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Cultivating Self Appreciation

by Amy Pattee Colvin

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In order to extend compassion to yourself and others, you must begin with a foundation of self-appreciation and self-acceptance. Rather than being egotistical, self-acceptance means being able to be fully at ease with yourself at all times—when you succeed and when you make mistakes. A sense of self-acceptance that allows you to say for yourself, “I like me; I’m a good person” and truly mean it.

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Transcript

Welcome to this meditation on cultivating self-acceptance.

Begin by finding a comfortable position.

Choose a posture that allows you to relax while remaining awake and alert.

Now let's take a series of long deep breaths all the way into the belly.

Begin by taking a slow,

Gentle breath in through the nose.

And as you inhale,

Draw your breath all the way down to the bottom of your abdomen.

And when you've reached full capacity,

Release the breath slowly and fully without forcing it.

As you breathe out,

Imagine that along with all the tensions in your body,

You are also clearing your mind of any worries,

Anxiety,

Or stories that may be present.

Continue with this process of breathing deeply into the belly for a few more breaths.

Now bring your awareness to the level of your heart.

Notice how this area gently expands as you breathe in and how it relaxes as you breathe out.

For a few breaths,

Imagine inhaling directly into the center of your heart.

Imagine exhaling directly out from the heart.

Visualize at your heart glowing embers of a warm,

Inviting fire.

Allow the warmth to fill your chest.

And after the chest is warm and relaxed,

Let that warmth and radiance flow through the rest of your body.

After your body is filled with that warm glow,

Imagine that as you breathe out,

You extend the warm light out from the center of your heart.

Imagine this warm glow expanding outward as you exhale,

Surrounding your body with warmth,

Peace,

Happiness,

And vital energy.

This warm light carries all of your feelings of self-acceptance and self-kindness.

Imagine seeing the world around you from the internal kindness and acceptance of your heart.

Now bring to mind something you appreciate about yourself.

It could be a personal quality,

Something you've achieved,

Or a kindness you've extended to someone.

Take a moment to acknowledge this aspect of yourself.

Notice how it feels in your body when you think about appreciating yourself.

How does your face feel,

Your neck and shoulders,

Your stomach and your heart?

Really open your heart and deepen your awareness of the physical sensations in your body and connect them to this sense of self-appreciation.

Then silently repeat for yourself,

I am safe.

I am at ease.

I am kind to myself and accept myself as I am.

I am filled with peace and joy.

Now bring to mind something you appreciate about your life.

It could be an experience,

A relationship,

An everyday pleasure,

Or an opportunity for which you are grateful.

Take a moment to feel gratitude for this aspect of your life.

Notice how it feels in your body when you think about appreciating your life.

How does your face feel,

Your neck and shoulders,

Your stomach,

Your heart?

Again,

Open your heart and deepen your awareness to the physical sensations in your body and connect them to this sense of appreciation of your life.

Then silently repeat for yourself,

I am safe.

I am at ease.

I am kind to myself and accept myself as I am.

I am filled with peace and joy.

Let these feelings of appreciation and gratitude for yourself and for your life percolate into your heart,

Restoking that ember of warmth at your heart.

Breathe in the warm glow,

Breathe out the warm glow,

Holding the focus of your awareness at your heart.

Now let go of all of the imagery and bring your palms together and place them in front of your heart.

And for a few breaths,

Simply let your mind and body settle.

Simply enjoy being without thinking or doing.

Then take that warm glow of self-appreciation and feeling calm and centered into the rest of your day.

Meet your Teacher

Amy Pattee ColvinSamish Island, USA

4.5 (2 163)

Recent Reviews

Alice

December 19, 2024

Thank you for this very affirming meditation 💕🌙☀️💕🌙☀️💕🌙☀️

sarah

January 17, 2021

I love this meditation as it guides us to have the space to be quietly and gently very self aware. Thank you ~

Sarah

October 10, 2020

Lovely! Thank you for encouraging me to be still and appreciate what is❤️

Ken

April 26, 2020

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Lauren

March 10, 2020

I listened to this lovely meditation while I did a relaxing yoga sequence. It was very encouraging. Thank you! Namaste friend. 🙏🏻

Dominiek

April 29, 2019

Very clear message and nice voice. Thank you 🙏🏻.

Ming

February 7, 2019

Wow, beautiful meditation that opened my heart chakra. Thank you

emma

October 18, 2018

Amazing. So soothing, this was a great way to break my stress and remember the things that are good in me. Thank you.

Athena

October 8, 2018

Lovely. Beautiful voice, clear instruction, memorable. Thank you

Sallyann

August 3, 2018

Hard for me to appreciate myself and worth..thank you

Imogen

June 15, 2018

A beautiful meditation

Alessandra

April 30, 2018

A very good recharging short meditation. Thank you.

Tanya

April 6, 2018

Fabulous! Love the imagery, very calming and soothing!

Betty

April 1, 2018

Perfect, just what I needed

Shelly

February 20, 2018

Excellent. Thank you!

Jayne

February 1, 2018

One of my favourite meditations, very calming. Thank you

Dorthe

January 17, 2018

Thank you! A wonderful exercise in the morning. ✨🙏🏻

Steven

January 8, 2018

Very nice to achieve so much in so little time, thank you....

Vee

December 12, 2017

Very nice but a bit rushed. Still, I'll gratefully return to this.

Susan

December 4, 2017

Thank you 🌈wonderful 🙏

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