Everybody deserves a second chance.
Don't condemn the initial reaction whether it's yours or someone else's.
The initial reaction is the programmed subconscious nervous system that reacts habitually.
Everybody deserves to meet with you and you deserve to meet others and the first thing,
The first resonance is the state.
Whether emotional state,
Physical state,
What your diet is like,
What the other person's diet is like.
Are you guys in traffic?
What type of environment is it?
What type of meeting is it?
Maybe you're gonna meet somebody half a year from now.
They're gonna be a different person.
They deserve a second chance.
You're a different person.
You deserve a second chance because we are so malleable.
We are so flexible.
We are so ever-changing,
Ever-growing,
Ever-moving,
Ever-flowing creatures of watery fascia and other substances.
80% ideally 80% water and the initial thing is the adaptation to the other person.
It's the second reaction that is conscious.
It's the second reaction that you actually choose how you want to respond.
That other people choose how they want to respond and this is what you look for.
This is what you,
This is who the other person actually is and this is who you truly are and we need to be gentle with ourselves and others to know that we need time to adjust to one another,
To open up.
This is where we go from the anger reaction to sadness.
If you are frustrated,
If other people are frustrated,
That's gonna be the initial reaction and then if the second reaction,
The one that we can choose,
Both us and the other people,
If that reaction is lowering the fire,
If that reaction is going into sadness or humility or kindness,
Ultimately peace,
Meeting at the same level,
Then okay we're there.
We're there.
Humility and love.
It's because we all want connection but we're traumatized and in stress and the body reacts violently with judgment and the eyes conclude fast.
So locked eyes are traumatic,
Traumatized eyes.
Traumatized and curious eyes are healthy eyes.
So if we are curious and looking for that second reaction from people and always kind of ignoring the first thing because they might be surrounded by others which are in the same lack or frustration or they just got off a job or something,
Traffic,
Food,
Circumstances in the world,
In their life and it takes time to adjust,
We're stuck in habitual patterns and breathing patterns.
Everybody deserves a second chance where they can choose after assessing the situation and calming down.
Then basically everybody,
We're all gentle inside.
We're all kind.
We all want the connection.
However,
We're not aware to the point of so much patience and time,
Most of the people,
To give time to regulate in between things.
It's stimulation after stimulation after stimulation.
It's food.
It's doing something.
It's going there.
It's another food.
It's a drink.
It's an energy drink.
It's a phone.
It's the phone.
It's the phone.
It's society.
We need to slow down and give ourselves time.
Give ourselves time.
Give ourselves a second chance and when we have that space,
We won't lash out.
We won't guard and that's the same with me.
That's the same with everyone.
Let's slow down and let's give that second chance to everything and everyone.
Peace,
Health,
Abundance,
Wholeness.
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