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Sitting And Breathing Into Your Anger

by Jody Vasallo

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guided
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Meditation
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This guided practice is for when you are feeling irritable, angry, impatient or frustrated with yourself, with life or with another person. Anger is a natural emotion that everyone experiences, learning how to sit and breathe through these sometimes uncomfortable feelings is incredibly liberating.

AngerAcceptanceBreathingMindfulnessBody ScanRelaxationEmotional AcceptanceMindful ObservationTension ReleaseSmiling TechniqueBreathing AwarenessSmiling

Transcript

Today's meditation is a meditation for anger.

So find yourself a comfortable seat.

This may be sitting in a chair,

Maybe on the floor with your spine straight or it may be laying down,

Whichever feels more appropriate for you today.

Let's start the meditation by taking three deep breaths,

Inhaling through the nose and then exhaling out through the mouth.

And again inhaling through the nose and exhaling out the mouth.

And again big inhale through the nose and for the last one exhaling out with sound.

So just bring your spine back upright.

Place a gentle smile on the lips and let's start to say hello to some of that anger that you may be feeling,

That frustration,

That wood energy,

That liver energy,

That short-sighted,

That inflexible,

That frustrated part of you.

Let's just gently smile into that wonderful emotion of anger that we resist,

That we try to tame,

We try to hide away.

Just keep taking the breath down into wherever that anger is,

Trying to bury itself within your body.

There may be some tense sensations happening in the upper body,

In the sides of the neck,

The back of the neck,

The shoulders,

The jaw.

Have a sense of just swallowing to release any tension that's in the neck and the throat,

Maybe moving the jaw side to side and allowing the shoulders to soften down the back of the body.

And really trying to surrender and let go of that resistance to the anger.

Instead just giving yourself permission to sit and be and accept this frustration,

This impatience.

Just keep breathing into it.

And allowing it.

And investigating.

Trying not to be attached to the story of where the anger originated or what triggered it.

But simply using the awareness and the acceptance to just observe it.

Breath after breath after breath.

Moment by moment by moment.

And the mind will want to wander back to the story.

It's only natural.

And again just allowing those sensations in the body that this emotion has triggered.

And returning to that place of allowing,

Of acceptance,

Of inquiry.

And then bringing a gentle smile to the lips as you just nurture that space in you that is feeling angry,

That is feeling irritated,

That is feeling impatient.

Just giving yourself permission to feel these feelings.

And then let go of these feelings to resist identifying and instead just giving yourself permission to accept and surrender.

That this is how you are feeling in this moment.

But this does not have to be how you will be feeling in a few moments time.

Gently observing sensations.

Continuing to soften in any areas of your body that you feel have become rigid,

Inflexible.

So let's take three more deep breaths before we come out of the meditation.

And then just acknowledging that the meditation is ending and these sensations may remain,

These feelings,

These emotions,

Or you may choose to leave them behind with the meditation.

Gently starting to wrinkle your fingers and your toes,

Placing a gentle smile on your lips and then very,

Very gently opening your eyes and bringing yourself back into the room.

Meet your Teacher

Jody VasalloEurobodalla Shire Council, Australia

4.6 (268)

Recent Reviews

Mark

January 21, 2026

My intense anger and resentment subsided. Thank you 🙏

Hazel

December 22, 2025

I loved the space just to be with my feelings. I wasn't fully understanding why I was feeling angry but have more clarity now. Thank you!

Nicole

July 14, 2025

Wonderful

Gail

November 15, 2024

Beautiful 🙏🏻

Gemma

September 19, 2024

Thank you.for reminding to acknowledge the feeling and detach from the story

Adelaide

July 17, 2024

I found this meditation very beneficial for me. It provided me the space to observe my emotions instead of pushing them away. Thank you for holding this space 🙏🏻💚

Ryan

December 11, 2021

Finally a pactice that honors anger. I appreciate making space for the feelings and sensations rather than having a goal to "simply let it go". Thank you. Smiling was not in the cards for me today, but maybe at some point(s) I'll be able to greet anger with spacious love.

Blu

September 30, 2020

thank you 🙏🙏🙏

Anthony

May 1, 2020

Excellent short meditation to tame anger, with a warm, steady voice. Thank you for your guidance 🙏

Shelly

February 29, 2020

This really helped me calm down and accept my anger in the moment. Very soothing voice, peaceful meditation.

kit

January 3, 2020

Gratefully surprised. I never would have thought smiling at my anger would help me connect to self compassion and acceptance. Thank you!

Sooz

July 29, 2019

What a lovely and gentle meditation! Thank you. 🙏🏼

Jen

July 28, 2019

This was such a great way to deal with anger! I appreciated the new way of looking at that emotion.

Jillian

July 26, 2019

Very calming and centering, I appreciate the encouragement to be with the anger and not resist it. Thank you!!

Matt

July 26, 2019

Wonderful, great pace and voice.

Anne

July 26, 2019

Great advice and lovely meditation

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