Welcome.
Today we're practicing Tonglen,
An ancient Tibetan meditation that invites us to open our hearts to suffering,
Both our own and the world's,
And to breathe compassion into being.
As Pema Chodron says,
Tonglen reverses the usual logic of avoiding suffering and seeking pleasure.
In this process,
We begin to feel love for both ourselves and others.
In this practice,
We breathe in suffering,
Not to hold it or be consumed by it,
But to acknowledge it fully and meet it with a heart wide enough to hold it.
And with each exhale,
We send out spaciousness,
Ease,
And kindness.
This practice can be especially powerful when we're feeling helpless or overwhelmed by the pain in the world or in ourselves.
It transforms resistance into connection and fear into love.
Through daily Tonglen practice,
We train the mind to embrace discomfort with compassion,
Gradually dissolving self-centeredness,
And awakening our innate capacity for empathy and connection.
So let's begin.
I'll invite you to find a comfortable position,
Allowing your body to rest and settle into this moment.
Gently closing down your eyes if that feels safe and supportive.
Taking a few slow,
Steady breaths.
Inhaling through the nose and exhaling softly through the mouth.
Let your breath be a quiet tide,
Rising and falling.
No need to force or change anything.
Just notice.
Just be.
Now bringing to mind a situation,
Either your own or someone else's,
That carries suffering.
It could be physical pain,
Grief,
Fear,
Loneliness.
Let your heart choose something that doesn't feel too overwhelming in this moment.
Beginning to breathe in the feeling of that suffering as if you're breathing it in through your heart.
Imagine it as a dark,
Heavy cloud.
And with each inhale,
You breathe it in bravely.
You make space for it.
You say,
I allow this.
And as you exhale,
Imagine sending out relief,
Light,
Softness,
A balm of compassion flowing from your heart to the pain.
Breathe in suffering.
Breathe out compassion.
Inhale,
Taking in the pain with courage.
Exhale,
Sending out comfort,
Warmth,
Healing.
If this ever feels too heavy,
You can return to your breath.
Let it cleanse and hold you.
You're not fixing,
Only offering space and love.
Now I'll invite you to widen your circle.
Breathe in for all those who feel the same kind of pain.
You are not alone,
And neither are they.
Inhale for the collective hurt.
Exhale,
Collective care.
Let your heart grow vast enough to hold it all.
Inhaling collective pain.
Exhaling collective compassion.
Taking one final breath of the black cloud into you deeply.
Breathing out compassion,
Care,
And love.
Noticing how you feel.
Gently bring your awareness back to your body.
Wiggling your fingers and toes.
Noticing the ground beneath you.
The breath within you.
And fluttering open your eyes as you're ready.
You've practiced deep courage today.
The courage to stay open.
If you'd like to journal or reflect after this practice,
Consider the following prompts.
What did I feel while breathing in suffering?
What did I offer as I breathed out compassion?
How do I feel after this practice?
Feel free to share your reflections or experiences with today's Tonglen meditation in the comments.
An affirmation to try on for today is,
I am brave enough to love.
Thank you,
Brave one,
For showing up in such a powerful way today.
This practice has cumulative benefits if practiced daily or often.
So I hope to meet you back here again soon.
Until then,
Take good care.
