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Getting Out Of Your Own Way To Achieve Intentions, Goals & Experience Inner Peace, Joy & Happiness

by Alessandrina Dorer

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In this short talk, How to get out of your own way, is designed to help you understand when, where, how, and why subconscious parts of yourself might be holding you back in some way or preventing you from achieving your most important and meaningful intentions and goals in life. By understanding how to get out of the way and surrender your intentions so that it may manifest, you remove resistance and frustration which often happen when we are in a process of change and transformation.

MindfulnessSurrenderEmotional HealingEmotional AwarenessManifestationLaw Of AttractionPurpose AlignmentPersonal DevelopmentInner PeaceJoyHappinessTransformationIntention SettingMind ClearingEmotional Blockage RemovalManifestation GuidanceIntentions

Transcript

Hello,

This is Alessandrina from Dexter and Alessandrina and today I'm going to talk about getting out of the way and how we can do that.

So why is it important to get out of the way and how are we in our own way with the things that we do in our lives?

So getting out of the way is very,

Very important because when we want something,

Sometimes we can become very controlling about that thing.

We can have the tendency to want to control when,

Where,

How and why it happens.

And if you know a little bit about the law of attraction and how things work,

It's a very nice balance between intention and surrender.

So getting out of the way is like realizing first,

Yes,

When you have your intention,

You put it out there and then surrendering,

Getting out of the way.

So that's applicable to really everything in your life and whether it's relationship,

Whether it's your health,

Whether it's success,

Abundance,

It's really being able to appreciate,

To understand and to assess what's meaningful to you and to have that intention to be able to really bring that intention into your consciousness,

Into your field of energy,

Into your emotions,

Into your mind,

Into your body so that you're aware of it,

So that it's part of you.

And then once you're really connected to your intention,

To the feelings also associated with that intention,

That's very important so that it's really grounded in you,

Then it's about surrendering and getting out of the way.

So realizing that if essentially you're going to be every day or every moment of the day reaffirming the past or the things that are happening that may look like they're different than your intention,

Then you're in your own way.

You're not aligned for something new to happen because what you're doing is you're saying,

Am I there yet?

I'm not there yet.

Why am I not there yet?

This is not what I want.

So you're in the energy of what you don't want.

You're in the energy of the past,

You're in the energy of conflict,

Of problem,

The energy of lack,

Separation,

Non-manifestation.

And of course if you're in that energy,

You're in your own way.

You're not in the energy of what you're intending to manifest,

What you're wanting to manifest.

So how do you get out of the way?

Well,

Once you've really tuned into your intention,

Connected to it,

Feel it,

You've cultivated every day,

Then you kind of become aware of times where you doubt yourself or where you're having let's say some obscuration or you're going into a problem mindset or you're essentially denying or kind of negating that what you want to happen can happen.

So all of these things,

All of the ways in which you're essentially in a way against yourself,

Against your intention that you come up with excuses for yourself or for whatever it is that you're wanting to achieve and to receive in your life.

And so the more you become aware of those things rather than suppress them or distract away from them or repress them,

The more you can get out of the way.

And what that means is you have your intention,

You're connected to it,

You feel it,

And then when things come up or when things look like they don't pan out to what you want,

You really clear the past.

You clear those misinterpretations,

Those misunderstandings,

Those blocks that are coming up.

And we do it using any method,

We have a lot of different methods on our website and on our YouTube channel that are essentially designed to help you get in touch with the emotional charge and the recording in your system,

The energy that is stored in your system that's associated with the negative belief or the fear or the misapprehension.

And once you use one of these techniques,

Sedona,

You could use the O Pono Pono,

You could use clear beliefs,

You can use,

I mean there's so many different variations.

What matters is that you use something that you connect to and where you can feel what you feel,

You can connect to your feelings,

The energy,

And also any dialogue,

Any words,

Any beliefs that comes up as you kind of stay present with the energy and the blocks.

And so when you use these techniques,

You're going to get out of the way.

And getting out of the way can be tricky in the sense that you may not always be aware that you're in your own way.

And if you watch the video about internal alignment,

You'll understand a little more about that.

I'll also make a video on how to reprogram your subconscious mind.

And in that video,

I'll also give you more information about essentially how to go into your subconscious and start clearing things up.

Now it can be tricky.

Even in meditation,

It can be difficult to access our own subconscious because sometimes things like to hide from us.

Because if they're there,

There's a reason why they're there.

And we might not,

At least not all parts of us,

We might not want to let it go.

We might feel safer with the belief.

We might feel safer with the fear.

We might feel that we're justified in feeling the way that we feel,

Not realizing that that's actually a block and we are in our own way.

So if you are looking for help in really getting out of the way of your healing,

Of a better relationship,

Of being able to manifest more abundance in your life,

More money,

More success in your career,

Or to continue to grow and evolve spiritually,

Then maybe you would like to work either with myself or with Dexter.

We can help you map your subconscious,

Understand if there's something that you want and it's not happening,

Why it's not happening,

And how to essentially clear the blocks so that then you can be clear,

You can be in alignment on the things that are meaningful and fulfilling to you.

You can have them,

You can receive them,

You can achieve them in your lifetime.

And that's something that is very important because when we are able to achieve things that are meaningful to us,

Our energy grows and flows and our heart opens and so we're much more connected to the field.

We're participating in the field of consciousness positively and that's a wonderful thing.

In addition to our private sessions,

You may be interested in joining our personal development program which we have on a weekly basis and our live Q&As and you can find out more information about that or about private sessions on our website.

Wishing you a wonderful day and sending you lots of love.

Meet your Teacher

Alessandrina DorerSedona, AZ 86336, USA

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Recent Reviews

Joules

December 18, 2021

thank you

Sarah

October 28, 2021

Very helpful! Thank you!

Suzanne

April 18, 2021

I found this so helpful for right now. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽✨

Alexx

March 4, 2021

Very good talk!!

Yvonne

September 13, 2020

Thank you for sharing this lovely talk 🙏

Frances

September 1, 2020

Very insightful thank you. Love and blessings 💖 x

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