Wake up with Nikki Confident Day 10

Good morning my love,

Welcome back.

I hope yesterday was super juicy and yummy and fruitful.

Were you able to connect with your intuition and trust some of the guidance that flowed through?

Did you get any intuitive hits and follow them?

If not,

If yes,

Either way keep working on that today.

Keep listening to your intuition and following the guidance.

If it tells you to check a certain website or reach out to a certain friend or go to a certain place,

Follow it,

Trust it,

And trust yourself to know what's right for you.

Tune into your body,

Take a few deep breaths before you make a decision or make a commitment,

Right?

And tune in.

Does this feel like a yes or a no in my body?

You'll feel a yes feels light and easy and vibrant and no feels kind of crunchy,

Almost like you got to go poop.

You'll feel in your stomach,

Your gut is a very powerful source of wisdom,

So is your heart.

You can tune into both of those brains and get the answers.

Especially when you're nourishing your body and you've detoxified and you're giving it healthy nutrients,

You become much more clearer of a channel to both tune into your body,

You become more sensitive and to hear and receive guidance from your guides.

I like to think I have two angels supporting me.

My psychic sidekick,

Kristen Kilmer,

If everyone are reading,

She's incredibly powerful.

She is able to connect to spirits and all my guides and she's like,

You've got way more than two angels.

She makes fun of me all the time.

Anyway,

I want to share that with you because you have a team of support.

Really,

You really do.

You have a support team guiding you and if you can trust that wisdom,

You can trust what flows through,

You can use this body as a vessel,

As a tuning fork to what you want to create in your life,

What you want to attract in,

And then trust the guidance that's supporting you to get there.

It's really fun.

It's really fun.

So let's ground in.

Today we're going to go over acknowledging.

Three deep breaths,

Please.

Into the nose.

You know the drill at this point.

Grounding cord,

Nice back straight.

Add regal,

Connect down,

Feel supported,

Grounded.

Next deep breath in to the spirits.

Thank you angels for your guidance today.

Thank you for showing me the way.

Thank you for using my body as a vessel to serve and support and love.

Tune into your heart.

Take your last final deep breath.

Last final deep breath.

Oh,

What a joy you get to expand your heart into the world today.

Endlessly,

Effortlessly,

Abundantly share your love today.

You're an abundant source of love.

You cannot run out of love to give.

You can't.

What a treat.

So on that very note,

I want you to acknowledge someone today.

Make it an intentional act.

You can do more than one,

But let's at least commit to one person today.

As soon as we're done here today,

Pick up the phone,

Send them a voice memo.

You can call them if you like.

Someone from your past or someone in your present day that you just want to honor and shower them with some love.

Shower them with appreciation.

Shower them with what they've done for you and how much you appreciate them being in your life.

Appreciate how they show up,

How loving they are,

How supportive they are,

How wise they are in business.

Reach out to your boss.

If you are the boss,

Reach out to one of her employees,

Send them a memo.

Just say,

Hey,

You know what?

I've noticed how diligently you work and I honor the way you lead.

It's a beautiful thing.

I feel seen.

I feel heard.

I'm really grateful for you modeling what a healthy leader looks like.

Honor someone else.

You'll see how much that love and that honoring will flow back to you.

It's already just in the doing a gift.

So what I do is,

You know how you have a favorites list on your phone?

I add about,

I think there's about 20 people on there that I want in my inner circle.

So I meet people all the time and there's some people that stand out to me as like extra special vibration that resonates with my vibration,

Right?

They're just,

They're my tribe.

They're my people.

I want them on my inner circle.

I put those people right away.

As soon as they're in my phone,

I add them to my favorites right away.

And what that does is it keeps them in my sphere so that when I'm walking to the coffee shop or driving to work and I have an extra five minutes,

I scroll through that list and I send one of them a quick voice memo like,

Hey,

Checking in on you.

How you doing?

I just want to let you know that you're really important to me and I hope you have an absolutely gorgeous day and I share something that I love about them.

Who you are is magnificent.

Thank you for radiating your bright light.

You brighten my world.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you for showing up as you are.

I love you dearly.

You're really important to me.

Do you know what it is like to receive a message like that?

Oh my God,

It lights their world.

It lights them up.

It makes them love you 10 times more.

That's not why I do it,

But that's the sensation.

And then they share that love.

They have more love.

It's like you filled their love cup and they have spilling over with love and they get to share that with other people.

Then it has a ripple effect.

So you showing love to one person can have a ripple effect to 10 others because they share that love with others and then they share theirs and they're there.

So you can go around the world.

So who can you share your love with today?

Who can you acknowledge?

Who can you appreciate for who they are?

I'm telling you that will build your confidence.

You'd be surprised because it is also what you see in other people is actually what you see in you.

We don't realize this,

But what you honor in other people you already have within you,

Their leadership skills,

Their boldness,

Their ability to get up on stage and deliver a powerful message,

Their loving spirit,

Their bright light,

All of that is within you already.

You just have to take the limiting beliefs or anything that's saying you can't or you don't have what it takes off the plate.

That's off the table.

It's not an option.

And as we'll get to tomorrow,

We'll develop those skills in whichever areas you need to.

But just know that the choice of I can and I will,

The conviction,

The determination is what will get you to wherever you want to go.

It's the committed action and determination and will.

And it starts with the belief that you can.

So my loves,

I remind you to honor yourself first.

What do you love about yourself?

What makes you great?

How are you a fantastic human being?

What makes you fabulous?

Right?

All those mistakes made you who you are.

So forgive them,

Honor them,

Send them love.

Trust in the timing of everything today.

Trust your intuition when you get an intuitive hit.

Nourish your body with healthy food.

Make sure you move that sexy body of yours.

Get it moving.

It feels so good.

Get yourself to nature.

Find some body of water.

Set your intention.

How am I going to show up today?

How do you get to be of service to others?

Set your intention.

How am I going to show up today?

How do you get to be of service today?

Can you be grateful that you get to be of service today?

Juicy.

And then shine your love.

Shine your love and embrace what happens.

Embrace what comes.

Embrace what comes and take that space.

Take a few deep breaths before you respond to life and acknowledge that this is all a blessing.

All opportunities.

Everything that happens today is an opportunity for you to practice you being your greatest.

If you make a mistake,

You learn.

If you lose your temper,

You learn.

You quickly shift it.

Shift your state.

Jump up and down.

Move your body.

Tony Robbins talks about it all the time.

Move your body.

If you get upset,

Triggered,

Hurt,

Move it out of your body and then sit with it.

Say,

What was that sourced in?

Where did that come from?

Why did I just get so angry?

Because if you're getting angry,

There's some truth in it that you believe.

There's some deep down belief that it's triggering.

Nobody can say anything that would upset you if you didn't somewhat believe it.

If I said,

Oh,

Your purple hair,

Disaster.

You'd be like,

Lady,

You're crazy.

I got brown hair.

And you'd look at me like I was nuts.

But if I said,

Oh,

You,

Uh,

You're really a shitty daughter.

Right?

Oh,

It hit hard.

So if you're getting upset,

Notice the trigger.

What's the actual inner dialogue that it triggered and then go there.

When was the first time that showed up in my life?

And how is it actually not true?

How am I actually showing up as an amazing daughter?

How do I actually show up fabulous at work?

And if you're not showing up in excellence at work,

Are you doing something you're really passionate about?

Do you really love it?

And if you're not doing something,

You love it because you have to do something to make the ends meet.

Can you do it with more joy?

Can you show up grateful that you get to be of service even as a janitor?

Can you do your job with joy and pride and do the absolute best you can?

That's one of the foundations of Buddhism,

Right?

Do whatever you're going to do,

Do your best.

And I'll tell you that has a ripple effect.

Quick story.

When I was down to that $32,

I asked spirit,

I said,

Please show me the way I need some support.

I need some funds to flow in.

Show me the way.

Sure enough,

That day I got a phone call from a dear friend.

And he said,

There's a position available at this retreat and you got to go to this retreat.

It's a powerful experience.

They do all this somatic healing,

Very,

Very powerful.

You need to be there.

And there's going to be great people,

Good for you to meet.

I said,

Great.

What's the position?

She goes,

A kitchen aid.

I go,

Oh,

Like sous chef.

That's great.

I love being a sous chef.

And he goes,

Nope,

Nope.

More like dishwasher.

I was like,

Wait,

What?

I have a Harvard degree.

Like my ego started screaming,

Right?

Screaming.

And before I said,

Yes,

I sat with it.

I tuned into my body.

I said,

All right,

Body,

This is right for me.

And I heard a full body.

Yes.

Like it was,

There was no question you're going to that retreat.

So what it actually entailed was doing the dishes for five days for 20 people for lunch and dinner.

And despite my ego fighting,

I went and I did it.

Throughout that retreat,

I kept reminding myself,

I get to be grateful.

Today,

I am grateful that I get to be of service.

And I did those dishes with so much joy.

It was an absolute pleasure.

Of course,

I was listening to a business masterclass while I was doing this to the business class that my friend sent me.

And while I was doing it,

I was just,

I was still learning,

But I had that intention.

I'm here to be of service.

And despite my ego wanting to tell everyone at that retreat,

I had a Harvard degree and that I've traveled to 64 countries and all the different things that I was dying.

I was bursting.

My ego was bursting.

I kept hearing,

Shut it,

Stay focused,

Be of service.

So I did.

And at the end of each day of the retreat,

They sat around in circle and they acknowledged each other.

They went around the room and they called me and the chef in.

And I kid you not,

They spent 10 minutes on me acknowledging how I am doing the dishes with so much joy and so much pride and so much happiness that it was like,

It's almost shocking,

Like so much grace.

And they said,

I would walk through the room and I,

It was like,

I left this trail of joy and bliss behind me.

It was so cute.

They helped me see that,

You know,

It's not about your credentials.

It's how you choose to show up every day.

That makes a difference.

How you choose to show up is what makes a difference.

That's what people feel and they see.

And so I invite you today to really set the intention.

How do you want to show up today and own it all day and then acknowledge someone else for how they're showing up.

I promise you it will be one of the most juicy days of your life.

Enjoy.

Don't forget,

Dress your best,

Look your best,

Feel your best,

Shine your brightest,

My friend.

The world needs you too.

I love you.