Ego & The Enneagram - by Lauren Calder

COURSE

Ego & The Enneagram

With Lauren Calder

This course is intended for anyone who would like to understand how their ego may be getting in the way of the true expression of who they are. themselves and others better and especially At first glance, the Enneagram might look like just another “personality system”: A set of descriptions about character traits. But the system is much deeper than that. It was designed to be used as a tool for not only insight - but understanding and action too. In this course I will introduce you to the dynamics of each enneagram personality type and I will cover how these dynamics may have initially been formed in childhood. This will really deepen your understanding of how these processes play out within yourself. This course is designed to not only introduce you to the enneagram system, but also to help you to recognise and address core fears, motivations and attachments. Learning about how each type has its own set of attitudes, reactions, blind spots and defences can aid you in seeing why you may be having challenges in your happiness and/or relationships. Insight is fundamental to personal growth and to cultivating patience toward others. By the end of this course, you will have more awareness of your own ego and “lens on the world”. It will also give you an understanding of the “lens” of others, their attitudes and reactions. This will develop the scope of your ability to understand, be compassionate and have patience in your interactions and relationships. The concepts presented in this course are drawn from the fileds of psychology and transpersonal psychology in combination with the teachings of Richard Rohr, Don Riso, Russ Hudson, Jeremy Wagner, Ginger Lapido-Bogda. Join me on this introductory workshop as we explore the fundamentals of the Enneagram system. You will benefit from a having a pen and notebook handy to take some notes as some of the concepts are complex. This course is the pre-requisite to the follow up Ego & The Ennegaram courses for couples, parents and growth strategies.


Meet your Teacher

Lauren has been practicing as a psychologist since 2005. She completed a specialization in Transpersonal Psychology which led her to discover the Enneagram. Lauren was first introduced to the Enneagram in 2007. In 2017, after 10 years of working with it in her own life, as a tool for personal growth and reflection, she began creating content for Enneagam workshops that she believed would be useful to the clients in her pratice. Courses include content related to an ntroduction to the Enneagram, the Enneagram in child ego development, the Ennegram in relationship building and repair, the Enneagram in parenting and the Enneagram pathways to growth for further development. Lauren is dedicated to her work helping people adjust, face their challenges and live in alignment with their dreams, values, meaning and sense of purpose. In other words: their authetic self. If you are not already familiar with the Enneagram it will be very useful for you to search on google images for an "Enneagram diagram" to refer to whilst listening.

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5 Days

1.2k students

4.9 stars

18 min / day

Authenticity

English


Lesson 1

An Introduction To Ego And The Enneagram

Lesson 1 covers an overview of the Enneagram: its origins, philosophy, and basic premises. This will give you a sense of the system, whether or not you resonate with it, and if you feel that it is something that you can relate to or that will be useful for you in your life. You will also be introduced to a general view of the needs of the 9 personality types. This will give you a feel for which one(s) may apply most to you and will start you on your journey toward greater self-insight. If you are not already familiar with the Enneagram it will be very useful for you to search on google images for an "Enneagram diagram" to refer to whilst listening.

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Lesson 2

How Fear, Anger And Shame Shape The Ego

Lesson 2 is a discussion on how and why we develop a personality strategy or EGO and a little about how fear, anger and shame can shape how our ego is formed. We will explore the three centres of intelligence (thinking, feeling and doing) and you will have an opportunity to reflect on how these reactivities feature and impact in your own life.

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Lesson 3

The Development Of Ego Strategies From Childhood

In Lesson 3 we look at how each personality type presents in childhood. Firstly we will look at how this creates a lens through which the child perceives the world. After that we will look at how this is impacted by disappointments and challenges as the child grows up. We will explore how each personality type deals with and reacts to difficulty differently - and how this informs their ego strategy as they grow up.

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Lesson 4

Ego Formation, Reactivities And Focus Of Attention

Because the world is not a perfect place, We have all had the experience of disappointment in childhood. In lesson 4 we delve a little deeper into the impact of disappointment on our personality development when we were younger. We explore how each personality type reacts differently to disappointment and how fear, anger and/or shame may manifest from these reactions and play out in our lives.

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Lesson 5

Navigating The Adult Ego

In lesson 5, we discuss how each of the personality patterns play out in day to day adult life. We look at the overall spectrum of healthy and unhealthy manifestations of each personality pattern and the pathways of integration and disintegration for each type.

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4.9 (50)

Recent Reviews

Anne

December 20, 2025

Interesting and informative course. Looking forward to the next course

Molly

March 12, 2025

Incredibly generous And highly effective

Alain

February 2, 2025

Thank you for this course. It's an inspiring introduction to enneagram types. It gives keys to go more in depth with this framework and with our parts. ❤️ And with other new framework as IDGs Warm regards Thank you

May

July 11, 2024

Excellent, clear information!

Jenn

October 3, 2023

Very insightful and clearly laid out! I would love to know some practical steps for different numbers/ personality types to use to grow when they are in a state of disintegration. I will be recommending this course to a few people. I loved it and felt like I came away with a little bit more knowledge about my self. Thank you!

Alexandra

September 17, 2023

Very good class ! Thanks

Kendra

September 12, 2023

Excellent!

Jane

September 12, 2023

Excellent introduction to the different aspects of the enneagram. Just the right balance of information and also easy to revisit a lesson to hear it again as new thoughts emerge. Thank you 🙏

Ruth

September 10, 2023

Very informative

Tracy-Michelle

September 9, 2023

I am very interested in learning more 🙏

Shawn

September 6, 2023

It is a lot of information, I have the essential Enneagram book by David Daniels and Virginia price. I will take your course again, integrating the book and the information in this course😊 I feel bits and pieces of me in many of the numbers, but have narrowed it down to a number eight, one and two? I look forward to taking the course again❤️

Michelle

August 31, 2023

Thank you 🙏

Shea

July 29, 2023

Very informative and helpful. Well laid out and easy to follow.

Sheila

July 2, 2023

I enjoyed this review of the Enneagram. I’ve been aware of it for decades and have attended many conferences and workshops. It’s been so helpful in my growth. It was so helpful when I discovered that my husband was a Nine. Suddenly it explained his behaviour. He’d walk away from an argument and I’d be so frustrated. I’m a One with a Nine wing and self pres. He was a Nine with a One wing and also Self Pres. We were married for 63 years and five months (less two days) and he passed away six months ago. I miss him so much. Fortunately, we had a wonderful twenty years of retirement together. 💔💕

David

June 24, 2023

Thanks Lauren,

Jennifer

June 19, 2023

Very informative. I listened with my kids to parts.

John

May 29, 2023

Great overview!

Maitri

April 10, 2023

I look forward to a live. Jung and tarot may appeal more tho I am interested in Richard Rohr who she says uses but never mentioned. I am checking out his book. Many thanks.

Sonia

April 9, 2023

This was very helpful for me on my journey.

Karen

March 28, 2023

A lot of info, but enjoyed learning it

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