Hi everyone,
How are you doing?
I hope that you are doing well.
Let's talk about how to deal with energy vampires,
Which is the topic of today.
So yes,
So let's talk about how to deal with energy vampires.
So just before I tell you about the details of this,
Let me tell you that there are some courses that are already put there.
Regarding how to deal with energy vampires.
There is one on how to shield yourself against energy vampires.
Another one on crystals to shield yourself against vampires,
Essential oils and plants shielding and there is one on breathing in order to release the anger.
So yeah,
So please look at those and I am in preparation right now of course on impacts I am going to do to you,
You know.
Your arm.
Yeah,
Yeah,
We are the energy vampires.
April,
I'm going to go into that.
Yeah,
So basically,
Yeah,
I'm gonna do a course on empath shielding too,
Because you might absorb too much.
Yeah.
Yes,
April,
We are energy vampires and empaths,
Like Samuel said,
Yeah,
Can turn really into energy vampires.
So we are energy bodies surrounding an energy and a physical body.
And before our emotions arrive to the physical body,
They begin with the energetic body.
What happens is that it is stored in your energetic body before it enters into your physical body.
So you get affected by it in your energy field and you absorb it from other people.
First,
When you observe it from other people,
Then you can be contagious,
Just like any disease that is contagious.
And then you might be just too much into picking that emotion because you love those people so much,
You don't want to hurt them.
You just absorb,
Absorb,
Absorb.
You just keep quiet,
But you are absorbing them.
Without noticing a tiny superstar!
And without noticing it.
You explode.
I don't know if you noticed that,
But it happened to me.
Aunt Jessie!
Where's the one who is shouting?
Is it me right now?
It's not even.
.
.
I am not that much.
Angry to have this kind of behaviors or to have shouted that much.
Yeah,
I have absorbed it from other people.
That's why it was a reaction that was overstimulated.
So,
Yes,
Basically.
Yeah,
It is important to,
It is very,
Very,
Very important to kind of observe your behaviors,
Your energetic body,
To feel.
When you are absorbing energy that doesn't belong to you.
Yeah,
So I'm just going to interact with you guys.
I really love you so much today because these last lives I was having just people who wouldn't interact.
I really love interaction.
I adore it.
So,
I'm going to jump on it and interact with you regarding each thing that you have said and put it in the context of how to deal with that file,
Okay?
Oh my God,
I'm pretty happy.
You know,
You made me very,
Very energetic,
Very happy because I've been in love.
Yeah,
So I replied to April and now it's Samuel.
Well,
Samuel,
Yeah,
I'm going to do the course on emphasis is going to be coming soon.
And it is going to be about boundaries too.
So stay tuned.
Samantha,
Yeah,
Protecting yourself and boundaries,
The same.
I'm going to say the same with you,
To you.
Um.
.
.
Yeah,
Boundaries,
Oh yeah,
Boundaries,
Yeah.
Hell yeah.
Oh yeah!
Um yeah so um energy vampires yeah just to let you know um because I have yeah it was Samantha who said it okay so my ex-husband did an energy vampire and we are going through a separation Yeah,
This is why I dropped everything that I was about to say and I.
.
.
Be focused,
And yeah,
I'm telling you that.
How to deal with energy vampires like your ex-husband?
One thing,
And it's going to talk to all of you guys,
Is that the energy vampires,
That we think that our energy vampires are just a reflection of ourselves.
Of the things that we don't accept in us,
And then we have reflected in these people that show that behavior.
Let's imagine,
And I have it often,
Like my family and myself don't speak like we have a sort of communication where even when a person hurts me,
Then I'm going to shut my mouth and I'm not going to tell that person.
It's going to stay until I really accumulate it and then I am going to leave instead of talking to that person and pushing the right boundaries at the right time.
My opposite way is.
My opposite is exactly the person that really speaks his mind in an aggressive way.
So I might attract a partner,
A boss,
Whoever is going to show me that what I would need to be doing in order for me to be centered.
Do you have my polarity,
My masculine polarity?
And my,
My my feminine popularity.
These people might attract a person who is aggressive,
Who says things,
Who says his mind at the right moment,
At the right spot,
Or at the bad moment.
Like he just,
Like whenever you are just like making that person angry,
He's going to tell you right at that moment,
Tell it to everyone,
Instead of just adjusting his timing or the people.
No,
He's going to be aggressive,
Telling you the things and showing his anger and overshowing it.
Like he needs just to master how to keep going back and you need to master how to just speak without not over.
Just pick your mind at the right time and say whatever needs to be said.
Let's say,
For instance,
For saying your truth.
Like it happened to me that my friends sometimes,
When I analyze certain of their behaviors,
I tell them,
Hey,
Mind this,
In your couple there might be some readjustment because it's not you might be having a separation or a situation like that.
Let me just share with you one thing.
That is pretty interesting.
A person whose family is ruled by,
We are not going to tell the truth to the husband,
We are going to hide whatever we have to hide,
Not say how much we spend,
Not say how much we protect our brothers and sisters that we take them over with the expenses,
Etc.
What's going to happen with the husband?
Well,
The husband is going to have exactly the same behavior because he learned it from you.
But if you readjust,
Thus,
Behavior And then you begin just telling the truth and being sincere.
And stopping this pattern of your family at your level.
Then things are going to be.
.
.
Amazing.
Because you have stopped the loyalty towards whatever the pattern is in your family lineage.
So.
When you have husband,
Ex-husbands,
And kids,
Like Samastar is saying.
They are just a reflection of us.
So don't try to blame other people.
I know.
I do it with my husband,
Too.
You know,
He pushes my buttons.
But whatever,
For instance,
I am.
Thinking that he is or his behaviors are is just a reflection of my traumas from my parents.
So I would love you to understand.
How of the behaviors of the patient.
The people that you think that they are energy vampires to you.
Is part of the trauma that you haven't healed yet.
And are parts of the family.
Your parents' behavior,
Mom or dad,
Like the mother won't or the father won't.
You can reply in the chat.
It would be pretty interesting having that conversation because I can tell you,
Yeah,
You dropped that person from your life.
Okay.
In the future.
You might attract another Ryan,
Another Samantha,
Another someone else with just another name.
Or worse in your professional work or whatever.
So.
.
.
Whatever that you are meeting and Um.
.
.
Telling that that person is,
Is just a reflection of you.
And when you're working yourself in how to clear your traumas,
To heal them,
You're going to attract another behavior in that person,
Kind of,
You know,
For instance,
In spirituality,
What we know.
Is that.
We are sometimes the best friends in the angel's realm.
Before we incarnate,
We choose to help each other.
And sometimes we do take the negative roles,
The role of the bad person in the life of the person,
Because she needs to understand the hard way.
She asks for it that way.
She doesn't learn from the good way.
So she asks this incarnation to have to learn that lesson.
It's going to do it that way.
So.
That's.
That's how.
That's how they love us.
And that's how,
When we do change and we do heal our trauma,
Then they get to change their behavior because the agreement is no more there,
Because you have learned your lesson,
Or that person might disappear from your life.
Like,
If I don't say no all the time,
Like,
But in boundaries,
Like we have shared,
Well,
I'm gonna attract all the time a person that is going to.
.
.
Teach me how to learn my boundaries till I learn to.
To put the limits and tell the person no.
Then all that person is gonna just or she's gonna disappear from the world because her The teaching lesson to me was just to teach me how to say no.
So Samuel says,
My son reacts as a narcissist.
Are you saying that past trauma may attract people with narcissistic qualities?
Yes,
Of course.
Of course,
Other people are just a reflection.
So are just a reflection of us.
So,
That person is narcissistic because you don't care about yourself,
Because you don't dedicate time to yourself,
Because you don't give to yourself.
It's just,
As I said,
It's the law of the opposite.
I don't know if you know that law.
It's the law of the universe,
Which says that,
You know,
The opposites are attracted to each other.
So if I don't gift myself.
I'm going to attract a person.
That is going to tick.
Because I love to give and I don't like to take.
Because of my childhood,
Because of how I built this incarnation before I came,
Blah,
Blah,
Blah.
The result is still the same.
I like to give,
But I don't like to take.
I like to give to others,
But I don't like to take from others.
So what am I going to attract?
The person that likes to tick.
Doesn't like to give.
The person that likes to take from others and doesn't like to give to others.
Do you understand how the opposite is in there reflected?
That the day that you learn to give to yourself more,
Have self-love,
Have self-boundaries,
Then all this narcissistic is going to appear and disappear from your life,
Or you're going to throw that person from your life.
Meanwhile,
Now you can't allow yourself to do that.
And you won't be attracting any more narcissists.
Because you learn how to diagnose them and to see them from afar,
And your energy doesn't reflect that boundaries and that vibration and frequency.
We all match in a frequency and vibration.
If I am a match to a narcissistic and then I grow to learn to put my boundaries and I apply it at the same time in my professional life,
My personal life,
My friendship life,
And my parents.
Then I know how to recognize them and I don't fall into the trap.
And even if they want to come close,
They can't.
Like,
Do you notice that sometimes you want to come closer to someone and then you can't?
Have you ever noticed that in yourself?
It's a question of frequency and vibration.
Have you noticed that when someone is very depressed and you are in a joyful mode?
The phone rings and you don't want to even reply because you sense that whatever person is calling.
She is not matching your frequency and vibration,
And you don't want to go down.
You know it consciously.
And you know it,
And cautiously,
Ok?
So let's just reply to your email.
Massages.
Um,
Yeah.
Um.
.
.
Yeah,
Simone,
I don't know if I replied to you.
The idea is really if you don't want to attract another person.
That is an energy vampire that is the reflection of your ex-husband or the reflection of one of your parents.
Or sometimes this person is just the reflection.
What we did in the past life for people who do believe in past lives,
Let's just imagine that I heard.
My ex-husband in a past life.
He is going to come back to this incarnation to show me exactly what I did to him.
So that I would learn that in my soul,
In my heart,
So that I wouldn't do that anymore.
Just like you see in this incarnation people that are very affectious,
That wouldn't harm anyone,
Wouldn't even harm a cat,
An animal.
Yeah,
Because they learned it from part incarnation that it's not good to do that.
That's why they are over compassionate.
We all learn and we all grow in the soul level to be more and more and more into love and less into hatred and things like that.
So when you are with people that do,
Have this kind of behaviors.
One of them Amaziest things would be Upanapanu.
Sorry,
Forgive me,
I love you.
I know it in French.
Désolé,
Pardon,
Merci,
Je t'aime.
I am so sorry.
Well,
You'll know it in English.
Sorry,
You can do it.
You can have it and open up and I write it to you and you find the three,
The four words.
I know three of them.
Open up.
Yes,
So with your ex-husband,
What you can do is that you can do a clearing.
Of karma.
You can do a healing of your relationship.
And you can do past life regression to heal whatever needs to be healed in that past incarnation to have it reflected in this incarnation.
But,
But,
But.
If the lesson is really about you.
Learning some.
Soft skills,
Let's call them lightweight,
To learn how to put boundaries.
You need to check in your environment.
If you are attracting the same kind of energy vampires along your life,
Kids,
Adults version of you.
In your professional life,
At the same time in your personal life.
The more you attract,
The more you,
The lesson is urgent to be learned.
The more it means that you haven't learned some subtleties,
Some finesse.
In the layer of the lesson that needs to be learned.
Um.
.
.
Yeah,
Thank you,
Samantha.
Yes,
So.
So the more that you get to learn the lesson,
The more that you are having that lesson not come back to you as often.
So that's why it is pretty important to get to know that.
Where it's grown.
Yeah,
So one of the easiest things ever that do happen in your incarnation is really for you to For you to learn that.
How to deal with an energy vampire.
And I'm going to relight you in all your questions here.
Um.
.
.
Get to understand if that energy vampire is reflecting some ancestor that was forgotten from your lineage.
Like that person is pushing your buttons,
You don't recognize yourself in repeating that same pattern from this person,
From your parents.
Like that person is not the reflection of your mother,
It's not the reflection of your brother or your or your father.
But it means that maybe in your ancestry line,
There was something that was lived or one of your ancestors did the same to other people.
Then you are experiencing it.
Again as the victim or the perpetrator.
So,
Sometimes while doing family constellations,
You get to hear that.
Because for instance,
If you get retracted with the same kind of patterns all the time.
.
.
Of energy vampires,
This means that there is some healing and understanding in order to do it.
So let's reply to you.
Yeah,
Okay.
So,
Yeah,
Just Samantha and just,
Yeah,
Heal yourself in order not to attract another energy component.
That was the message that I was wanting to convey.
Will tell you.
Um.
.
.
If you complain a lot,
If you are with a person that is positive around you,
And you feel that you are feeling much better.
That person is yawning.
Or that person is feeling suddenly drowsy,
Like she's tired.
It means that you are taking your energy.
If you are complaining too much and you sense it,
You can ask your guides to tell you when you are complaining too much.
And you are.
Transmitting it to the other person so that you would stop.
Or you can ask the other person,
I tell him,
If I complain too much,
You tell me.
It would be a part of a transparency communication and contract that you have with other people to let them know that,
Yes,
You have understood and they have the choice of taking your complaints or not.
For instance,
A podependent,
I'm sure is listening to people and having them feel good.
When they lived.
Even if they are feeling tired.
Even if they have absorbed the negativity of the other person.
Because they feel that they are worthy through that,
That they help the other person,
And through that help,
They feel that they belong here in this incarnation as they are helping others.
So sometimes you can be the energy vampire,
But it is not perceived as an energy vampire by the other person.
Like if you are the child and you are complaining to your mother,
Even if you are the worst energy vampire,
She won't complain.
She will accept whatever because she wants you to be good.
So nothing is positive,
Negative,
White,
Or black.
Just a question of with whom you are and who can be accepted.
Yeah,
So summer star,
I just dropped off an energy vampire,
My young adult daughter,
That needs more explaining.
Pay attention to that because your daughter is just a reflection of you.
Whatever you haven't healed.
When you do healing to yourself.
And for this,
I would advise an amazing book.
The low of the mirror.
Of Yamaguchi Yukinori.
The mirror or mirror moon,
I think that's called in English.
Mirror of the Lord.
Yeah,
I got another key.
No Gucci.
I think that's.
Yeah,
So I'm When you get to heal the relationship that you have with your daughter without dropping her,
Okay,
For the limits,
Then yes,
Positive things happen in the lineage after that for the kids and the grandchildren.
And you are participating to that loyalty of having conflicts or having energy shifts with the daughter.
One of the things would be to to really clear whatever karma that is in there between both of you,
Maybe doing past life aggressions to understand and heal whatever needs to be healed or doing family constellations.
Very important,
Guys,
Really not to drop anyone.
To have it like a win-win situation or just like a agree-agree situation but it might be repeat it in the lineage after and it's not a good thing.
I might need a little more context,
But.
It's really the same.
Why?
On a spiritual level begin by being sometimes enemies.
When we don't sort it out as enemies,
We become like close people.
When we don't sort it out as being close people than like a family or like friends or whatever.
When we don't sort it out as being strangers,
Like friends or close people,
Or just neighbors or whatever,
Then it goes to the next level,
Which is the family.
When we incarnate between family,
It needs that.
And there are some issues,
Very big issues of communication between all of us.
It means that there is a big karma there that needs to be solved.
Better to solve it in our incarnation,
Meanwhile we are spiritual beings,
We are awake,
Because this is what we chose in this incarnation,
Than let this chance drop and wait until maybe another family member in the lineage does this for us.
So I would advise totally for you summer start to read the book,
The Mirror Rule.
It's 10 pages,
No more than that,
But it's an amazing thing that shows how just by healing and forgiving.
The father,
Then the next generation gets to have its results.
Just naturally,
Without doing anything.
I want to spoil more.
I'll let you discover.
So yeah,
And maybe just that energy vampire is just a reflection of you.
Whatever you haven't healed in you is what this daughter is reflecting to you.
She is there to show you what needs to be changed,
What needs to be evolved.
This is just a reflection of what wasn't healed in the lineage,
And it's up to you to do the work if you don't want it to be passed to the next generations.
After all,
You can say,
Hey,
I don't know.
I just live in my lab,
They don't care.
Let's have them do the work,
But.
You have that opportunity and why not,
I would say.
So,
Yeah.
So,
One of the things that I was wanting to share regarding kids.
Let's just imagine that I need to push boundaries,
Okay?
I didn't push it to my friends.
When I reached adult life and I arrived to work,
I didn't change and I didn't have it reflected in my professional life.
I couldn't say no to my boss,
To my colleagues.
Wells is going to show you more than your kids.
Who else is gonna take the lesson the teacher will for you to learn that lesson?
Guess who?
The kids.
You force yourself by not learning certain lessons that you would have kids that would teach you that lesson the hard way.
And sometimes we don't choose to live or to learn our lessons the right way.
We procrastinate so much for fear for whatever.
But sometimes,
Yeah,
It gets that hard that when you're having bad situations with kids,
Most of the time it's because of procrastinations,
Different changes,
Inner changes that you didn't do before.
Um,
Yeah,
So yeah,
I'm reaching,
You know,
Message,
Message by message before I wrap it up the live.
Yeah,
So basically,
Share tips for energy vampires as our children do whatever they're reflecting.
Whatever they reflect in you is what you haven't healed yet and what you need to change in you.
Yeah,
So here,
An incredible negative older neighbor.
She is lonely,
So I tried to visit her,
But drained my energy after an hour.
Okay,
Barbara,
Regarding this.
When she drains your energy,
First thing first,
You look at my course on energy shielding against energy vampires.
You look at my course crystal shielding.
And yeah,
First of all,
Let's do first these two,
And then you can look at the others.
You'll have your answer in that.
Just do that because it is very important.
Secondly,
If you feel that you are absorbing her energy,
You can decide to stop the conversation and go and leave.
Um.
.
.
And yeah,
I would advise that.
And then even if you come back again after you,
But whenever you begin to feel that you are absorbing negativity,
You go.
This is how bandwidths are,
Okay?
So anger,
Abandonment,
That's what needs to be healed in your lineage.
Um yeah.
Even when we are getting along amicably,
I am generally drained and exhausted after our interaction.
This means,
Of course,
Shielding against indigible minds.
Because we have holes in our energy.
And those holes are making it capable of absorbing the gasophage.
So when you get to close those walls,
And this I showed in the quest in energy shielding against energy vampires.
Then you won't be Well,
You would be complete.
Then yeah,
Nothing can enter.
And then you are going to add to that shielding.
Yeah,
If you are drained and exhausted it means that you are giving too much.
Or that your energy is so open or it is so big.
Because sometimes this is what it is.
Sometimes our aura,
Which is the energy body that we have,
Is too big.
I have learned so much in my childhood to be sensitive around me because my parents were a little bit unpredictable.
I could just have a slap or whatever,
But I learned to have my aura expanded so that I would sense whatever was happening in the room.
Around me.
So that's how maybe you are englobing not only your aura,
But aura of the other person.
Ideal,
Right?
Um yeah um yeah so samuel as i said before yeah please do the healing because yeah your ex is narcissistic but because it is you don't care about yourself Think about whatever you.
Do a list,
Okay Samuel,
Do a list of whatever you think that the person is.
His defaults,
He is like this,
He is like this,
He is like this,
Okay?
And then after that,
See whatever you are saying about him is reflected in you.
It's whatever you don't do to yourself.
Yeah,
So it appears as though the more work I do to protect and shift my energy,
The more aggressive and instable he behaves.
Is this possibly because he is unable to access my.
.
.
Oh,
Of course.
Because he is unable to access your energy.
Of course.
He is feeding.
You are his food.
You are his energy food.
Of course.
Well,
He is eating!
How cruel of you!
How bad of you!
But it's just a reflection of whatever you are not respecting your boundaries in some things.
Just allow yourself to see.
When he is aggressive and unstable.
Take it just as a lesson of study,
Ok?
Whenever he feels aggressive on his table,
What is the behavior that you don't give him?
I am not compassionate.
I am not giving him to eat.
I am not this,
I am not that.
It means that this thing is not what you are not giving to yourself.
Um.
.
.
Oh yeah,
Narcissistics are really able to identify you.
Yeah,
100% of course.
Um.
.
.
Yes,
So Samuel,
This is exactly what's happening to me as well.
The more firmly I set boundaries,
The angrier he gets.
But finally,
I kicked him out.
And he has withdrawn.
Amazing.
You need to explain to the person.
Sometimes they don't,
Are not aware of their behavior,
Okay?
You need just to explain in concrete words.
I did this and you did that.
I did this because sometimes they don't understand they have been used to be fed by you and suddenly you change.
You need to tell the person,
This is my real me.
Do you accept me like this?
But you can't just go kicking around people from your life because they don't understand a shift,
An evolution that you did.
Phones and whatever to warn people when they upgrade.
I can't do the upgrade,
And then the person is used to my last version,
And then I tell them,
Hey,
I don't understand.
This is not working.
Hey,
There was a shift,
And it didn't work.
What's that?
It's your fault,
Too.
Yeah,
So when it comes to children speaking as another child,
I feel the parents must admit and work on themselves before telling their kids to get help.
Um,
Yeah,
So yeah,
I think that we arrived at the end of these questions.
Do you have any more questions,
Guys?
Before we wrap it up?
I over over took the timing.
Yeah.
Um,
Just to let you know,
Yes,
There is this course and I did it for you guys because before I used to do a lot of lights and then I had issues with my mic and then I bought an amazing microphone.
So I am able to record.
Yeah,
So I did courses for you guys,
And they are there for you.
I'm still needing to put one on dealing with energy vampires.
I didn't go through the real topic of dealing with energy vampires that I was going to do,
Because I was so excited of the comments in the chat,
And I really preferred just giving you the voice and replies that you need.
Bye!
But yeah,
Just definitely there are different types of energy vampires and it would be my pleasure to share that in the course.
And in a future life to share that with you.
Yeah,
There are different ways of dealing with each type of energy vampires.
We couldn't go through that,
But it's okay.
Oh,
Yeah.
So,
Um,
I did the audio recording for this,
Uh,
Live today,
And I'm going to be applying that in the future.
I did it just with a computer.
So let's hope that the result of audio is good.
And yeah,
I did record it.
So I'm going to be put it in the free version of Insight Timer.
And I will be doing just a question of time for me to,
I will be really,
Let's just say we as teachers,
We do have the replay of each of the previous lives.
So I am going to re-record the audios of the lives in order to put them to you in the free section.
Just needs time.
And yeah.
Apple,
I don't know yet,
Because they take a lot of time sometimes to process,
You know,
The different audios that we upload.
So,
I wouldn't be able to tell you,
But it's going to be among the first ones that I am going to be uploading in the platform.
So,
I'll keep you tuned when they approve it,
Because it takes time sometimes to be approving stuff.
Yeah,
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You know,
To be,
Yeah,
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Well,
See you Thursday.
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With diabetes.
In Eurasia,
Which is peeing during the night for kids and for adults,
And plus,
You know,
Many other content about insomnia.
And I'm going to be preparing EFT tabbing.
So if you have any topic that you would like me to do,
As I said,
Please,
Please,
Please let me know so that I would program it in the things that I'm doing.
So have an amazing day.
And see you Thursday for the people that aren't going to be able to attend.
Bye-bye,
Guys.
God bless you.
And thanks really for attending our communication.
I really loved it.
