Envy And Social Comparison: Find Your Next Step - by Jon Brooks

COURSE

Envy And Social Comparison: Find Your Next Step

With Jon Brooks

Envy is uncomfortable, so we tend to hide it, judge it or turn it against ourselves. This course looks directly at envy, jealousy and social comparison. Drawing in part on Alain de Botton's philosophical psychology, you will learn how malicious envy works, separate useful information from the story built around it, and choose a better response. You will still compare sometimes. The practice is noticing it sooner, protecting your self-worth and deciding what, if anything, the feeling is asking you to do.


Meet your Teacher

Jon Brooks is a meditation teacher, writer and long-term practitioner of Stoicism. His work focuses on closing the gap between understanding philosophical ideas and using them in daily life. In this course, he examines envy, jealousy and social comparison through philosophy and practical reflection.

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3 Days

491 students

4.7 stars

8 min / day

Clarity

English


Lesson 1

Why Envy Is So Hard To Admit

Envy is not one simple emotion. This lesson distinguishes malicious envy, which can pull us towards resentment, from forms of comparison that can reveal something we value. You will examine why envy is uncomfortable to admit, notice the goal hidden inside a comparison, and begin separating useful information from the urge to diminish yourself or someone else.

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Lesson 2

When Envy Turns Malicious

This lesson looks at what changes when comparison becomes malicious envy. Using familiar stories and psychological ideas, it explores why envy often attaches to people we see as peers, how frustration can turn into resentment, and why wanting what someone has is different from wanting them to lose it. The aim is to spot that turn earlier and choose a response that does less damage.

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Lesson 3

Use Comparison As Information

Alain de Botton's Envy Diary offers a practical way to study comparison rather than obey it. In this lesson, you will record a moment of envy, identify the precise quality or outcome that caught your attention, and look for a pattern across repeated reactions. The result is not limitless motivation. It is a clearer question: does this feeling point to a value worth pursuing, or a story you can release?

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Recent Reviews

Barbara

October 14, 2025

Much food for thought in this short yet highly insightful course. Nice to discover this old dog (me) can learn some new helpful tricks! Thank you Jon for sharing your wisdom. 🙏🏻🌸

YannTyng

August 9, 2025

Refreshingly honest and so needed, and a much more empowering way to view envy as a human experience and to turn it into something useful than to demonise or ignore it. Thank you for this. It is so rare to hear someone dive into this topic.

Howard

May 17, 2025

Excellent

Sandy

April 6, 2025

Awesome course ⚡️💫Thanks 🙏🏻🦋

Drew

March 31, 2025

Brief in time but not concept, excellent insights and prompting for way more than I expected personal reflection and discovery. Super worthy and helpful. Thank you 🙏🏻💕✨🌴

Val

March 13, 2025

Great insights and truly inspiring ❤️

Torie

February 7, 2025

Keep them coming. Love your courses. Warmly Torie

Brady

January 16, 2025

Started my envy journal! Great tip and even better course.

Kimberly

November 29, 2024

Straight and to the point and quite thought provoking. Thank you.

Mark

August 7, 2024

Yeah I really loved the new perspective on envy this course offers, feels like a really useful reframe that I’ve never considered before or heard anywhere else. I’ll definitely be paying more attention to the next time I feel envious!

Hans

July 26, 2024

This is absolutley transformative. Thank you so much Jon! 🪷

Anne

April 15, 2024

Very useful course. Will be journalling as reccomend Ed and looking forward to results

Karen

April 12, 2024

Jon--your courses present an opportunity for deep thought and reflection that enables informed expression. I truly appreciate it all.

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