You are listening to this because you feel the need to be sure.
That urge for certainty,
That pressure to know is a trap every single time.
OCD is telling you,
Just check once,
Just think it through again,
Just quickly get reassurance,
Just analyse this properly.
But you know how that ends,
More checking,
More doubt,
More loops.
So instead,
Let's pause.
Notice where the uncertainty is showing up in your body.
Is it in your chest,
Stomach,
Head or somewhere else?
Be curious about what that sensation feels like.
Is it a tension,
A flutter,
A heaviness perhaps?
This is the real discomfort.
Not knowing.
And not knowing is ok.
It's a natural part of life.
So we are going to help you loosen up this idea you have to chase certainty.
Say to yourself,
I can allow myself to feel unsure right now.
This feeling is part of the process of me managing OCD.
So let that thought that triggered you stay unanswered.
Let the unknown stay unknown.
Let OCD keep demanding clarity while you give it none.
Free yourself from the shackles of needing to know.
It's ok that you don't.
Now offer yourself compassion with one simple movement.
Rest your hand on your heart area.
Bring your attention to the warmth of your hand and the comfort and familiarity of that.
The goal isn't to feel calm,
Which may sound strange.
The goal is actually to hold the uncertainty without fixing it.
And that's exactly what you're doing.
Every second you stay here without reaching for certainty.
Your tolerance for uncertainty grows.
The grip OCD has on you loosens.
Your mind learns you don't need answers to move through your day.
This is progress.
Uncomfortable,
Sure,
But progress nonetheless.