How To Heal Your Life Like A Queen: Myska's Story

You're listening to Radio Kidnappers,

The voice of Hawke's Bay.

This is a program called Your Time to Shine,

And it's our pleasure,

As always,

To have in the studio the host of Your Time to Shine,

Celine Harlow.

How are you going,

Celine?

I'm doing really well.

How are you doing?

Oh,

It seems like ages since we last spoke.

Have you had a good month?

Very good.

And what about you?

Oh,

I can't complain.

All the better for seeing you,

That's for sure.

Anyway,

Before we talk to our very special guest today,

Who's Mishka.

How are you going,

Mishka?

I'm good.

Thank you.

Let's just come back to you.

Celine,

Just remind our listeners what Your Time to Shine is all about.

Your Time to Shine is all about self-love,

Self-development,

Loving yourself and accepting yourself so that you can be the best you can be in your life right now.

We have in the studio today,

I'm super honored to have you,

Mikaela Foshlova.

She's a wonderful friend and teacher of mine,

And I'm so,

So happy that you're here with us.

Welcome.

Welcome.

Thank you.

Thank you so much.

I have so many questions to ask you.

Tell us about you.

Who are you and what do you do?

All right.

My name is Mishka,

As you have heard,

And I originally come from Czech Republic where I grew up in Prague,

But I came to New Zealand 12 years ago.

I've traveled for years and I've been always passionate about exploring new ideas of life and philosophies,

Approaches to life in a search for joy and happiness and harmony.

So how did your search for more peace and harmony take you on this beautiful path,

Complex path of self-development?

I think it started with the path of self-development taking me on this journey.

I think it always come to the roots of,

At least for me,

Where I come from.

You know,

Growing up in communism,

It wasn't the easiest,

Happiest,

Joyous time.

We were not very encouraged or supported for an abundant future.

You always thought about everything what will not go right,

And that didn't feel right in my heart.

I didn't agree with it in my heart.

I also come with very strong dyslexia background,

So I had it especially hard in the school system.

And so I decided not to accept what they were sharing with me and find my own way.

And so as soon as I could,

I packed my little backpack and with no money,

I went and started traveling and traveled for years on just a couple of dollars and I met amazing people and they inspired me with lots of things.

And that's how it started.

Amazing.

And the reason why we met originally is that we are both passionate about Theta Healing.

So how did you get to this point of teaching Theta Healing and encouraging people to help themselves and heal their own lives through Theta Healing?

So I love Theta Healing.

That must be very clear.

I've done many modalities and techniques.

I started with Reiki when I was 12 years,

Energy and aura reading.

I've done automatic paintings of people spacing and clearing people's rooms through shamanic journeying,

Empowering workshops,

Women's circles,

Yoga,

Ayurveda,

Pranayama,

I can go on and on.

And they're all amazing and I love them and each of them has its own truth and gift for each of us.

So while I was doing them,

I was living my life with my ex-partner and my work and there were certain things which were still not moving forward and I didn't know why because I've done everything I could from fasting to all this yoga and it was good.

It was helping me a little bit but there was still the big thing I couldn't get through.

And it was my time to go to Czech Republic after seven years because my nana was dying of Alzheimer's and I knew I have to meet with my mom and dad and I had especially big problem with my dad.

I loved him but every time we were together,

It was just really hard,

It become very,

Who is guilty of what or you know,

These past traumas and pain and sorrows.

So I was horrified,

I wasn't sure how I'm going to go about it and I couldn't tell him that I'm going home after seven years and I will not see him.

That was just not the option.

But we could connect on,

If we would talk about yoga and meditation.

So I thought if we do some workshop together on those topics,

We will talk about that and nothing else and it will be okay.

And I proposed that to him and he thought that's a good idea.

So I looked what workshops are available and there was this Theta Healing thing.

I had no idea what it was but it was the basic workshop,

It was the only thing which was available during the time I was in Prague and I thought,

All right,

We should do it.

It was a little bit more expensive than most of the workshop I do.

So I wasn't sure and in the end I thought,

You know what,

My family is the most important thing.

If I'm trying to hold my,

You know,

My progress with family because of money,

Then I will never get anywhere.

Like my family,

That's the most important.

My health and luck,

It's more important than money.

I can always make money or get some job.

So all my savings went to that workshop.

And I went to this workshop and the first day was like,

Yeah,

Okay,

I know,

Bits and pieces.

It was the second day which took my heart.

We did technique which is called Dig Deeper,

We got into such a deep layers with me and with my dad where I never could go before and that's what changed,

That changed my life.

My life has never been the same.

My relationship with dad is amazing,

We are best friends.

He's trained in Theta Healing as well.

We bought a house and we want to try to live together as well.

He's an amazing human being and so that was the start of Theta Healing for me.

What is Theta Healing?

Theta Healing is a modality.

It's a meditation technique through which we connect with the Theta brain vibration.

So we have Alpha,

Beta,

Gamma,

Delta,

Theta.

And Theta is the brain wave where we connect with our subconscious mind where our programs and beliefs are stored.

So for example,

When children are born,

They have a constant state of Theta brain wave.

So whatever we are telling them,

Whatever is happening around them,

They are taking it in and based on that,

They are building their personality.

And based on that personality,

Then they are experiencing and living the life afterwards.

Some of those beliefs are great,

They are serving us,

Like I'm love,

Right?

That's a perfect belief to have.

But we can have also experience that if I got too close to my friend and the friend betrayed me,

Then my subconscious mind based on this experience made a belief that if I get too close to my friends,

They will betray me.

So what happens that we just don't get too close to friends,

Just in case.

Now that is not helping us to be and enjoy the life to its fullest purpose.

So we want to find out where it came from and what do we need to learn so we can connect and be super close with our friends without fearing of being betrayed.

You know,

Maybe knowing how to communicate what we need or that will be then individual for each person.

Does that help you forgive the betrayal?

To forgive the betrayal,

Yes,

Because once you understand what was the learning where you had to go through the experiences,

It's easy to let go,

Right?

Like you can see it often in relationships,

Sometimes it's very hard to forgive the ex for all that stuff they have done.

But if you sit down and you look at everything you gain from that relationship,

All the gifts,

All these amazing learnings,

If you see yourself for who you were in the beginning and who you are now and how much richer is your life through living with this person,

Then you can forgive way easier,

Right?

And so with Theta Healing,

We can go into so many aspects,

So many learnings you have done within that relationship that not only you forgive,

But you actually feel a deep gratitude for that person coming into your life,

Even if it was really,

Really hard in moments.

What about forgetting,

Though?

You can forgive,

But do you ever forget what they did to you?

I don't think the purpose is to forget.

Life is what it is.

Like we go through experiences and then our stories can empower other people.

So we don't need to forget or we don't want to forget.

We just want to learn why we had to go through it so we can move forward and we don't have to experience it again and then forgive and move on.

Would that allow you to become close to that person who betrayed you or would you never get close to that person again?

Well what do you think?

Would you never get close to that person again?

Once you can forgive,

That actually expands your heart,

Right?

You have to find the love to be able to forgive.

So you get so close and through my personal experience,

There are so many people who have hurt me.

They did horrible,

Nasty things like physical abuse and stuff.

And doing this work,

I could not only forgive,

But some of them become my very good friends.

Did you only forgive your father through Theta Healing?

Or was that when you decided that,

Hey look,

Let's put that behind us?

Do you think if you hadn't have started the Theta Healing that you would have got on with your father as you are getting on with him now or not?

It's a very hypothetical question.

I think when I came to Theta Healing with this,

I was in the end with my hopes.

That was my last hope for us.

It was in a stage I could not imagine anything else.

And I tried for years so many different techniques.

Going through this,

It wasn't that we had to put something behind us.

It actually allowed us,

Why did we have created it?

Why we are experiencing,

Why we are feeling it,

And what we could do and what we need to learn so we can move forward together as a team.

Did you go back on those feelings and say,

Well this is where it happened,

This is why?

Yes.

Yes,

We did amazing work and we still do because there's always more.

But now he had the fear of retiring because that's a big step.

Now he got excited and he wants to retire,

He wants to step forward and create,

Because he has the time,

So he can start offering sessions to his friends and to his colleagues and he's excited about what life has to offer him.

Just before we started,

He was telling me,

I'm scared,

I'm becoming a grumpy old man.

Yes,

Indeed.

I like how he feels.

That's such a powerful story of reconciliation.

With the clients who come to me,

There's just so many stories of hurt and trauma and anger and suffering between children and parents that we just try to move forward from,

Even as adults,

But we just don't necessarily know how.

So I was actually wondering if you could give our listeners three tips to help them move forward.

If they're stuck in their lives and they don't know how to move forward and they may try something but it doesn't really work,

What would be your three most beautiful tips to help them get unstuck and move forward in their lives?

I think come for Theta session,

It would be awesome.

We have by now,

We had just training last week,

So we have a few amazing Theta practitioners now in Hux Bay and we hope to have more workshops January and February for beginners and then there are more advancements.

If it's something you really want to work on,

Then ideally come and train because I believe that every family should have one Theta practitioner,

Not only to work on themselves,

But instead of going into all this drama and trauma and conversation,

You can actually immediately have a look,

Where is it coming from,

Change it and then enjoy this beautiful Sunday afternoon and watch TV and have a good barbecue knowing that you have actually done already something amazing.

If you are not in a state where you can consider or you want to consider Theta healing in this moment,

I believe that heart vibration has lots of healing,

It's a medicine for us.

So anything which will make you happy and joyful.

If there is a problem with somebody,

Let's put it on the side,

Don't worry about that for a while,

Give yourself a break because being in that vibration and energy could be overwhelming,

If you are angry,

It's really hard to feel any love,

You are upset and it rolls in your mind,

So just put it on the side,

Allow yourself that it's okay,

It will wait for you,

It will not run away,

So it's okay,

You can put it there for a while and do something which will make you happy in that moment.

My mom,

When she gets upset,

She would say,

Okay,

It's time to do some shopping and she will buy something for her kitchen or these little things and that works,

That works too.

If you can't do shopping,

It could be just go for a walk or anything which makes you good feel in your heart,

The bath you always wanted to take or go for coffee with your friend or something.

And then when you are more connected with your heart and you feel the joy and you return to that situation,

It will look different.

You suddenly will not feel it so hard or traumatizing or so heavy and you can come with better ideas.

Amazing,

Thank you.

So I'm actually super excited because we currently do not have a Theta Healing teacher in Hawke's Bay,

We have a few Theta Healing practitioners,

But yeah,

I'm really looking forward to it because you are looking at moving to Hawke's Bay in the near future.

So what is your vision for Theta Healing in Hawke's Bay?

We know that Theta Healing gives great results to our clients and it's a very efficient modality that we use on ourselves every day.

So what is your vision for Theta Healing in Hawke's Bay?

Thank you,

I like that question.

So truly I'm looking into moving into Hawke's Bay,

I love it here very much and I feel really good.

I lived for 10 years in Taranaki and we have lots of amazing instructors and teachers there and the energy in the whole region is now changing and it's beautiful and I believe it's partially because of the work that Theta practitioners do there.

Theta Healing is,

I dare to say,

Unlimited.

So we can work from anything,

From psychic level,

Anything on material level,

It could be issue with finances,

With businesses,

With management,

With issues with family,

But also health issues.

I had good results with cancer,

Manic depression,

With bones issues,

Not regrowing the right way.

It all comes through,

You know,

Something has happened in the past which is creating what it's creating in the present moment.

So my vision is to bring more Theta Healing into Hawke's Bay and I have noticed that there are lots of different energies,

We have three cities next to each other,

Which is interesting in its own.

So creating a space where we all feel good and we can all bring our things into that place knowing that every time you work on yourself,

It's actually offering healing to this whole region.

There is plenty of opportunities and things we can look.

Something which is common all over the world is that we all want more abundance,

We want more joy and happiness,

Health and very less of lack.

And so,

You know,

Working with that what will allow us to move more into this abundance space.

Amazing.

Just amazing.

At the beginning of the program,

You said that you started traveling in search of happiness.

Yes.

Did you find it?

Yes.

Where did you find it?

Where or when?

Both.

I think it came step by step,

It wasn't from one day to another,

It was through,

I think the primary experience was when I lived in forest in the Ukraine,

Which allowed me to let beyond all the society issue and,

You know,

Work in the expectation and just be with myself and feeling the vibration of the heart and allowing me to feel actually the things which makes me happy,

Which until then I was more looking into fulfilling expectation and make life okay.

But life should be more than just okay,

It should be,

We should be dreaming,

We should live amazing,

Magical life full of potential and go even beyond constantly feeling inspired,

Okay,

What else can I do here on the planet?

You mentioned a whole bunch of modalities also.

Yes.

Now,

Has Theta Healing replaced all of those or are they complementary to each other?

Oh,

That's a beautiful question,

Thank you for that.

For me it's complementary,

So one of the things is that we are all unique and we all bring our own essence to things and even if you do Theta Healing,

You will still bring your own essence,

Your own previous study with it,

Into it and that's perfect.

So even though I have done all those modalities,

I still have passion for doing more in yoga and working with women's circle and so as I'm offering pure Theta Healing and teaching them,

I'm also doing combined work around that.

We have people using Theta Healing for working with animals,

We have amazing nurses,

We have politicians in some countries and they even in Dubai created Ministry of Peace because the minister has trained in Theta Healing,

She got fascinated and they have a way of how to value their members based on what kind of work they have created to bring more happiness and peace to the country,

Which I think is amazing.

That's amazing.

Yes.

Back to you,

Celine.

I'm just listening to Mishka and I'm feeling so inspired to just be in your space and your energy and I love the way you're explaining things.

I think that it's easy for us to just give words to complicated concepts like self-love and peace and happiness,

But it really is about the feeling,

Right,

The vibration within your heart,

What you want to achieve in life and how you want to wake up every single day feeling excited,

Joyful,

Peaceful,

Abundant and all of those things.

So this show is all about self-love and I would like you to tell us,

What is your version of self-love?

What does it feel like for you?

What is self-love to you?

What is self-love to me?

Kind of all goes hand in hand.

So as I was saying in the beginning of the journey,

There was looking for the joy and happiness and that's definitely part of the self-love.

But it took me on a path and it was more about observing how I feel or work or present myself in the world.

But with time,

That was just one part of it.

The other part is going in deeper inside into the heart and feeling what makes me,

What can I bring into the world just out of my own love.

And I started noticing that it goes hand in hand.

It's the one same thing.

So anything which makes me happy and excited,

Jolly,

That's the thing.

That's the thing.

And if I do it,

It brings me joy and love.

And then it doesn't feel like a work.

I can do it anytime.

I can work until three,

Four o'clock in the morning,

Sleep for an hour,

Wake up the next day and keep on going because that energy,

When you connect with your heart and you really follow what is in your heart,

It's so powerful.

It's so healing.

Like I was having also health issues,

But when I connected with my heart and followed what makes me excited,

Then I started healing.

So if I could give an example,

I would like to give a practical example.

So sometimes we want to start a business,

For example,

And you do things and it's kind of working really,

Really well.

And then you come across the problem and you want that business.

But there is this problem.

So your heart started moving from the excitement and joy in doing your business to the problem vibration.

Now that started shifting and instead of flowing with the heart vibration,

Which is helping you to co-create,

It's shifting you on that,

What is the problem?

So what I would do now is look at the problem from the space of heart,

Like how can I get excited about this problem?

So what can I.

.

.

That sounds crazy,

Right?

But it's really like,

If I learn it from this side and that side,

Then I can hear or understand way more abundance.

So I'm learning how to look at the problem from space of love.

And if I could do it instantly,

And I mean instantly,

Within sometimes minutes and seconds,

The problem is gone.

Somebody calls and says,

Oh,

I remember you saying this and this.

I can help you with that.

It can be so quick.

It can be so quick.

Until we meet again,

Thank you ladies for coming in.

Thank you.

And we look forward to seeing you again in the near future,

Mishka,

When you come to Hawkes Bay to live.

Thank you.