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Heal Hurt Or Painful Emotions With 4 Simple Questions

by Oana Dragan

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Painful emotions are the alarm bells that wake up to tell you “It’s time to do The Work.” When you believe your negative thoughts you suffer. When you don’t believe them, you don’t suffer. It’s as simple as that. Suffering is optional. This is as true for you as any other human out there. developed by American speaker and Author, Byron Katie, The Work is a method of self-inquiry. A very simple, but high effective tool for expanding consciousness to gain a higher perspective and in doing so, alleviate suffering and find joy within. There are 4 liberating questions to ask yourself. And we will take each, one by one in this insightful meditative journey based solely on Byron Katie's teachings. If you'd like to dive deeper into The Work, please visit her website. Look forward to hearing how your meditation went.

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Transcript

Hello and welcome to this meditation to help you alleviate any form of suffering with four simple questions.

My name is Juana and I am honored to guide you on this journey of healing and self-inquiry today.

We'll first begin by dropping into stillness.

If you haven't done so already,

Find yourself a quiet and comfortable space where you won't be disturbed.

Close your eyes and tune into your breath.

How is it doing?

Is your breath shallow or deep,

Strained or easy-flowing,

Short or long?

There's no right or wrong answer here,

Simply notice what is true for you in this moment.

Ask yourself,

How can I breathe in a way that brings me a bit more grounding and peace?

Listen closely to your inner wisdom and bring forth more calm.

Indeed,

There's a well of wisdom that already exists within you.

Let's dive deep and access it together.

I'd like you to bring to mind your cause of suffering,

The resistance you are experiencing.

Recall the specific situation that is causing disturbance within you.

Who or what upsets,

Angers or saddens you?

Why?

If any hard emotions surface,

Sit with them,

Don't resist or make them wrong.

They are allowed to be here.

Give yourself permission to fully feel.

Be with your emotions,

Hear them out.

Painful emotions are the alarm bells that wake up to tell you it's time to do the work.

When you believe your negative thoughts,

You suffer.

When you don't believe them,

You don't suffer.

It's as simple as that.

Suffering is optional.

This is as true for you as any other human out there.

Developed by American speaker and author Byron Cady,

The work is a method of self-inquiry.

A very simple but highly effective tool for expanding consciousness to gain a higher perspective and in doing so alleviate suffering.

There are four liberating questions to ask yourself,

And we will take each one by one.

Now,

With the belief that is causing you pain in mind,

Ask yourself the following.

1.

Is it true?

Is this story true?

Don't overthink it.

Allow whatever answer comes forth from within.

2.

Can I absolutely know that it's true?

3.

How do I react when I believe this thought?

4.

Who would I be without this thought?

Tune into yourself and listen.

Now let's find the turnaround,

The opposite of the thought in question.

So for example,

If your thought is,

I need someone to act a certain way in order for me to be happy and at peace,

The contrary of that would be,

I don't need anything from this person in order to be happy.

It's believing that I do that is keeping me unhappy.

Go ahead and uncover it.

What is the opposite of your belief?

Is it as true or truer than the original thought?

Allow your own insight to shine through here.

This turnaround gives your consciousness an opportunity to expand,

To see things in a different light rather than being stuck in a limited reality of your making.

With continued practice and intent,

You can use Byron Katie's wonderful work to sort through any problem you are facing,

So be sure to return to this recording anytime you need it.

I'm always here for you.

Before we transition out of this meditation,

Take this moment to honor yourself for showing up in this big way and choosing to deal with problems in a healthy manner.

It's not always easy to face ourselves head on,

But it is always worth it.

Breathe in gratitude for the work you did here today.

I am so very proud of you,

And I hope you are too.

Remember to be compassionate with yourself as you navigate through all of life's turbulent moments.

You'll come out of it that much wiser and stronger for it.

And when you're ready,

Feel your body to earth ground connection anchoring you into the here and now.

Wiggle your fingers,

Then your toes,

And slowly open your eyes.

Thank you for joining me.

Please do share any insights you received,

I always love hearing from you,

And celebrating your breakthroughs,

Both big and small.

Hope to have you join me again on another inward journey real soon.

Blessings to you.

Meet your Teacher

Oana DraganToronto, ON, Canada

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Recent Reviews

Jo

March 26, 2025

Soothing heart nourishment with curiosity 💜🥰💜 a beautiful supportive pause to reflect and reframe. Thank you Oana… yet another beautiful gift you share xxx 💜🦋🌈🦋💜

Seyi

December 3, 2023

I read Byron Katie's book "Loving What Is" several years ago and this meditation was a great refresher on doing The Work. It had been so long since I tried this technique but the process remains a powerful reminder that there is so much that we can't truly *know*, especially when it comes to others and their motives. I still find the "Turnaround" challenging with certain subjects like trauma, but I do believe the Turnaround is generally effective for everything else; it is especially effective for reclaiming our sense of agency. The practice of going through the four questions is so helpful in dismantling observations from the feelings, and feelings from the narrative. I came to the realization at the end of the practice that both narratives that I walked through can be true (what I was telling myself and its opposite). There was something very freeing about allowing myself to hold that duality. And I felt an immediate release of the tension as a result. So thank you, Oana, for this introduction (or in my case: refresher!) on The Work and providing this very accessible way to practice the technique. 🙏🏾

Braxia

November 25, 2023

Thank you. It was a nice meditation. Your voice was soothing, and the music was the right tone.

Guillermo

November 22, 2023

Oana, this was a really interesting practice. The question asked will be hanging around through my day. And for sure thats something good, cause it's way better to face and welcome this difficult feelings than trying to run away or hide them. Thank you so much for being here with your voice, i'm looking forward for more time together ✨

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