Truly Eleanor

I've been a coach and healer since 2008. You may know me as the Intuitive Dating Coach and host of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. For the last eight years I showed up specifically for women navigating love after 40. That work was real, it mattered, and it came from the deepest part of me. And now something deeper is calling. I’m a Writer and Healer with boots on the ground. And this is my next chapter: reflections on finding my way through midlife, and back home to my true self. Here's what I know after nearly two decades of coaching women through their most tender and transformative moments: the real journey was never about finding the right man. It was always about finding yourself. Learning to trust your own voice. Recognising your worth without needing anyone else to confirm it. Coming home to who you were before the world told you who to be. That work continues here. Only now I'm doing it alongside you, on the page, out loud, without a filter. I write from the heart-wrenching and joyful space of self-discovery. The messy middle. The quiet revelations. The moments where everything falls apart and somehow, beautifully, something truer emerges. If you're a woman in midlife wondering who you are on the other side of everything you've been through, you're in exactly the right place. So if you're ready for an adventure and a soft place to land, welcome.

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