Lesson 1
Why Your Mind Narrows Under Stress
This opening lesson explains why attention narrows under stress, an old protective response that filters out almost everything not related to the current difficulty. It draws on research showing that positive emotion does the opposite, widening attention and building resources, and introduces the central idea of the course: deliberately widening attention without denying that difficulty is real. Listeners are guided through a brief, practical widening exercise they can use immediately.
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Lesson 2
Noticing Without Pretending
This lesson addresses a common worry head-on: that noticing positive moments somehow minimises real difficulty. It distinguishes forced positivity, which asks difficulty to disappear, from realistic noticing, which simply widens attention to include more of what is actually present alongside the difficulty. Listeners are offered three practical tools: using language that holds both things at once, a short permission phrase, and recognising the reflex of guilt that often follows noticing something good.
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Lesson 3
The Weekly Practice Of Noticing
This lesson teaches a structured weekly practice for deliberately gathering positive moments rather than hoping to notice them by chance. It offers a simple set of prompting categories to make the gathering easier than starting from a blank page, addresses what to do on weeks where the practice feels genuinely hard, and adds a brief reflection step to turn the practice from a record into something that can shape the week ahead. Listeners are guided to choose their own fixed weekly moment and try the full practice this week.
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Lesson 4
Three Good Things
This lesson teaches a well-studied daily technique: writing down three specific things that went well each evening, along with a brief reflection on why each one happened. It explains why the why matters nearly as much as the noticing itself, distinguishes this daily practice clearly from the weekly practice in the previous lesson, and sets realistic expectations about what this technique reliably achieves. Listeners are guided to try the full practice this evening.
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Lesson 5
The Difference Between Noticing And Savouring
This lesson clarifies the distinction between noticing, a brief, retrospective practice, and savouring, a slower, deliberate practice of deepening attention during a positive moment as it happens. It explains why each suits different situations, offers a practical guide for choosing between them, and teaches a simple introductory savouring exercise. Listeners are encouraged to try savouring once today, in an ordinary, likely moment, rather than waiting for something rare.
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Lesson 6
Expressing What You Notice To Someone Else
This lesson explains why expressing noticed moments to another person tends to deepen their effect beyond private noticing alone, drawing on research comparing different gratitude practices. It explores how expression adds specificity and strengthens relationships, and offers three practical options: direct, in-the-moment expression, a more deliberate weekly message, and writing an unsent expression for someone who cannot be reached directly. It addresses the discomfort that can come with expressing appreciation openly.
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Lesson 7
Noticing On The Hardest Days
This lesson addresses what the noticing practice looks like on a genuinely difficult day, when even finding one positive moment can feel impossible. It explains why the bar for the practice needs to be significantly lowered these days, distinguishes this from forced positivity, and acknowledges that some days will produce nothing at all. It offers a practical shift toward reaching out to someone else when solitary noticing feels out of reach, and reassures listeners that the hardest days are not when this practice does its most work.
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Lesson 8
What Gets In The Way Of Noticing
This lesson identifies three common, everyday obstacles to the noticing practice: guilt, busyness, and a habit of minimising one's own positive experiences while readily acknowledging others'. Each obstacle is explained with its likely underlying logic and given a specific, practical response, including attaching the practice to an existing daily routine and a direct test for spotting unconscious double standards. Listeners are guided to identify their own most frequent obstacle and address it specifically this week.
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Lesson 9
Building This Into An Ordinary Week
This lesson addresses how to build the tools covered across the course into a realistic, sustainable weekly rhythm. It offers three steps: choosing only two or three favourite tools rather than attempting everything at once, attaching each one to an existing daily routine, and deciding in advance what a minimal, scaled-down version looks like for harder weeks. It explains why a consistent, smaller practice outperforms an ambitious one that is attempted briefly and then abandoned, and encourages an occasional check-in to ensure the chosen tools still fit current circumstances.
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Lesson 10
A More Balanced View
The final lesson of the course takes the longer view, returning to the opening idea that attention narrows under stress as a normal, protective response. It clarifies that the aim was never to stop this narrowing permanently, but to build a reliable way to widen attention back out afterwards, and it reframes a more balanced view as one that holds both difficulty and good in their actual proportions, rather than as a constantly positive state. The lesson closes with a final reflection on the distance travelled and a warm send-off.
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