12 Themes Of Transformation

You are transforming.

The world is going through a huge transformation right now.

We are moving out of an old paradigm and into a new one and each of us is being required to transform on a personal level.

In this talk I'd like to share with you the 12 most common themes of transformation that are arising for many people at this time.

The first theme is self-love.

Self-love was not even a concept when I was growing up.

It was introduced to me through the work of Louise Hay but it is still something that we each must work on because we've not been programmed for it.

Unless you have love and respect for yourself you will never treat yourself as worthy of all the things you need in order to grow and transform and so you will stay stuck in a low vibration and not reach your full potential both internally and outwardly.

Self-love is not an indulgence.

It is a necessity at this time.

If you're not feeling much love in your life it is a mirror of the lack of love you have within yourself.

The second transformational theme I see going on is allowing your heart to lead you and not your head.

Listening to your heart and developing your own inner guidance system on a regular basis.

Allowing a few minutes every day if you can to feel into your heart and to say to your heart I'm listening.

And don't be concerned if nothing comes to you.

That's not the point.

You are creating some space to listen to your heart.

Your heart has intelligence.

The ancients knew this and your heart will be so grateful for your return because the way we live on this earth right now the heart has been overlooked.

The head has taken over.

The world out there is noisy and busy and often heartless and unless you attend to listening to your own heart you will by default listen to others and there are many fearful others out there.

By listening to your heart regularly your inner voice will become stronger than all the voices out there and when it does that is when you know you are mastering your life.

The third theme I'm seeing is about staying true to your truth and speaking your truth.

So many of us learned that it was not okay to listen to ourselves and it was not okay to speak up for ourselves.

Sometimes we were admonished or punished if we spoke out.

Sometimes we were just ignored so we thought what's the point?

Women,

Minority groups,

Certain races have not been encouraged to express themselves or even punished for doing so.

And so often it's the ones who could really make a difference who are the ones who are afraid to express themselves.

But every human being here on earth right now is here to find their truth and to express it in whatever way they feel guided to.

It may be in relationships or in a work situation.

It may be like me and so many others on a platform of some kind.

Do not play small.

We all have something to contribute and you are a very important part of the universal whole.

The fourth theme I'm seeing is going through relationship challenges.

We are all here to learn about love,

What love is and what love is not and we learn about love through our relationships.

The universal law of love deems that all is healed and transformed for the better through love.

Love is acceptance,

Love is kindness and compassion,

Love is forgiveness and relationships get better and better through the healing power of love.

The more we can love ourselves and heal ourselves the better our relationships become because every relationship is a reflection of the love we have or haven't got for ourselves.

And sometimes our self-love deems it is best to leave certain relationships that are not honoring to us.

The fifth theme is discernment.

Discernment takes presence and it takes awareness.

Be mindful as to who you listen to and what you expose yourself to.

If a person,

Place or situation is bringing you down pay attention.

Part of the journey of transformation will involve moving on from certain people or groups,

Jobs,

Places or situations.

Listen to your feelings.

Many people feel guilty or disloyal when it comes to being true to themselves and their own feelings.

We are entering into a new paradigm and it's about being true to ourselves and honoring ourselves.

Theme number six is believing in not enough.

Whether it's not enough time,

Not enough money,

Not enough energy,

Not enough opportunities or that you are not enough.

This is all based on our old belief systems of lack and scarcity.

If your outward reality is one of not enough,

This is an inside job,

Not an outside job.

Theme number seven is transcending victim consciousness.

If you are still blaming anybody or anything then to some degree you are still in victim consciousness.

Most of us have some level of victim in us because we contain energy from past traumas.

Some of them from this life,

Some may be from our ancestors or even past lives where we have been victims.

We've probably also been persecutors.

The victim persecutor pattern is very old.

We see it playing out in the world stage right now.

It's really being magnified.

We may not entirely transcend the victim consciousness this lifetime but I encourage you to stay aware of it and to keep working on it.

Resentment,

Blame,

Judgment,

Criticism will keep your vibration low and in a very disempowered state.

You can transcend this pattern by taking responsibility for your life and knowing that you are the power in your life.

Do not give your power away to toxic emotions or toxic difficult people.

Stay in your power through love,

Acceptance,

Forgiveness and taking the right actions you need to take for yourself.

Theme number eight is patience.

Our ego gets very attached to the timing of things.

The ego thinks it knows when something should happen but the universe is in charge of the timing of everything.

The universe is actually in charge of everything.

The ego refuses to accept this.

It wants to impose its timing.

I'm ready it shouts to the universe.

It is the ego that creates our suffering and our frustration.

If you have a big slow truck in front of you that won't get out of the way,

It has been sent to you by the universe to teach you patience and acceptance.

If you dearly want something to happen in your life,

To meet your soulmate,

To have success,

To have abundance,

To get well or whatever it is,

If it's not here yet,

It's not meant to be here yet.

This doesn't mean it's not going to come to fruition.

Just remember when fruit is ripe it falls from the tree by itself.

Frustration is created by the ego mind that refuses to accept things as they are,

Refuses to have faith in something greater,

Refuses to accept the universal law of process and the universal law of timing.

Anything worth having will take a process to getting there and the timing is already built into the process.

Theme number nine is sole purpose which is about doing what you came here to do.

Sole purpose is being activated in many people right now because of a lot of us are awakening and at some point on the awakened path you're likely to become disenchanted with certain elements of your life including what you do for a living if it's not in alignment with your soul.

Wanting something more,

A sense of meaning,

A wish to contribute in a way that truly fulfills you,

Makes a difference or a contribution and feeling more joy in your life because your life has purpose and meaning.

Finding and activating your sole purpose is a process.

It begins with wanting something more but maybe you don't know what it is.

Continue to meditate and to live your life purposefully.

Trust in the universal law of process and the universal law of timing.

Purpose actually finds you as much as you find it and if you know what your purpose is but do not know how you can make it happen,

Trust that the universe will not only give you the idea,

It will pave the way to making it happen if you commit to the path.

Theme number 10 is detachment.

This is a very big theme going on for all of us right now.

Become aware of your need to control circumstances.

Sometimes we have to get out of the way,

To let go of control,

To stop micromanaging life,

To stay neutral,

To let go and surrender because there is a greater power in charge.

We must remember the serenity prayer on a regular basis which is God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

Courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.

The universal law of detachment deems that when we detach we allow the universe which is the highest power and intelligence to enter but if we are overly attached this higher power cannot create the manifestation or the miracle that is needed.

Theme number 11 is flexibility.

Flexibility is the opposite of rigidity.

The world is changing fast.

We must become more flexible.

We can become rigid in our thoughts,

Rigid in our beliefs,

Rigid in our daily routines,

Rigid in how things should be done,

How things should manifest but rigidity does not allow growth.

So many people are living life rigidly with an armor of rigid belief systems which create judgment and an unwillingness to change.

This armor creates the them and us mentality and while of course it is a good thing to live your life according to your values,

Don't become rigid.

Value systems can change through different life experiences.

They certainly have for me.

So allow yourself to soften and to remain flexible in body,

Mind and spirit.

I noticed that when I began doing yoga about 25 years ago not only did my body become more flexible but so did my mind.

So become aware of being rigid in your body because so often people who are rigid in their body are rigid in their minds too.

The philosopher Lao Tzu's concept of what is soft is strong suggests that flexibility and yielding are more powerful than rigidity and strength.

And finally theme number 12,

Faith and trust.

If you suffer from anxiety or you worry a lot the lesson is about having faith and trust.

The universe,

The supreme intelligence is not separate from you.

In my talk here on Insight Timer Embracing Flow I say that you are a part of the supreme intelligence and it is a part of you.

Through regular meditation you begin to just know that you are a part of this divine matrix of love,

Oneness,

Peace and abundance.

Here on this earth plane everything is as it should be.

Yes there is suffering,

War,

Inequality,

Hatred,

Division,

Starvation but there is a universe far greater and more powerful than this plane of separation and suffering.

The universe or divine source or God or whatever you wish to call this is love and when you connect with that and witness the power of it and the gifts it brings you,

Your faith and trust will grow.

So consciously work on having faith and trust because you are not alone.

There is a force far greater than yourself that wants to take you into the light.

Consistent meditation and other inner practices as well as divine right action taken over time will build a solid foundation of faith and trust and this will take you off the matrix of struggle and fear and scarcity that exists in this 3D world.

Having faith and trust is a process,

It's not a quick fix but you will get there.

Faith will take you to far greater places than fear ever will.

I'm Nicole Bayliss,

Thank you for listening.

If this talk resonates with you,

You may wish to explore my courses and meditations here on Insight Timer.

Wishing you love,

Light and blessings.