Hey everybody,
Welcome back.
Jason here.
At some point,
Every new meditator kind of says basically the same thing.
My mind will not stop thinking.
And that usually comes with the belief that everybody else must be sitting in perfect silence while their own mind is completely out of control.
But everybody's mind produces thoughts,
Right?
I mean,
What exactly do minds do?
You haven't suddenly become distracted because you started meditating.
You're simply noticing how distracted that you already are.
And before meditation,
The mind wandered all day and well you followed it,
Right?
Without even realizing it.
And now you're beginning to see happening.
And that is actual progress right?
So in this lesson we're going to work with thoughts instead of treating them like enemies.
So I mean,
To start,
Begin in your normal posture.
Feel the body and really,
Really feel the breath.
And then just follow it.
Follow it for a few moments,
And sooner or later,
I guarantee you a thought will appear.
You know,
It might be a word,
An image,
A memory,
A plan,
A conversation,
Or even a full imagery disaster,
Right?
The mind can build entire futures in about three seconds.
So the first thing to understand is that you don't need to choose most of the thoughts that,
Well,
Appear.
Because they simply arise.
And you don't sit there and carefully decide,
Now I'm going to remember something embarrassing from grade 8.
It just shows up.
And that alone really does teach us something super,
Super important.
A thought appearing in the mind doesn't mean that the thought is true,
Useful,
Or even important.
It's simply a thought.
So when you notice that you've become lost in thinking,
Quietly just label it.
You can say,
Thinking.
That's it.
You know,
Nothing more than that.
You don't need to identify,
You know,
The entire story.
And you don't need to say,
You know,
This anxiety caused by my childhood and it's connected to what happens three years ago.
It's just thinking.
And then simply return to the breath.
And if you're planning,
You can say something like planning.
And if you're remembering,
You can say remembering.
And if you're worrying,
Well,
You can say worrying.
Just simply keep the label very simple.
And the label itself helps you step back.
Instead of being inside of the thought,
You're now aware that thinking is happening.
This is sometimes called the witness or witnessing.
Basically what's happening is you're learning to see the activity of the mind without automatically becoming it.
So I mean,
Get this,
Imagine sitting beside a road watching cars pass,
Right?
Each car,
Let's call them a thought.
Normally a thought arrives and you then jump into that car.
And then it drives you around for 10 minutes,
Right?
But meditation,
What it does is it teaches you that you don't have to get into every single car.
You can actually let it pass.
And of course,
You'll get into plenty of them,
Right?
Of course.
You'll suddenly realize that you've been gone for a while,
And that's okay.
Get out of the car and return to the side of the road.
Yeah,
There's really no need to attack yourself.
Self-criticism?
Yeah,
It's just another thought.
So you might notice yourself saying,
Oh you know,
I'm terrible at this or something like that.
So just label that as thinking too,
And then simply return to the breath.
You know,
Some thoughts they will keep coming back.
The mind may be worried about something real.
You may be dealing with grief,
Or conflict,
Work problems,
Or even some important decision.
Know meditation is not pretending that those things don't matter at all but for these five minutes you're learning that you can place the thought down even if it's just briefly.
And you can return to it afterward,
Right?
And when you do return to it,
You may see it a little more clearly because you're no longer completely tangled and attached inside of that thought.
So I mean what I'm saying is don't try to throw thoughts out of the mind.
The harder you actually push them away,
The more important they will seem to you.
So if I tell you not to think about a purple elephant,
The first thing you'll do is actually create the purple elephant in your mind.
So let the thoughts arise,
Let them remain for a moment,
And then simply let them pass.
Your responsibility is not to control everything that appears.
Your responsibility is to notice where your attention has gone.
So for this practice,
Sit for five minutes.
Use the breath as I don't know,
Your home base.
And when thoughts pull you away,
Just label them gently.
Call them thinking,
Call them planning,
Call them remembering.
Call them worrying,
And then.
.
.
Return.
Right?
Some meditation sessions may contain very,
Very,
Very little silence.
And that doesn't mean that nothing has happened.
Because each moment of noticing is a moment when you are no longer completely asleep.
Inside the font.
And that moment is the beginning of freedom.
Thanks for listening.
Namaste.