(Wk 11) Blind Spot Part 4 Of 5 - Unleash Your Peace

Hello and welcome back to Unleash Your Peace.

My name is Ali Shoja.

I am your host.

I am a positive mindset coach,

A personal transformation expert,

A deliberate creator,

And I am your peace trainer.

Now Unleash Your Peace is your peace training.

Every single week we pick a different topic about the internal world and we dive into that topic over the course of five episodes.

The episodes are super short and sweet,

Under 10 minutes each.

And that way every single day you have something uplifting,

Inspiring,

Thought-provoking to listen to first thing in the morning on your way to work,

On your walk,

And you can use that to go inward.

It is inside of you where your peace resides.

It's where your creativity resides.

It's where every answer to every question you have ever asked resides.

When we live from that place of joy and peace and connectedness to that greater,

Grander,

Infinite,

Non-physical part of us,

We don't just incrementally improve the quality of our lives.

We actually exponentially innovate every aspect of our experiences on this physical plane.

We level up in a major,

Major way.

We become whole.

We become powerful creators and we live the lives of our dreams and we inspire everyone around us to do the same.

And that is my wish for you.

That's my wish for everybody on this planet.

Now this week we're talking about blind spots.

Blind spots are those areas in your subconscious where you bury things that you don't want to look at.

And there are conflicting beliefs in there.

There are beliefs that get in your way.

There are pain and hurt.

However,

In order to get to where we want to go and live this life of peace and joy and true happiness,

Deep-seated happiness that is unshaken by anything that might be happening around you,

We do need to identify those damaging beliefs that we have buried inside of ourselves and release them.

Let them go.

They are not real.

They're not part of you.

And when we identify them and release them,

We can finally become our whole selves.

We can become who and what we truly are,

Which is powerful creators.

You are a powerful creator.

You create with your mind.

You create with your actions,

With your thoughts,

With your imagination.

You create with your creativity and your resourcefulness.

You create every moment of the day.

And sometimes there are beliefs that are buried in your blind spot that keep you from living your whole potential because somehow you feel unworthy,

You feel unlovable.

You have conflicting beliefs about the nature of money and the source of your fulfillment like we talked about the last few days.

Now today I want to talk about one very specific way,

A belief that is inside of your blind spot that you're not looking at tends to rear its head in your life,

In your everyday,

Right here in front of you.

And it looks you in the eye and says,

Hey,

Check me out.

I'm here.

I want to be released.

And this happens to us every single day.

It happens to us so often that we are literally face to face with something inside of us that is not right and that we want to release the nonphysical part of you.

Your inner being wants you to be rid of this.

This is one way.

The way we're going to talk about today is one way.

It puts that right front and center in front of your eyes,

But most of us still don't look at it.

Most of us still miss it.

And what is that?

The way our inner being communicates with us is through the world.

You see the people we encounter throughout our lives,

The people who come our way,

The situations that come our way that are attracted to us,

They are not at random.

These things don't happen at random.

They are responding to the energetic vibration,

To the frequency that we are putting out into the world.

Everything that comes back to you is a reflection of what you are putting out into the world.

We talk about this during our vibrational being week together.

So those episodes we talked about what law of attraction actually is and we use quantum physics to explain what law of attraction is.

All things all matter,

All physical things,

Your thoughts,

Your emotions,

Everything is energy and energy is both vibrational and it is also magnetic.

So something that we are putting out into the world that has a very specific vibrational signature will attract to itself that very same specific vibrational signature.

This is why they say if you want to achieve something,

If you want to do something,

If you want to receive something,

Feel yourself already in the having of it.

That is law of attraction 101.

So we understand that when it comes to manifestation.

Now we don't understand this,

We actually kind of ignore this reality,

This truth,

This law of attraction.

We ignore it completely when we are faced with a situation that shows to us something about ourselves that is in our blind spot.

Let me explain what I mean.

Have you ever had this happen to you where a friend,

A family member,

A coworker,

Somebody that you know pretty well comes up to you and says,

Oh my gosh,

I can't stand this person because they are so selfish and everything is just about them and I don't understand how they can live like this.

They just feel like they own my time and they expect me to do everything they say.

Don't they know that I have a life of my own and they go on and on and the entire time what you're thinking to yourself is you are describing yourself.

This is how you are.

Or someone else comes to you with whom you can't get a word in edgewise whenever you're talking to them and they complain about this other person who just talks so much that they can't get a word in edgewise and you're listening to this going,

Yeah,

I know how that feels because that's how I feel with you.

This is how you are.

It's very easy to recognize this in other people.

It's a lot harder.

It's actually very,

Very difficult to recognize it for ourselves.

When somebody gets under our skin,

We don't think that it has anything to do with us.

So that person complaining about the coworker or that friend complaining about this other person who talks too much,

They don't realize that they are actually describing themselves when they see all of those faults in the other person,

But they are describing themselves and it is getting under their skin.

The behavior is getting under their skin because it is a behavior that they innately know exists within themselves,

But it is in their blind spot.

It is in that area of the brain where they don't want to look at it because they have some kind of a complicated relationship with that.

They feel maybe embarrassed by it.

Maybe they have some guilt around it.

Maybe they have some shape around it or they just,

Whatever it is,

It does not make them feel good about themselves.

Now my friendships with my closest friends is very unique because whenever I come to them and I'm complaining about someone who is really getting under my skin,

Most friends will say,

Oh yeah,

That's really terrible.

My friends will say,

Oh Ellie,

That's really getting under your skin.

What about yourself?

Have you not forgiven?

And they really helped me turn that mirror onto myself and I tell you,

I've been doing this work for 15 years.

I've been going inward for 15 years and it still stings when I am in those situations where I have to say my feelings of annoyance,

Of frustration,

Of anger towards this person is really kind of over the top and what am I seeing in them that is within me that I don't want to look at?

And every time I have just set my ego aside,

Bit the bullet and answered that question and I have realized that there is some unforgiveness towards myself that this relationship is triggering because this person is actually here to help me heal whatever I have buried inside my blind spot,

Whatever I am not accepting about myself and whatever I am not liking about myself so that I can become more whole.

And I guarantee you,

If you're willing to go there,

If somebody is really bothering you right now and you are just so annoyed and frustrated and angry at this person,

You turn that mirror onto yourself and you say,

What is it about myself that this person is triggering that I need to forgive?

The easiest way to answer that question is to listen to your own words.

How are you describing that person?

Usually as hard as it is to hear that,

That is what you are embarrassed about or have shame about or have guilt about or have unforgiveness about yourself.

So this week has really become kind of a series of hard tasks for you.

If you are willing to look at and find those beliefs that are hidden in your blind spot,

Not as easy task to do,

But I can guarantee you it is so rewarding to do this work,

To release whatever you have hidden and buried inside your blind spot.

You don't have to carry those things that you feel shame and guilt around for much longer.

So just identify them,

Bite the bullet.

Your ego is going to want to fight you on this.

It is going to make you feel like you can't go there,

But you can go there.

And if you need a little bit of handholding,

You need a little bit of help talking through and working through these things,

You can always reach out to me.

You can find me at peaceunleashed.

Com.

That's my website.

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Check out Instagram and find peace unleashed on there.

These are love notes I share with you every single day and they are meant to uplift and inspire you.

So until tomorrow,

Until we come back and conclude this very important topic of blind spots,

I wish you a peaceful day.