I'm making this video because I'm hearing so much sadness from women about the men in their lives or the lack of men or the quality of the dating pool.
So women have,
You know,
Got careers,
They're doing well,
But their emotional life maybe is suffering.
A GP friend of mine mentioned that her clients who were getting Botox commented that they liked the Botox because their faces looked less angry.
That's a bit worrisome if there's,
You know,
A lot of female anger building and we're not realizing our capacity for transformation.
But anyway,
Back to the topic about fellows.
You know,
The man is in the woman.
Think about how English spells it.
Like woman is just W-O in front of the word man and he,
I mean she is just he with an S in front of it.
Because the man that we're attracting or we're with is reflecting the man inside us and the key is how is the man inside us treating us?
Now this man inside you will just be woven into your experience of life and you might not even realize it's your male subconscious.
So some women walk around very critical of themselves,
Very,
You know,
Watchful about their weight.
They get upset if they gain two pounds or their appearance or,
You know,
With their,
They don't feel maybe they've achieved enough or they're,
I don't know,
Not beautiful enough.
This can be a very kind of loud inner dialogue that repeats this over and over and a loud dialogue saying,
You know,
That your talents aren't much,
That you know,
You won't amount to anything.
Okay,
Now that is a negative male inside.
Carl Jung called it a negative animus.
In the man it's the anima,
The female's anima.
Okay,
Now that requires your attention if you're running those things because that will affect the quality of the men you attract into your life.
The men will reflect this,
What you're doing to yourself.
See the point of power is you.
So you know,
If you really decide to deal with this and to really seek to learn how to side with yourself and believe in yourself and to stop these overly too harsh expectations on yourself,
The men around you will change and they will become supportive and loving and you'll attract high quality men.
It's what you're doing to yourself that matters.
So I really want this,
You know,
I'm really hoping this is better understood that,
You know,
That women have this power of transformation.
We can transform ourselves.
You can become the person you were born to be and have a very supportive energy inside you,
Masculine inside you and perhaps outside you in your life if you want this.
Yeah,
Because what I'm seeing is this incredible focus on appearance that's just getting so intense for women,
That's turning women into objects in a way that was never,
Like when I was growing up in the sixties and seventies,
It was never so intense as it is now.
And also they also have to like have really high paying jobs and do really well.
And it's like,
Oh,
That's so much outer pressure and it's so easy to then run kind of a tyrannical inner dialogue with yourself.
And in fact,
You know,
At the,
You know,
It actually finally does affect even our governments because what is inside is outside,
You know,
So the fairer you are,
The more democratic,
The more self compassion you will,
You feel for yourself,
The more,
You know,
Giving yourself the benefit of the doubt,
The better quality of a fellow you'll attract.
And maybe our governments will return to what was in the old days when I was growing up to seem more democratic back then.
Anyway,
I want to say this,
Your point of power is inside.
Yeah,
Bless your hearts.
