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A Return To The Heart: Tending To Ourselves With Love And Compassion

by Mar Healy

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In a world of judgement, comparison and criticism, pausing to offer ourselves kindness and compassion is an act of loving rebellion. Each of us has within the mind, a voice that offers on ongoing commentary about all that is bad or wrong about us, all the ways we're failing or falling short, even calling into question if we're worthy or loveable. Take a few moments now and allow me to gently guide you back to your heart, to the true essence of your being.

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Transcript

Hi,

It's Mar,

Welcome.

So often in life we can turn on ourselves,

Beat ourselves up or get caught in judgement,

In criticism,

In feeling unworthy,

Unlovable.

For the next few moments let us drop into meditation together to find a sense of compassion,

To reconnect with our beautiful heart energy and to offer ourselves the love and the tender care that we are so deeply deserving of.

Beginning by arriving into the body,

Gently closing over the eyes or lowering the gaze below and starting to notice your breath.

Where do you feel your breath?

Knowing the natural flow of the breath as you breathe in through the nostrils and down into the heart,

Into the belly and all the way back out again.

Knowing that for the next while there is nothing else to do or worry about or plan,

That it is okay to be fully here,

That here is the only place you need to be right now.

Beginning by calling to mind someone you love deeply,

Maybe a child,

A loved one,

Even a pet.

Just calling to mind their face and noticing the sensation of love and warmth that just thinking about them brings.

Noticing where you feel this sensation of love.

Maybe it's in the heart space,

A sense of warmth,

Softness.

And bathing in this beautiful sensation for a moment or two,

Just really sinking into it.

And as you hold their face in your mind's eye,

Silently repeating the following phrases,

May you be happy.

May you be safe.

May you feel loved and worthy.

May you be free from all suffering.

And staying with that sensation,

That tender,

Kind,

Loving awareness.

Feeling how it feels in the body.

Starting to see if you can gently offer some of this same loving,

Kindness,

Compassion towards your own being.

Turning this inward,

Offering it to ourselves.

And noticing if there is any level of resistance.

And saying that's okay,

That's so normal.

Just seeing if you can allow this compassion and this love and this warmth in.

And as you hold on to this feeling,

Bringing your own being to mind and silently repeating the following phrases to yourself.

May I be happy.

May I be safe.

May I feel loved and worthy.

May I be free from all suffering.

Seeing if it's possible to allow this tender warmth,

This loving kindness to sink into every part of your being.

All of you.

All the parts,

Even the parts that we cast away and deem unlovable.

Knowing that the mind will often attack and tell stories,

Judge,

Criticise,

But that underneath all of this mental chatter is the truth of your being,

The truth of your worthiness.

And knowing that you are deeply deserving of love,

Kindness and compassion.

Moving on to this sensation as you go out into the rest of your day.

And knowing that you can call upon it any time when you feel like you have turned on yourself and maybe are caught in criticism or emotional reactivity.

This place of softness,

Of compassion is always here to welcome you back home.

And you are always so deeply deserving of receiving this love.

Bringing awareness back onto the breath again.

Becoming aware of your surroundings.

Becoming aware of the sense of touch with the surface beneath.

And thanking yourself for gifting yourself this beautiful time and space.

In your own time gently blinking the eyes open.

Thank you for being with me.

Namaste.

Meet your Teacher

Mar HealySligo, Ireland

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Recent Reviews

Kathie

February 20, 2026

A lovely reminder that I can see myself in the way I see those I most love.

Ben

February 17, 2026

This meditation truly was a gift to me on a day that my mind was spinning out of control, leaving a trail of dark thoughts that clouded my heart. Thank for parting the clouds and letting the light shine forth once again. You truly have a gift. ☀️💝

Rachel

January 28, 2026

Beautiful, lovely way to begin my day. Such a soothing experience, thank you. 🙏🏽

Bree

January 27, 2026

Thank you for the loving meditation tonight. I was really emotionally overwhelmed because of something that happened yesterday. And I was bound and determined not to let it affect me one more night. thank you for helping me show myself some loving kindness.

Marie

January 22, 2026

This was a perfect companion to the intention setting challenge I am doing here. 🦋

Kelly

December 17, 2025

I love it that my 23 year old son sent this one to me. After years of me sending him meditations! ❤️😍

Cherylin

December 6, 2025

I enjoyed this meditation this morning a short time to feel my inner self & appreciate me thankyou

Melissa

November 7, 2025

This was so impactful for such a short meditation. I had some really important realizations come up that will help me move forward in my personal life and my meditation practice.

Emma

October 31, 2025

Beautiful thank you. Your voice is so comforting ♥️

Patrick

October 21, 2025

Incredible, such a beautifully simple idea and at the same time so effective at opening me up to allowing myself to feel some compassion for myself! Thank you ❤️

Paula

October 1, 2025

Thank you for this moment of calm, self love and peace. A bless to me!!!

michael

September 25, 2025

Excellent visualizations I could feel her words thanks you

Janna

August 30, 2025

Mar’s voice is so healing! I absolutely love all of her meditations.

ayreÁnna

May 14, 2025

as always, so beautiful and soothing. thank you, dear Mar, for your dedication to love and care. 🙏🏽♥️🕊️

Cathy

March 10, 2025

I needed this. It helped me to turn towards myself and respond with love. Thank you 🙏

Katie

January 1, 2025

Loving listening to your meditations. So happy to have found you 🙏

Neil

December 29, 2024

Mar: Thank you so much for sharing this skillfully worded loving kindness.

Melissa

September 22, 2024

Wonderful! Mar really touches a chord with me. She’s amazing

Bec

July 9, 2024

This was so profound and exactly what I needed.. thank you so much. I'll come back to this one often 🙏🏼

Chethak

June 28, 2024

This was very nice and nurturing. Thank you so much teacher

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