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Meeting Unrest (Exercising Divine Laziness, Part 1)

by Jeremy Cole

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Life can be so hectic that, even during times when we seek to relax, powerful forces of body and mind pull us back into action. Contact these habitual forces of unrest using simple exercises, feeling their gravity and momentum, and investigating where they come from and where they go. Explore what life can be like free of their tyranny. This guided practice is the first part in the Exercising Divine Laziness series, an experiential adjunct to themes explored in Jeremy's book Divine Laziness: The Art of Living Effortlessly.

RelaxationInner UnrestAwarenessTensionBody ScanDivine LazinessTension ReleaseContrastState RecognitionHabitual TensionGuided Practices

Transcript

Find yourself a posture that allows you to relax and settle into it.

Just relax into this posture.

Feel the body as it sits here on the floor or on a chair or as it lies here or as it stands here.

Just relax into this posture.

Feel the ground holding you up and rest on that.

Just relax.

Bring your attention to this body and move your attention through this body.

Start at the top of the head and move down through the face and the neck,

Through the shoulders and the arms,

Through the back,

The chest and the abdomen.

Through the hips,

The legs and the feet.

Just let this body come to rest.

Bring your attention to this whole body as it rests here.

Just let it relax.

Feel it relax.

And as your attention rests on this body,

Let it come to any areas that are not relaxed or that won't relax or that can't relax.

Find any areas like that,

Any areas of unrest and just let your attention settle on that place.

It may be the eyes or the mouth.

It may be the shoulders or the belly.

Just find some area in the body that won't rest,

That is not relaxed,

That feels tense or tight or constricted,

That feels ready to go,

Not ready to rest.

If you can't locate any areas of unrest or if you can't feel them,

It may be helpful to create an area of unrest just for this exercise.

Perhaps the belly is a good place to do this.

Slightly tighten the area of the belly as if you're holding something in or holding something out or ready to get up and go.

Just rest the tension on this area of unrest wherever you feel it.

Forget about trying to change it,

Trying to make it the way we want it to be or the way we think it should be.

For now we're just interested in the way it is.

Feel how it is,

This area of unrest.

Contact it.

Feel it.

Meet it.

Really meet it.

Feel what it's like not to rest,

Not to relax in this area.

Feel this area of unrest and feel how it wants to be doing something,

Anything other than just resting,

Just relaxing.

Just feel that sense of unrest.

Feel tension on it.

How does it feel?

Where are its edges?

Where does it start and where does it end?

Just feel it.

Maybe it changes as we hold tension on it.

Maybe it shifts.

Maybe it dissolves and does relax.

Maybe it comes to rest.

Or maybe it grows stronger,

This sense of unrest.

Maybe it gets tighter.

Maybe it gets tenser.

Just hold it in awareness.

Just watch it and feel it.

It's okay.

It's not a problem.

It's just the way it is.

Notice how unnecessary it is.

Notice how even when there's nothing to do,

We're just sitting here or lying here or standing here with nothing to do and yet still this area of unrest is doing something.

Just notice that and note that it is not necessary.

It's just a habit.

Who knows where it comes from?

But here it is.

So we might as well get to know it.

Just hold attention on that place of unrest.

Keep holding it in attention.

Keep watching it.

Keep feeling it.

If it's hard to detect,

You can make it a little stronger.

You can put a little more energy into that holding,

Into that unrest so that it becomes clear.

So we can really meet it and really feel it.

Get to know it.

And now slowly,

Gently see if we can allow that area of unrest to relax a little.

How does that feel?

Notice.

See if we can let that tension or that tightness or that constriction drain away a little.

See if we can move that unrest towards a state of rest.

Just relax.

There's nothing to do.

Just relax.

If that area of unrest can come to rest,

Notice the contrast between unrest and rest.

Notice the contrast between tightness and relaxation.

Hold that sense of relaxation and awareness and notice how this is our natural state.

The state of rest,

The state of relaxation is our natural state.

A state of unrest,

A state of doing or needing to do is something that is added as it's needed and often the force of habit has us adding what is not needed so that even when there's nothing to do,

Still we are doing.

Even when there's nowhere to go,

Still we get up and go.

Get a sense of that contrast between rest and unrest.

Notice how the state of rest is our natural state.

Now bring attention back to the whole body as it rests here.

Feel the whole body as one resting entity,

As one field of relaxation.

Relaxed,

Resting,

But alive,

Energised,

With nothing to do.

We simply do nothing.

Spend some time feeling that relaxed energy and when you're ready,

Open your eyes,

Take a breath and carry that state of rest into your day.

And notice as we go about our lives,

When and how we hold unrest.

Notice how even when there's nothing to do,

We want to do something anyway.

Notice how when there's nowhere to go,

Still we want to go.

And get a sense of the contrast between a state of unrest and just resting.

And know that the state of rest is the natural state.

And know that we don't need to add anything onto that when it's not needed.

Know that we can simply rest here as this.

And when there's nothing to do,

We can just do nothing.

And when there's nowhere to go,

We can just go nowhere.

And when there's nothing to be,

We can just be nothing.

Meet your Teacher

Jeremy ColeWellington, New Zealand

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Recent Reviews

Anthony

October 23, 2021

So helpful and easy to follow,I Wil use this in my daily life. Iโ€™m looking forward to hearing the next few sessions namaste ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป l

Leonie

May 31, 2019

Being aware of the areas where I hold tension. It helps. There is no need right now for this tension. I really intent to hold on to that for today ๐Ÿ™. Thank you ๐Ÿ™

Alexander

May 18, 2019

Thanks for finishing the last sentence ๐Ÿ‘ This meditation guides you through body awareness and regarding discomforts from a place of curiosity and acceptance rather than fear. Fantastic, thank you.

toni

March 27, 2019

Great exercise. Thank you.

Melody

March 26, 2019

Thank you. Iโ€™m down with an injury so perfect timing to find you.

Adonica

March 3, 2019

That was just what I needed. Thank you!

Elaine

March 3, 2019

Thank you for this practice and helping me get in touch with my unrest. Namaste

Marianne

March 2, 2019

Just what I need right now, and excellently done. Thank you for sharing this helpful meditation.

Sue

February 15, 2019

Really excellent and effective. Thanks very much. Bookmarked!

Rebecca

February 7, 2019

Exactly what I needed in this time and space. Thank you for sharing this with me and the world. I see the light in you. ๐Ÿคฒโค๏ธ๐Ÿคฒ

Jean

February 6, 2019

Interesting and helpful. Iโ€™ll keep โ€œdoingโ€ this one :)

Ralph

February 6, 2019

Perfect tone and flow. Bookmark

Nette

January 29, 2019

Lovely. Thank you. Your voice is so easy to listen to, which always makes following a meditation so easy. The end was a bit abrupt. It kind of jolted me out, which was a bit unfortunate given the state of relaxation the meditation had taken me to. Other than that it was pure bliss and I have bookmarked it. ๐Ÿ˜Š

Larry

January 29, 2019

The State of Relaxation..... I think Iโ€™ll move there โ—๏ธ

Shelley

January 29, 2019

Made z lot of sense. Will bookmark this.

Connie

January 29, 2019

Excellent guided meditation. The last words were cut off. "When there is nothing to be...". Be nothing? I would like to know if my assumption is correct.โ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝโ˜บ๏ธ

Cyn

January 29, 2019

Thank you! I could benefit from more not doing, the meditation was very relaxing!

Robyn

January 29, 2019

Thanks! Great! ๐Ÿ™

joe

January 28, 2019

My head is so loud this morning thank you for taking the time to share this meditation with me

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