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ACT|CBT: The Theatre Of The Mind (Never Mind Your Mind)

by Reuben Lowe

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In The Theatre of the Mind, we imagine our thoughts as actors performing on stage. Instead of getting caught in the storylines, we sit in the audience—aware, steady, and free to decide which “performers” deserve our attention. This shift brings clarity and choice. We close with one powerful, rhyming affirmation that repeats softly until it fades… so its message lingers in your mind and settles deeply into the subconscious.

MindfulnessAcceptance And Commitment TherapyCognitive Behavioral TherapyThought DetachmentSelf CompassionConsciousnessAffirmationTheaterFreedom From ThoughtsObserver MindsetConsciousness Growth

Transcript

This is a body of work called Never Mind Your Mind.

The Theatre of the Mind.

This metaphor is a common analogy in mindfulness and acceptance and commitment therapy literature.

This has been adapted for the purpose of unhooking from unhelpful thoughts particularly.

Imagine your mind as a grand old theatre.

The stage is large,

The lights are bright and there's a performance going on all the time.

The actors on the stage are your thoughts.

Some are loud and dramatic,

Demanding your attention.

Others are quieter,

Waiting in the wings but still present.

Picture it now.

Your thoughts take on roles.

Some play the critic,

Always pointing out flaws and doubting your abilities.

Others the worrier,

Pacing back and forth,

Forecasting disaster.

The stage is filled with these actors and more,

Each playing their part,

Each delivering their lines.

Sometimes it feels like these performances are all there is.

You're so engrossed in the drama on stage that you forget where you are.

It's as if the theatre disappears and you're no longer in the audience.

You're in the play itself,

Swept up in the story.

But now imagine getting off the stage,

Taking a step back.

You sit down in the audience,

Far enough from the stage to see the bigger picture.

The performances are still happening,

But from here they look different.

You can see that the critic is just playing a role.

It is serving a purpose.

It's concerned.

The worrier is acting out a script.

It too,

Serving a purpose.

It's fearful.

These thoughts aren't you,

They're actors putting on a show.

And here's the thing.

As the audience,

You have a choice.

You don't have to believe everything the actors say.

You don't have to follow their lead.

You can watch the performance with curiosity,

Even compassion.

Knowing that you are not the actors.

You are the observer,

The one who sees the play unfold.

What actors have been taking centre stage in your mind lately?

Which of the actors are truly worthy of the energy and attention you give them?

How might it feel to sit back in the audience,

Watching the performance,

Rather than getting caught up in the drama?

I choose to embrace the growth of my consciousness by allowing this affirmation to settle within,

Nurturing me just as I am in this moment.

Every single time I notice an unhelpful thought simply as a thought,

My consciousness evolves just a little more.

My mind is a stage where thoughts take their place.

I sit in the audience,

Granting them space.

My mind is a stage where thoughts take their place.

I sit in the audience,

Granting them space.

My mind is a stage where thoughts take their place.

I sit in the audience,

Granting them space.

My mind is a stage where thoughts take their place.

I sit in the audience,

Granting them space.

Meet your Teacher

Reuben LoweMelbourne, Australia

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Recent Reviews

Robin

September 1, 2025

We all can get caught up in the stories we tell ourselves. I have learned from you to “notice” them and let them pass by. Thank you Reuben for all you do 🙏🏻. Looking forward to another Live event for those of us in the US.

Helene

August 30, 2025

I love the metaphor of my mind being a stage. I studied drama and find the concept of ‘suspension of belief’ fascinating. When we watch a performance at the theatre we are invited to believe that what we see is real. Sometimes we believe it so strongly that we become immersed in it, crying, laughing, feeling happy, sad or worried. But we know it isn’t real. We temporarily allow our self to believe something that isn’t true. It is the same for our minds, if our thoughts are the actors, we can choose to believe which are real and which aren’t. Which thoughts are helpful and which are unhelpful. We stand back and watch the play of life. 
I love it😄 Thanks Reuben for planting these images. 🙏


 




 I love the metaphor of my mind being a stage. I studied drama and find the concept of ‘suspension of belief’ fascinating. When we watch a performance at the theatre we are invited to believe that what we see is real. Sometimes we believe it so strongly that we become immersed in it, crying, laughing, feeling happy, sad or worried. But we know it isn’t real. We temporarily allow our self to believe something that isn’t true. It is the same for our minds, if our thoughts are the actors, we can choose to believe which are real and which aren’t. Which thoughts are helpful and which are unhelpful. We stand back and watch the play of life. 
I love it😄 Thanks Reuben for planting those images. 🙏




 


Binesikwe

August 30, 2025

Great reminder to be the observer! Thank you 🙏🏼🪷🪶☀️

d•i•

August 29, 2025

Clever & innovative. The metaphor works, as does the affirmation/mantra at the conclusion. Cheers and Bravo!👏🏼

Shauna

August 29, 2025

Working through ACT with an ADHD therapist and these are SO helpful Reuben! Thanks

Senga

August 29, 2025

Dear Reuben, thank you for this reminder. I do use your words now.....unhelpful thought. 🙏💖🌟🕊

Tanusree

August 29, 2025

Good morning Reuben! Even though I’ve done this wonderful course I still need to be reminded all the time by you. You always, always know which one I need! It’s true Reuben! Thoughts come and go but I think you already know by now that I have this amazing knack of getting caught up in them. So, while I listened to you just now I found myself smiling, feeling lighter and happy once again. Forever❤️💕 Tanusree

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