Advancing the way you relate to others.
I want to share with you some spiritual guidance that I was given at the time of finding it quite difficult to relate to a certain person.
We just attempt to clash and trigger each other.
And as I went into a sacred space to ask for guidance,
Within me was an inner knowing,
An inner intuition.
Of understanding a very advanced,
Simplistic,
But wise way of relating.
Beyond the analytical and the psychological,
There is an advanced spiritual way of relating.
The ancient ones,
The indigenous ones,
That were so connected to their own source and an infinite source,
Could see they had insight.
And in our modern world we've separated from our own insight,
An ability to see beyond.
Instead we get stuck and we see what is.
Often the external issue.
Often we don't recognise our own healing,
Our own pain or internal wounds.
Now I was told that any trigger is an indicator of something that needs healing in you.
And we've forgotten how to own or take responsibility for our own emotions.
So in order to advance the way you relate to others is to see beyond the situation,
Is to see the person,
Is to see the purity of the person,
The spirit.
And rise beyond the situation is quite a tall order to take responsibility,
To know that every emotion is yours,
Not someone else's.
To breathe in and out several times,
To release the intensity of your feelings and mind and body and spirit.
And when you see the person beyond the situation there's peace and there is ease and it allows a space for an energy to fill you with compassion.
And from there you can discern your own movement.
Your space is sacred,
The way you communicate is sacred.
Most of our communication is non-verbal,
It comes from our mind,
Body and spirit and is received non-verbally by the other person.
And so when you begin to think and to feel and to see in a way that the highest source within you sees beyond the situation,
Beyond the pain,
Beyond the hurt,
Beyond the conflict.
Then your non-verbal communication is less conflictual and has an energy of peace and creates a different outcome.
You choose how you relate,
You choose what you think and what you feel and what you see and you choose who comes in your sacred space and where you position them.
And we all have a right to give and receive within the realms of our own values,
Ethos and ethics.
So today in the advancement of how you relate to others,
Your personal ownership and responsibility to know that all of your relationships is for you to retreat into.
To discern your ability to rise beyond and above.
And to understand what your movement is.
In gaining the clarity to what needs to transform within yourself.
Only then can you truly advance the way you relate to others.