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Silencing The Shoulds - For The Overwhelmed Soul

by Naami Padi

Rated
4.8
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
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Everyone
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We’re surrounded by marketing, pressures and expectations and frankly it’s too much. Be better, do better, be more productive, listen to me, don’t listen to them. Buy this - it will solve all your problems. It’s too much. It’s exhausting, and its mostly a load of old commerce-driven cobblers. In this practice we’ll explore how you can create a bubble of resistance and do your life, in your own way and in your own time. With love x Sound effect is Gentle Waves from Pixabay.

OverwhelmSoulExhaustionProtectionDigital DetoxBreathingAcceptanceBody AwarenessStressCompassionMindful BreathingSelf AcceptanceSelf CompassionProtective Bubble

Transcript

Let's face it,

Most of us are glued to our smartphones and devices and so for most of our waking life we are bombarded by messages,

Marketing and we're surrounded by expectations.

And sometimes,

Frankly it's too much.

We've got the expectations we impose on ourselves.

I need to do this,

I must be this,

I must change in this way.

We've got the expectations others have of us.

You must do this,

Why haven't you done that?

We've got society's expectations of us and we've got the pressures of the daily grind.

We're told that the clock is ticking and that time waits for no man or woman.

Our timelines show us eight ways to beat procrastination,

Ten ways to lose belly fat and nine ways to rekindle romance.

And it feels like everything's saying,

Be better,

Do better,

Be more productive,

Listen to me,

Don't listen to them,

Buy this.

And it's always buy this,

Buy this and it will solve all your problems,

Oh and whatever you do,

Do not age.

And it's too much,

It's exhausting and it's mostly a load of old commerce driven cobblers if you ask me.

So in this practice I thought we'd just acknowledge the environment that we are living in and explore how we can develop our own bubble of resistance in which you do you,

You do your life in your own way and in your own time and just kind of sit with that idea in your own way and in your own time.

So take a load off and settle into your space now,

In your own way and in your own time.

You can soften your brow,

Let your shoulders drop,

Sink into the surface that you're resting on,

I'm not trying to sell you anything,

You're fine as you are.

You can let your guard down and let go,

Settle and in your own way and in your own time simply notice the breath in the body,

The in-breath and the out-breath.

When your mind wanders in your own way and in your own time gently bring it back to breathing,

Body knows how to breathe,

The breath,

Nothing else.

In your own way and in your own time noticing your body,

How does your body feel and what sensations are there,

Connecting,

Nothing else,

Sitting,

Lying,

Standing,

In your own way and in your own time,

Bringing the mind back when it wanders,

Very gently,

As supposed to be,

To simply exist,

The rhythm of the breath,

Sensations in the body,

Remembering life is a gift,

You're precious,

A daily practice or a regular practice,

In your own way and in your own time,

Creates a protective bubble,

A break from expectations and messages,

Marketing,

So well done for creating this space for yourself today,

Keep doing it,

Thank you so much for practicing with me today and remember in your own way and in your own time as far as possible.

Meet your Teacher

Naami PadiRamsgate, UK

4.8 (346)

Recent Reviews

Rose

December 9, 2025

This is a wonderful meditation for anytime, but I'm listening in December and it seems perfect for this time of year. I absolutely adore this meditation and am bookmarking it to listen again. Thank you so much, Naami.

Mark

May 27, 2025

A real help in disconnecting from the loud overwhelming psychic noise, and reconnecting to the soul. Thank you.

Bob

February 22, 2025

This fit me perfectly today. Thank you for sharing this.

Angel

November 13, 2024

Love when I come to a meditation w/ one intention and so many others come up. See why its so high rated, truly needed this message. Thank you for being a catalyst of my guides.

Lucy

August 7, 2024

Loved this! It is definitely all too much 🤪 I constantly feel like I’m being sold to & the idea of if I could just improve this, this & this about myself then it will all be ok… This felt like the perfect antidote from the craziness - thank you ❤️

Graciela

July 26, 2024

What a beautiful invitation, “in your own way and in your own time” ❤️🙏🏽

Stacey

May 29, 2024

Naomi, this was so accurately on point for me this morning. Thank you so much for creating this simply wonderful practice and reminder. Excellent excellent excellent 🤩🤩🤩

Kat

April 9, 2024

Thank you for this lovely calming and centering meditation!🌞🌺💚

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