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Let Go Of What Is Not Serving You

by Eileen Rose Miles

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Meditation
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When you envision your most true and beautiful life... What does it look like? How do you feel? Who are you surrounded by? Now, shift your attention to your life now. Is there a gap? How do you need to evolve? Who is no longer helping you grow? What is no longer serving you? My friend, you are worthy of a life that is beautiful and fulfilling. Stop abandoning yourself and your dreams to please others.

Self InquirySelf LoveBoundariesBody ScanPersonal GrowthSelf WorthFulfillmentBoundary SettingBreathing AwarenessHeartLetting GoVisualizations

Transcript

Use your breath to slowly arrive in your body right here,

Dropping out of your mind,

Into your heart,

Into your being.

Slow breath in,

Slow exhale.

Inhale deeply,

Exhale release.

You can close the windows of your eyes if that feels okay.

Start to soften the muscles in your body,

Feeling this ease and inner peace wash over you.

Slow inhales,

Slower exhales,

Witnessing your mind wander,

And then gently pulling your attention back to this moment.

Feel the parts of you that are connected to whatever you're sitting on.

Notice your toes,

Your knees,

Soften your hips,

Your belly.

Feel the heart and the chest open and relax at the same time.

Release any tension you have in your hands,

Feel into your fingertips.

Feel the elbows drop and relax,

The shoulders soften.

Feel how your upper back holds you,

And how you can also soften right there.

Feel your neck and your jaw relax.

Soften the space between your eyebrows.

Feel this gentle awareness through every inch of your being.

Breathe in,

Exhale,

Really softening,

Reuniting with this version of you that is here.

As you sit here in the quiet of your own mind,

You remember all that you are.

Seeing clarity arise as you come back to what serves you,

And what no longer uplifts you.

Here,

In the quiet of your own mind,

You know.

You know what you need to let go of.

You know who you need to let go of.

Zaina Keithley writes,

Does it lead you closer to yourself,

Or does it pull you further away?

That's the question you always have to ask yourself.

Does it feel like self-love or self-abandonment?

Does it pour into your soul?

Right here,

See the life you envision for yourself.

The life that feels true and real and fulfilling.

The life that turns the mundane into magic.

What are you doing?

Who are you surrounded by?

What boundaries do you have in order to ensure that everything you engage with leads you closer to you?

How does your heart feel?

Hold on to this vision a little bit longer,

And now see where the gap is.

The you that is here now,

What can you choose?

What can you let go of that's not serving you?

My friend,

You owe it to yourself to have high standards and strong,

Strong boundaries.

May you take good care of this version of you.

May you choose yourself over everything.

Knowing what feels like an overwhelming yes,

And knowing what feels like an overwhelming no is so important.

It allows you to show up as your best self.

You are worthy of aligning with that vision,

The life that feels true and real and fulfilling.

Do not abandon yourself in order to please others.

Do not abandon yourself in order to please others.

Let that be your mantra.

Notice how you feel in this moment,

Choosing to be firm with your choices now.

Choosing to let go of anything that's not going to help you evolve,

And that could be someone.

May you be consistent in what your heart already knows is best for you.

Place your hand over your heart,

If that feels okay,

Really dropping into this space.

If your heart could speak on one reason why this boundary or this choice of letting go is the best route,

What would your heart say?

What would your heart remind you?

Stay close to your inner knowing.

Feel this shift of empowerment and clarity,

Worthiness.

Take a slow inhale,

Slower exhale.

From my heart to yours.

Meet your Teacher

Eileen Rose MilesBrighton, MI, USA

4.8 (735)

Recent Reviews

Jennifer

May 8, 2025

I really enjoy your slower pace, it gives me time to integrate what you are saying. Thank you very much.

Mariana

December 25, 2024

Lovely meditation to remind me of what’s important for me and specially, to understand what doesn’t serve me well anymore. Thank you 😊

Tim

June 13, 2024

Really lovely guided meditation, very gentle and and powering ✨🫢🏼🧘🏻🎧✨

Angela

May 22, 2024

What a lovely meditation. Such great reminders and questions for me to ask of myself. Thank you.

Monzur

May 10, 2024

I feel connected and nourished. Thanks so much that was an awesome practice!

Mary

April 19, 2024

This was familiar meditation. I loved. We are enough..

Marie

April 10, 2024

Calming and found it easier to let go of what needs to go for that inner peace that we get glimpses of. πŸ™πŸ»

Jon

April 7, 2024

Wow! This was exceptional! I felt like this was made for me, in this moment, thank you! It felt like a hug. With gratitude.

Kelly

March 28, 2024

I love the pauses she gives in her meditations allowing the mind to truly envision and process our thoughts.

Bill

March 12, 2024

Different than my usual. A relaxing way to start the day. Thanks!!

Jean

February 28, 2024

Thanks Eileen. This is exactly what I needed to hear today.

Billy

February 15, 2024

Beautiful. This was exactly what I needed to hear today.

Carole

February 15, 2024

A powerful practice and reminder of what I need to shed. Thank you.

Stacey

January 25, 2024

For me this is a gentle and wonderful reminder for the importance of self ❀️ . It brings awareness to being accountable for one’s actions in order for the creation of a fulfilling life. Thank you πŸ™πŸ» so much. This meditation was just what I needed to realign and guide me towards a new perspective in creating new solid boundaries for myselfπŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ˜˜. I repeated this meditation and wrote along in my journal πŸ“. Thank you again Eileen, this meditation shifted me this morning. πŸ’–πŸ’—πŸ’–

Linda

December 28, 2023

I will not abandon myself in order to please others. Thank you for that mantra! πŸŒŸπŸ™

Robert

December 22, 2023

A message which cleanly dovetails into my life now. Thank you 😊

Jeff

December 19, 2023

Thank you for a very inspiring meditation. I am my own worst enemy, often times, when it comes to making changes. I know those changes will help me to evolve and it is mostly fear that keeps me from letting go of what does not serve me as I am used to what does not serve me and letting go is new territory for me. But I will definitely work on this. I will listen to this meditation often.

Jay

November 9, 2023

This is absolutely beautiful and just what I needed to hear.. and I will most certainly listen again. And again.. Thank you πŸ™πŸ½

Vanessa

October 31, 2023

thank you Eileen for this incredible guidance and your influence in truly revealing the self. right before starting this meditation, i was about to multitask my way into tasks driven by external validation and people-pleasing. instead, i’m redirecting towards a heart-centered space, truly for myself β€” pausing and affording me the time to be with myself.

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