Hello,
I'm Noah Elkrief,
And as the title says,
This video is about why you're not successful.
Hint,
It's not what you think.
So I'm making this video really in response to a lot of stuff I've seen out there about that you're not successful because of your self-worth issues.
So if you believe you're good enough,
If you believe you deserve money,
If you deal with your self-worth issues,
Then you will be successful.
So if you're not successful,
It's because of your self-worth.
And that's just false.
It's just completely wrong.
It's just not accurate at all.
And it makes people feel bad.
It might be making you feel bad that if you're failing financially or not very successful in your career,
Then you blame yourself and your self-worth stuff or your lack of belief in yourself or something along those lines.
And I just have to tell you,
It could be the cause and it could not be.
The amount of money we make is not proportional to how worthy we feel about ourselves.
So when people are sharing their Instagram and their YouTube,
Look how much money I make and how successful I am.
And I did this through improving my beliefs about myself.
It's just a very oversimplified understanding of how life,
Money,
And finance,
And career,
And everything works.
And just to break it down for you very simply,
There are so many people who have tremendous amounts of money and feel completely worthless.
The prime example of that is myself.
Not now,
But in the past,
I had more than enough money,
Plenty of money,
And money came very easily to me.
And yet I felt completely worthless,
Completely inadequate,
Stupid,
Like a failure,
Completely undeserving of money,
And so on.
It's the case with family members that I have.
It's the case with almost every client that's ever come to me.
Because my sessions aren't so cheap,
A lot of the people that come to me are quite well-off financially.
In addition,
Because I talk in a very logical,
Structured,
Analytical way some of the time,
I tend to get sometimes businessman,
Analytical,
Intelligent people who are in careers where you make a lot of money.
And I don't think I've ever seen any client ever come to me that didn't have low self-worth.
Ever.
Ever.
Yeah?
So,
In some areas at least.
And so,
If it's possible for there to be millions of people,
I would venture to say at least 99% of the people that are incredibly wealthy in the world feel worthless,
Feel inadequate,
Feel undeserving of the wealth deep down.
Of course,
They can't acknowledge it to themselves and admit it to themselves,
Most of the people.
But if,
Even if it was 80%,
Even if it was 50%,
Which it's definitely not,
Right?
Think about everyone on Wall Street,
Everyone who's choosing careers and haven't done any work on themselves and were raised by parents who just told them you have to succeed to be worthy and blah blah blah blah blah.
If it's possible to be incredibly financially successful or incredibly successful in your career and still feel worthless,
Then that means if you're not successful,
If you're a failure financially in your career,
It's possible that it's not because of your self-worth issues.
I'll say that differently.
If someone feels worthless and they can be successful,
Yeah?
Then that means the cause of success isn't self-worth.
I feel like I have to say that in multiple ways.
If you feel worthless,
That's not blocking you from success.
That's not the reason why,
Yeah?
It could be and it could not be.
You get it?
It's not a causation.
It's not this then that.
Yeah,
I feel like I have to say this in so many different ways so they can penetrate all of you that are open and interested.
It's possible that what's blocking you from having career success and financial success is there's a part of you that doesn't want success.
It's possible that you don't have financial success because you have negative beliefs about wealth,
Because you think it's selfish to be wealthy.
It's possible it's because you feel undeserving.
It's possible because you feel worthless.
It's possible because you don't believe in your capacities in your job.
It's also possible that you don't want it in this life.
It's possible that you want to stay in this job for your evolution,
For some other lessons that you're looking for in this life,
That you don't want to make more money for another five years,
That there's a bunch of experiences that you planned on having in the next five years that you can't have if you make more money.
It's possible that for the rest of your life that there are experiences,
That a partner you plan to meet,
That the career you plan to pursue,
A different career,
Is all going to come through not making money.
It's possible that where you want to live and how you want to live isn't conducive,
Money isn't so much needed,
So it wouldn't be very useful you having a million dollars in the bank if you have no desire to use it because you have very simplistic desires.
There's so many reasons why you might not have money.
You might not have money because you've inherited certain patterns and beliefs of your ancestors.
You might not have money because of ways that it goes against your religion very deeply unconsciously in this life or past lives.
You might not have money because you don't want to feel positive about yourself,
That you don't want to think I'm better than others or you don't want to think I'm great,
So blocks to viewing yourself positively.
There's so many possibilities for why you don't have money.
It's possible you don't have money because you were raised in a place where it's very difficult to earn a lot of money and you didn't get the education and the capacities you have.
Like for example maybe you grew up in a place where where you don't have strong intellectual capacity,
You don't have much education,
You don't know much about careers,
Blah blah blah,
But you are so freaking loving and caring.
Well at this point in history society tends to give us money for for certain careers,
Certain skills,
And love and care generally isn't one of them.
Yeah if I'm really good at math I can make a shit load of money very easily.
Yeah like 99% of people just for simplicity sake who are good at math can just make money.
No problem.
But if I'm really good at art mmm I don't know 10% if that make a lot of money if they're good at art.
What percentage of people who are really amazing at giving love and care make money?
Yeah in this moment it's not valued.
Yeah maybe they become a healer maybe this maybe that but generally it's not valued.
What if I'm really good at touch?
Really good at soft loving touch or healing touch?
Maybe it's harder.
Maybe it's harder.
You have to go against the system as opposed to the system supporting us.
Yeah of course you can still make money no matter what it is you're skilled at but we have to acknowledge that it's not so simplistic as I made money so if somebody says all I had to do was change this this and this to make a lot of money okay maybe that's all they had to change was this this and this but those few things might not be the blocks to you making money you might have different blocks entirely you have heard of so many people spending money on like courses and this that believing oh that person did this this and this and then they made a lot of money so all I need to do is this this and this then I'll make a lot of money uh-uh that's a very simplistic view that's not how it works it's possible that you have the exact same blocks as this other person it's possible that the way they healed it is exactly the way you needed to heal it or transform it or fix it and it's possible you have different blocks than them and it's possible you have different desires than them it's possible you have different soul soul longings and evolutionary desires them it's possible that you have the same blocks but you need a very different route and a very different path to heal it there's a whole bunch that's possible and I'm just kind of here to let you know it's not your fault yeah it's not that you're failing so if you're failing to get success or money it's not your fault it's it's a journey it's a path it's like there's so many things that maybe need to unfold in there and you're not worse just because it's taking you longer or worse because you have it maybe even if you never make money even if you never have success it doesn't make you worse it doesn't make you any less worthy than someone else yeah the amount of money that we make the amount of success we have in our career has no bearing no no indication of how worthy we are as individuals right if I have there are people maybe that that have more subscribers than me and maybe aren't so nice maybe they're they're they're promoting messages of hate or fear yeah and there are people with maybe way less subscribers than me and that are maybe have such even more loving and open and helpful message than I have so how many followers we have is not an indication of how great we are how helpful we are how amazing we are or anything like that yeah how successful we are in any field is not an indication that we're more worthy more great or more anything so I encourage you to to invite in some gentleness towards yourself to invite in some softness and love towards yourself for for where you're at in terms of success in your career and financially yeah and if you're feeling like a failure or a loser in these types of ways I also welcome you to check out my new course which dives into some of the negative beliefs I had about myself which made me feel worthless it may or may not help you with with financial success where that's not the point the point is to help you feel worthy so you can check it out click the link somewhere around here if you feel like it okay wishing you all the best bye
