insights,

Being able to truly love somebody despite their challenges or what we would think like quote unquote false or like their faults,

Like F-A-U-L-T-S.

I feel like that's something that is spiritual growth in of itself.

And so for me,

There's been this space that I've been in and trying to make peace with it.

And so I've come up with this insight in order to,

What do I want to say?

Move through it,

If that's the right words.

And so Ariel,

Jophiel and Haniel have been tremendous.

They're beautiful,

Gentle,

Loving energy.

But I have to say the three of them are very strong and powerful in their own right.

So send them to your loved ones and trust that they will be able to guide them in a way that's for their best and highest good.

And what you can be doing right now is transforming your life and moving towards those things that you want.

Now,

I have to say lately,

I've been,

Like I said,

Tying up loose ends and I've just been going over projects that I've been putting off for a while.

And I have to say,

As I have focused my attention away from all those things that were pulling on me because I felt like I needed to fix,

Save,

Change and make better.

And as I shifted that energy myself,

I feel right now that I have so much energy.

I am motivated.

I am moving forward.

I am getting things done.

And I have to say the hand of God and spirit is moving through me because so many things are happening that are just falling into alignment.

And it goes to show you that when you are in the right energy,

When you are dialed into that space of feeling good,

Everything else comes to alignment.

So we know this.

And when we're being pulled from it,

What happens is we feel it and then we get sad and depressed and struggle.

So remember,

We are like social chameleons.

So we can absorb naturally other people's energy and their worries and their fears,

Which is why we kind of attract these people that we do have the ability to fix and save and change and make better.

And I have to say one of my warning signs of that is feeling like I'm working so hard.

I'm working so hard at making this relationship work.

I'm making working so hard at making this project come into fruition.

I'm working so hard at bringing the right people on this team.

And I realize that I'm obviously going against the grain when I'm in that space.

So recently,

For the last few weeks,

I've just kind of stepped away and went within.

I don't want to use the word isolate because it sounds like,

Again,

It sounds like I'm running away.

But I've really given myself an opportunity to go within.

And getting back to what I was saying earlier,

I feel like that's what so many of us are doing.

We are getting good right now with the people,

Places,

Things and ideas that are in our life.

And it really roots back down to us,

Us,

Our personal being,

Our angelic being,

Our higher self,

Our soul.

And again,

So if you're in the place where people seem to be falling away,

Or it's getting harder and harder to be around certain people,

Like I said,

Bring it back to yourself.

God is saying,

I have something better.

And you have to really know yourself.

And like I said,

It's so easy to get caught up in other people's stuff.

It's so easy to have their worries be our worries.

But if you can step out of that and give yourself space,

This is why meditation is so powerful and patience and breaks and sleep and rest.

All these things are so powerful.

So I feel like we're in this paradigm shift.

And when I'm going to work with people,

I approach it from that space of comforting,

Supporting,

Teaching,

Inspiring.

How can I share my knowledge and wisdom?

How can I give you love and hugs?

How can I do an excellent job with what I'm doing that will inspire other people to want to do it too?

Right?

I can't do that when I am tired,

Depleted and drained because my energy is being expended in other ways.

So we require more rest.

We require more timeouts.

We require more gentleness and peace and that all goes back to our physical self,

Our shell.

So are you drinking your water?

Are you eating healthy?

Are you nourishing your mind?

Fueling it with positive information.

These are all things that you can do for yourself.

Like I said,

If you seem to be surrounded by quote unquote,

Toxic energy,

You know,

Instead of feeling like you've got to run away,

You've got to fight it,

Go deeper within.

I promise you,

God will guide you.

Call on the girls,

Send them to those loved ones,

Send them to the world.

Remember they abide by the law of free will so they can't intervene or they won't intervene unless somebody's asking.

So if we can do this on a collective and really focus on joy,

Adventure,

Laughter,

Play,

Fun,

Freedom.

And then finally I asked God,

You know,

To bring me great experiences.

I wanted to get out and socialize and be with fun people.

And I have to say,

Since I'd asked that,

I've had so many experiences lately that are just that.

And they kind of just all fell into place.

So you know,

As I'm thinking about like what to talk about and what to say in the podcasts,

This is one of those topics that came up because that whole idea of like toxic is everywhere.

So if you can just continue to call on Archangel Ariel,

Jophiel,

Hanielle,

She ignites the passion and the fire within.

She will help you with staying motivated and she will guide you to the opportunities and Ariel will open the doors for you.

All you have to do is go within and listen.

And naturally that other stuff will go away.

And like I said,

Pray for them,

Love on them from a distance.

They are going through their own transformation.

It is so incredibly beautiful.

If you can pull yourself out of that energy from being hurt and betrayed and sucked in and angry from it.

It's such a beautiful process and really redirect your energy towards God,

His light,

The angels and shine your light in the world.

Be the example,

Be the inspiration,

Comfort,

Love,

Support people.

And again,

You don't have to do it on your own.

You'll naturally fall into that beautiful vibration.

So friends,

I thank you once again for listening and I send you love with heavenly hugs.

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